Ngubani impisi oyedwa? Isizathu esiyinhloko salokhu esigayegayeni

Ngisho noma kufanele ucabange ngokuthi ubani impisi oyedwa, imicabango kanye kukhona isithombe womuntu onolaka ubudala, sihlala ndawo ndawo ehlathini, loMfula ezinye emfuleni esigayegayeni, ukwazi ukuzwana kahle izilwane nezihlahla futhi ngokuphelele engayitholi ulimi ezivamile nabantu.

Ubudala Yiqiniso, inomthelela nemvelo, kodwa hhayi kuzo zonke izimo. Ukuhlola yofuzo enjabulweni nokucindezeleka, abacwaningi e-University of Warwick bathole nezimbangela eziningi ka moodiness.

It edumele futhi abantu avaliwe ngokuthi Biryukov. Nakuba izwi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa incazelo.

Ungubani wena, impisi?

Lokhu akulona ngempela izwi milozvuchnoe Ozhegov sezilimi e yakhe isichazamazwi, ngokuhunyushwa ngezindlela ezimbili: eqondile (oyedwa impisi) nengokomfanekiso (nelyudimets, engakhulumi indoda). Kukhona ifomu olukhulunywa - Biryukov ukubukeka ukwatile sullenly.

Okusho impisi ezahlukene kwizindawo ezahlukene yeRussia. Ngokwesibonelo, e-Astrakhan, isela, kwadlula isilo eSiberia - ibhere noma Izimbila, ku Rostov esifundeni esibizwa Biryukov inkunzi oneminyaka engu-, futhi orel - Ngenxa isiphika emfuleni.

Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, leli gama ubanjwe on, esiwuphawu lamahlubuka kusukela iphakethe kakhulu self-impisi futhi bavikele umphakathi wesintu.

Futhi nenye ozelwe zazo ukuphila emphakathini, kodwa kokubili ngokuzithandela wanikela indoda izimiso zakhe, impisi ... Kazi ukuthi kunezimiso ezilwaneni zasendle?

Biryukov ozalwa?!

Kodwa emuva ucwaningo ososayensi baseBrithani uye uzwakalise ukuthi introversion (aka - biryukovatost, ke - gxila ngokwabo) kuncike ubude isakhi ulawula ezingeni le-serotonin ebuchosheni womuntu.

The eside isakhi sofuzo, umuntu ngaphansi othambekele ukucindezeleka, melancholy causeless, intukuthelo ofuna ukuphumela obala futhi zokungazimiseli ukuxhumana.

Futhi akekho sezulu noma nezinkinga kwezomnotho kanye siqu ukwenze nalo, uma umuntu ukugxila nje ezintweni ezingekho, uma "elahlekile" yena imicabango yakhe embi ngisho uzama ukuthola yena - ukuthola okushiwo lodwa nolaka, ngalesi ukuthi bakusiphi isigaba sokuphila ke ngubani. impisi oyedwa futhi kukhona impisi oyedwa.

Okunye izimbangela nolobumnyama nesizungu

Ngaphezu ngezakhi zofuzo ikhodi, kunezinye izizathu ezenza abantu babe unkom 'idla yodwa. Le nqubo lide ngempela, kungase kuqale ekuqaleni kuka ebuntwaneni futhi ngaphandle ukubandakanywa imvelo.

Eyokuqala ukuna iqembu izingane engozini ozalwa kwesikhathi. Njengoba sazi sonke, kulondolozwa ingane ethambile, obstetricians ngokushesha uzamsusa unina futhi ibekwe endaweni incubator ekhethekile, bese ephula ukuba imvelo semvelo sawo ubunye usana nomama walo.

It kuvela ukuthi impilo akuyona usengozini, kodwa ngokwengqondo ... zonke izinto ngeminyaka noma ngisho ubandlululo akufanele kube - nosana uyakwazi ukubona noma yiluphi ulwazi on ezingeni esesimweni sokungaphili ngokuphelele. Ngakho wathatha - isizungu, akuholeli osizini uqobo. Lolu hlelo, ezoqhubeka kube nzima kakhulu "loba."

Lies ingane ebhokisini, ngisho ukucabanga ukuthi unjani impisi oyedwa, kodwa unakho ukuba ibe ngomunye.

I izimfanelo ukuze esigayegayeni esikhathini esisichitha sisodwa kungenza ube ukukhubazeka ngokomzimba, ezifana isisindo noma ngokwezifiso ukubukeka. Empeleni, lapha ingane iba akukho-iphutha icala - ilitshe inhlekisa, ukugcona futhi okungezona bezibona ontanga yayo, ngakho kodwa akukho okunye angakwenza baya yena futhi athukuthela ngaso umhlaba wonke.

Okwesikhashana noma unomphela

Cishe, akukho isiphetho, egcekeni, endaweni, lapho ngokuqondile wayengazi ukuthi ungubani impisi waziwa ukubaluleka wendawo. Kuwo wonke umuzi noma umuzana isiqiniseko ukuthola umuntu okucasulile ekuphileni ngaphezu kwabanye.

Lokhu kwabangela inzondo enkulu uhumusha zokungazimiseli ngokuphelele ukubona abantu abahlala yabo ehlukile kancane ezweni, taciturn, ungraciousness nokuba nesizungu.

Futhi ubani owazi ukuthi le ndoda, ngokusobala hlebnuvshie asemrarweni, nakakhulu ukujezisa wena isizungu. Nakuba mhlawumbe ebheka ukuze ngithole insindiso.

Phela, ngubani impisi oyedwa? Enhliziyweni yakhe, u kungaba emangalisayo, uhlobo, umuntu onomusa nje akukwenzi ithuba azibonakalise.

Futhi kahle, uma biryukovatost - into yesikhashana. Kusukela a lifetime nolobumnyama Kusengenzeka ukulondoloza eseyingane abadumazeki umphefumulo kubantu. Abantu abadala ngoyisiwula kusinda kakhulu. Bakhetha ukuthumelelana ukuba athwale isiphambano sakhe ukungabi nethemba kuze kube sekupheleni, ungamenzi abangane, ungathandi kumnandi, zingabantu bonke ecasulayo futhi konke. Ngaphandle owashiya umhlambi wakhe impisi uyaziqhenya.