Ukuthembela - ingabe lokhu kuyintando yenhlalo?

Sonke sasizwile igama elithi "ngokuthembela". Kwavela njengezwi lesayensi, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lathola izici zesimane ezimbi ngokuphelele. Ukuthembela kuyinto eyaziwa kakhulu, ehambisana nokwenqaba komuntu ukuba anakekele okuqukethwe kwakhe siqu.

Kodwa-ke, yini le nto emphakathini wethu? Kungenzeka yini namhlanje ukukhuluma ngokuxhomeka komphakathi? Ake sicabangele lezi zindaba ngokuningiliziwe.

Incazelo yemqondo

Ngakho, leli gama lithola incazelo yalo kumachazamazwi ahlukene. Ngokuvamile, kusho lokhu okulandelayo: isifiso sokuphila ngemali yabanye, ukushiywa kwemithwalo yabo yemfanelo yomphakathi. Ukuthembela - lokhu kuyimfanelo yobuntu ehlangana nabantu abaningi.

Isibonelo, indodana endala, okwazi ukuthola eyedwa, uhlala nonina. Uzinikele ezenzweni zakhe zokuzilibazisa, ukhulume nabangani uma, njengoba umzali wakhe osekhulile esephoqelelwe ukuba asebenze emisebenzini eminingana, ukuze athole inzalo yakhe engazi lutho.

Noma esinye isibonelo, lapho ukuxhomeka kuyindlela yokuphila. Indodakazi isetshenziselwe ukuxazulula yonke imibuzo yakhe ngosizo lwabazali bayo. Futhi nakuba eshadile futhi enengane yakhe, uphonsa zonke izinkathazo zomkhaya wakhe emahlombe abazali nabayeni bakhe, kuyilapho yena ngokwakhe, njengomdlali ophumelelayo, esebenza emsebenzini, noma ekuvakasheni, noma ekuqopheni.

Izibonelo ezinjalo zalokhu kuziphatha ziyaziwa kahle. Nokho, sizocubungula inkinga eyinkimbinkimbi. Lokhu kuyinto efana nokuxhomeka komphakathi.

Uyini lolu hlobo lokuziphatha?

Ngokwezibalo zengqondo, lokhu kuziphatha kuhlotshaniswa nesifiso esizwakalayo somuntu ukuba ashintshe umthwalo wemfanelo yomphakathi ngezinyathelo zabo emahlombe abanye. Lokhu kuziphatha kuhlolwa ngokucophelela yi- psychology yomsebenzi. Okuyisisekelo salo kanje.

Abasebenzi kuleli qembu abasheshayo "ukunikeza okusemandleni abo" ohlelweni olugcwele. Ngokuvamile balingisa umsebenzi wabo, zama ukugwema umthwalo wemfanelo. Isisebenzi sifuna ukulahlekelwa esixukwini, ukugwema ingxenye yemisebenzi eyabelwe yona. Lesi simo sihlotshaniswa kokubili ubuvila bokuqala kanye nezici zobuntu bomuntu. Futhi, abantu bavame ukuzama ukuphindaphindiwe, ukuze babonakale bengabasebenzi bokusebenza ngokumelene nesizinda sabanye abasebenzi futhi bagweme ukulahlwa kwezenhlalakahle.

Endabeni yokuvimbela ukuxhomeka komphakathi

Ngokuvamile, abaqashi bacabanga ngale ndaba. Kunezinyathelo ezihlukahlukene zokukhuthaza abasebenzi ukuba basebenze. Phakathi kwazo yi-akhawunti yokufeza komuntu ngamunye, kanye nomholo wokulinganisa umsebenzi wabasebenzi, njalonjalo.

Zonke lezi zinyathelo zibalulekile. Phela, ukuthembela akuyona nje isici somuntu siqu, kodwa futhi nesici esibangela ukulahlekelwa okukhulu kwenkampani.