Ukubhapathizwa kwengane: imithetho yomkhosi.

Wonke umzali unelungelo lokukhetha ukubhapathiza ingane yakhe eyigugu noma cha. Kodwa maduze nje, imibhangqwana emisha ikhetha ukunikeza ingane ilungelo lokukhetha futhi lihlehlise ubhapathizo ekuzikhetheleni kwakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali abakholwayo beqiniso bazama ukukhanda ingane yabo ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ngokoqobo kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila, ngoba ngokusho kwenkolelo, emva kwenqubo enjalo umuntu unalo ingelosi yakhe yokugcina.

Inqubo yokubhapathiza ingane iyisiko elifihlekile eliphakamisa imibuzo eminingi. Kungcono ukuxhumana nompristi ngaphambi komkhosi wobhapathizo , kodwa ungafunda izimpendulo zemibuzo ejwayelekile kulokhu kulesi sihloko.

Umbuzo oyinhloko abazali abawubuzayo kusho ukuthi ubhapathizo lwengane. Ngokusho kweBhayibheli, ingane ebhapathiziwe ingaphansi kokuvikelwa kukaNkulunkulu futhi ithola ingelosi yakhe yomgcini kanye nomgcini ongcwele.

Yini abazali okufanele bayenze uma benenkolo ehlukile?

Okokuqala, kumele bafinyelele ekunciphiseni futhi banqume ukuthi hlobo luni lwenkolo ingane yabo izoyisho. Kodwa-ke, kuphela kwabazali abangaba khona enqubo lapho ingane ibhapathizwa (imithetho yomkhosi ivimbela abazali benye ikholo ukuthi bangabandakanyeki kwisakramente). Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu kukhetha akuyona nje isimiso noma umthetho wokuphila emphakathini - lokhu kuyisenzo esibi kakhulu futhi kubalulekile ukunamathela kumasiko wekholo elikhethiwe ekukhulisweni kwengane ngemuva kokubhapathizwa.

Ngingabhapathiza nini ingane?

Ngokusho kwamasiko okholo lobu-Orthodox, umhlangano wokubhapathizwa uqhutshwa kungakapheli izinsuku ezingama-40 emva kokuzalwa. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi lona wesifazane akanalo ilungelo lokungena esontweni phakathi kwamasonto okuqala okuphuma ngemuva, ngoba kubhekwa "kungcolile". Empeleni, ingane ingabhapathizwa ngaphambili, kodwa umama akakwazi ukukhona ngalesi sikhathi ethempelini. Akukho lutho olunecala lokuthi unquma ukungena kule nqubo ngenyanga noma ngisho nonyaka emva kokuzalwa, akekho onelungelo lokukukhansela.

Ukubhapathizwa kwengane kungukubusa kokukhetha igama.

Ngokuvamile igama lithathwa ngabazali ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa, ngokusho amagama angcwele, avela kwamakhalenda esonto ngosuku lokuzalwa kwengane. Kodwa kunezikhathi ezinjalo ukuthi amagama anjalo awakwazi ngokuphelele ukubhekana nezimo zanamuhla, ngoba amagama asendulo anzima, isibonelo, i-Theopent, izobangela imizwa eminingi kwabanye. Kulokhu, unelungelo lokuzikhethela igama. Uma igama lezintandokazi lomntwana lingabonakali kwamakhalenda esonto, khetha okufanele kakhulu, isibonelo, u-Alina - Angelina. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi amagama anjalo angasiza ekuvikeleni ingane ebuhlotsheni obubi nakwezintambo. Kodwa ekukholweni kwe-Orthodox lokhu akushiwo, njengoba inkolelo yafika kithi evela e-Islam.

Indlela yokukhetha u-godparents?

Ukuzikhethela kwabankulunkulukazi kufanele kuhanjiswe ngokungathí sina. Kumele kube ngabantu abakwazi ukubhapathiza ingane, imithetho ifana ncamashi, futhi kufanele kube ngamakholwa (ukholo olulodwa nabazali nengane). Ezintabeni zikaNkulunkulu awukwazi ukuthatha abantu abanezinkolo ezihlukene, umbhangqwana oshadile, amakholi nezinduna, abagulayo ngokwengqondo, abaphansi futhi bangene ethempelini ngesimo sokudakwa. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi u-godfather okhethiweyo nonkulunkulukazi abangeyona i-Orthodox, kodwa balungele ukuthola lolo kholo ngokwabo - kumele bahambe ngenqubo ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane. Isiphambano somntanakho singaba yinye kuphela, kodwana kufuze sibe nobulili obufanako nomntwana.

Umkhosi onjengokubhapathizwa kwengane, imithetho yakhe enzima kakhulu, ayinayo imigqa eqinile ekukhetheni isiphambano. Ngombono osebenzayo, kungcono ukhethe isiphambano esinemiphetho ehlangene ukuze ingane ingalimali ngengozi. Ngeke kube yensimbi eyigugu, kodwa i-aluminium evamile noma enye enye insimbi.