Kuphi lapho ungazi khona eMoscow ngendoda nokuthi ungayenza kanjani?

Umama osuka eminyakeni encane wasitshela ukuthi amantombazane ahloniphekile kufanele abe nesizotha, ungakhulumi nabantu abangabazi emgwaqweni, kodwa uhlale uthule futhi ulindele isikhulu sabo. Kodwa iminyaka iyahamba, futhi isikhulu asikho futhi cha.

Kuze kube manje, kunezindawo eziningi zokuphola lapho ungagcwalisa khona uhlu lwemibuzo bese ubeka isimo esithi "Ukufuna indoda eMoscow." Uma uhlose ukufuna isiphetho sakho kuwebhu, khumbula ukuthi leli cala alisho ngokushesha futhi alilula kakhulu. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, ngokweqiniso elijwayelekile, isigamu sesibili asikho ngokushesha. Kuyinto kuwe ukukhetha: ukwethemba isimangaliso noma ukuzothola injabulo yakho.

Uzohlangana kuphi eMoscow nomuntu?

Khumbula ukuthi abameleli bobulili obuhlukile nabo yonke indawo. Ungazijwayela nendoda ezokuthutha, emgwaqweni, endaweni yokudlela, eqenjini, emsebenzini, ogwini ngisho nasesidokotela. Awusoze wazi ukuthi uzothola kuphi ikusasa lakho. Kubalulekile ukuba ulungele lo mhlangano futhi ungaphuthelwa ithuba lakho.

Nsuku zonke iningi labantu abasha elidlula kithi. Iyiphi indlela elula yokumazi indoda eMoscow ?

EMoscow, kunezindawo lapho amadoda angena khona ukufuna amantombazane ngenxa yobuhlobo ngaphandle kwezibopho. Uma ubazi kule ndawo, kuyoba nzima kuwe ukuthi ushintshe indlela yokuxhumana futhi uqhubekele ebuhlotsheni obungathí sina. Kunezindawo lapho abantu beza khona ukuphumula kuphela inkampani yesilisa. Ngokuvamile ezindaweni ezinjalo azihlelwa ukuhlangabezana namantombazane. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ofanelekile ukuxhumana kunoma iyiphi indawo. Omunye ukhululekile ukukhulumisana e-cafe ngenkomishi yekhofi, kanti omunye - endaweni yokudansa. Ukukhetha indawo efanele ukuhlangana nendoda yisinyathelo esisodwa empumelelweni.

Uma unquma ukuthi udinga i-party-goer, kufanele uhambe kusesha lakhe le-nightclub. Njengoba ukhethe iqembu lapho umuntu omaziyo okufanele akwenze khona, cabanga: uhlangabezana nezinga lalesi sikhungo noma cha? Abathandi besilisa abahamba phambili kufanele bavakashele izindawo zokudlela eduze nezikhungo zebhizinisi. Abantu abanjalo abanaso isikhathi sokuchitha isikhathi besilungisa ukudla, ngakho abanakho isidlo sakusihlwa noma badla ekhaya. Uma unquma ukuthi indoda yakho yindoda yobuciko, yiya lapho ujwayelene nayo embonini yaseshashalazini noma egalari yobuciko. Ufuna incwadi-lover - unjenge-bookshop, umdlali webhola - uya kumdlalo, umculi - uye ekhonsathini, ebhange - uye ebhange, udokotela - uye esibhedlela. Ungazijwayeza nabantu abasha kuyo yonke indawo. Kodwa ukuze umhlangano wakho ube mnandi bobabili, kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi ubani ofunayo nokuthi iyiphi injongo.

Lapho singazi khona khona eMoscow ngendoda, sazibuza. Ungamheha kanjani? Ukuze indoda ijwayele intombazane, kudingeka ivele ngokwayo. Abantu abasha banesithakazelo emantombazaneni ngokobulili, besifazane kanye nesibalo. Ngakho-ke, akunconywa ukuba uhambisane nezitayela zamahhala zokugqoka ezifihla sonke isithunzi somzimba wakho. Izikebhe ezithende zizoletha isithombe sakho se-plasticity nomusa futhi ngeke sibhekwe yimuphi umuntu.

Ukuthandana e-PartyDate party

Uma ukhetha le ndawo ukuze ujwayelane nabo, khona-ke niyoba nezinzuzo eziningana:

1. Isimo sokuthandana esitolo sokudlela, lapho kwenzeka khona umhlangano, sikhuthaza ukuphumula nokuphumula emva kosuku olukhuni.

2. Etafuleni elihlukile wanikezwa le nsizwa kahle imizuzu engu-7.

3. Emva kwalesi sikhathi, abahlanganyeli besilisa baya etafuleni elilandelayo. Ekhadini lomzwelo, ubhala umqondo womuntu owayengaphambi kwakho.

4. Kwesimo lapho kusobala ukuthi ufuna ukwazi umuntu eduze, ungashintshanisa oxhumana nabo ngesikhathi esisodwa.

5. Iqembu leminyaka labahlanganyeli linqunywa ngesikhathi isimemezelo somcimbi. Lokhu kukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubudala obufunayo beqembu.

Manje uyazi ukuthi ungaphila khona eMoscow ngendoda. Sifisela inhlanhla othandweni kanye nomngane wakho omnandi ngendlela ozikhethela yona.