Ukuthandana nabangaphandle emazweni angaphandle: ngokumelene nokuphikisana

E-Russia yanamuhla, amantombazane amaningi akhetha "ukusekela umkhiqizi wendawo" futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamahloni, ushada amaRashiya. Kodwa-ke, abesifazane abaningi baseRussia nabo babheka emazweni angaphandle kwezilwandle nakwababhikishi bendawo. Ngezinye izikhathi angaboni futhi angakholwa ngokwethembeka, futhi ngezinye izikhathi - enengqondo evulekile futhi enesithakazelo esiqotho. Lokhu kwenzeka ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene, futhi hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi okokuqala kunemibono ye-mercantile. Masiqhubekele kulokhu olwandle oluthukuthele lwezinkanuko zomuntu futhi sifunde ukuthi abalingani bethu abathandanayo, abashadile noma abalingani bafuna, bafuna ukwabelana kangcono emazweni angaphandle okuthandana nabangaphandle.

Irina V. kusuka eCherepovets

"Nganginakho konke okwenzekile, ngahamba nabangane bami ukuba ngizohlala eSpain, eMadrid ngahlangana noSanchez, umyeni wami wesikhathi esizayo, - ngaphambi kwalokho ngibhalana naye enkampanini eyodwa ye-Inthanethi. Ngangingazi ngisho iSpanishi ngalesosikhathi, ngikhuluma ngokunye ngezandla noma ngesiNgisi ephukile. Ngisithandana naleli zwe elifudumele elinomusa, kubantu bayo abahlala ngokungenisa izihambi futhi, eqinisweni, eSanchez, umyeni wami wesikhathi esizayo. Futhi impela imfihlo: thina e-Cherepovets ngeke uthole i-tapas enjalo ne-gazpacho e-Andalusian. Ngifisa nje ngesidlo sasekhaya! Ngifunda ukupheka i-paella. "

U-Marina M. waseMoscow

"EMoscow, nganginomabhizinisi wami omncane - unwele wezinwele. Ngangingacabangi nhlobo ukuba ngizijwayele nabantu bezinye izizwe ngenhloso yobuhlobo obunzulu, iphrofayli endaweni yokuphola nabangaphandle basebenzise ngokuyinhloko ukufunda isiNgisi - ngikhulume nabezindaba. ELondon ngahamba ngivakashela umfowethu, ofunda lapho njengomklami. NginoJoseph, ngokumangalisayo, ngiphinde ngihlangana nomuntu wezinwele, kodwa sengiseseLondon. Wayekhona lapho elinde udadewabo, owayengumdwebo. Saxoxa ngalokhu, waba ngumthandi omkhulu we-ballet waseRussia. Phakathi kwethu njengokungathi u-spark waqala - uthando ekuqaleni kokubona. Kwakukhona ukuthi ngaphambi kokuba sikhulume naye endaweni yokuphola nabantu bezinye izizwe, ngisaphila eMoscow. Kulungile, sanquma - konke, lokhu kuyisikhathi! Manje sicabanga ukuthi singaphila eLondon noma eMoscow. "

U-Irina Sh. Uvela e-Urengoy

"EJalimane, ngadlulisela umsebenzi wokufundela emsebenzini, kodwa kwathiwa wayehlala endaweni engapheli, akazange ahlele okuthile kusengaphambili. U-Eric ngokwakhe uvela eCanada, usebenzela i-international corporation eBerlin, ngakho-ke sobabili siphelela esikebheni esifanayo - sifunda izwe elingalazi futhi sifunda isiJalimane ndawonye. Sahlangana kwenye indawo esaziwayo yokuphola. Ukufa, mhlawumbe. "

UZhenya wase-Ufa

"Ngakhulela emndenini ompofu kakhulu, ngaphonswa ngumyeni ophuzayo onomntwana ezandleni zami - ngakho ngashiywe yedwa. Kanye nomngane wami sakwazi ukuza ukusebenza njengomhlengikazi eFinland, lapha ngathola umyeni wami. Sithole umsebenzi wethu omusha endaweni yokuphola nabangaphandle - ekuqaleni sahamba ukuze sihlale, bese konke kwavela kahle. Angiyikufihla, kwakungenalo uthando olukhulu ekuqaleni, kwakukhona ukubalwa nje kuphela - ukuzinakekela wena nomntanakho. Kodwa-ke ngase ngijwayele umyeni wami, kuRaimo, ngakho sihlala. Ngiyamhlonipha kakhulu futhi ngiyazisa ububele bakhe nokukhathazeka kwakhe. Uzoba nesineke - uzothandana. "

Njengoba sibona, izisusa zokuhlangana kwamanye amazwe nezindaba zokuphila zingahluka kakhulu. Umuntu ufuna impilo engcono futhi aphishekela izithakazelo zobugovu kuphela, umuntu othanda nje lapho eqala ukubona - kumuntu, ezweni elisha, ngolimi, kumasiko noma endaweni yokudla yasekhaya. Ngezinye izikhathi zonke lezi zici zingaba khona ngezinga elithile.

Phakathi kwezinzuzo zalokhu kukhulumisana ukunyuka kwama-horizons. Umuntu ohamba kwamanye amazwe, ufunda ulwazi oluningi oluwusizo futhi uthuthuke njengomuntu. Ukufunda ezinye zezilimi zangaphandle ezingeni elifanele ukukhulumisana kwansuku zonke nakho kuyinzuzo enkulu. Njengomunye wabantu abakhulu abathi, "uzophila impilo eminingi njengoba uzofunda izilimi". Njengoba unesinye sezilimi zakwamanye amazwe, umuntu akakwazi ukuxhumana kuphela empilweni yansuku zonke, kodwa futhi njalo ubiza isikhundla esiphakeme esikhokhelwayo.

Izimo zezomnotho nazo zidlala indima enkulu yokuzijwayeza nabantu bangaphandle. Akusiyo imfihlo ukuthi umholo ojwayelekile eRussia futhi, uthi, noma kuphi eNorway ingahluka ngezikhathi ezithile. Ukuphila okuphakemeko kusiza ekubhekaneni ngokulula ngephithiphithi yasekhaya futhi kunika umuntu amathuba amaningi okuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu. Ukuhlinzekwa kwezimpesheni emazweni amaningi aseNtshonalanga kuphakeme kakhulu. Ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha kwekhwalithi eRussia kusengenzeka kuphela ngemali enhle kakhulu, emazweni amaningi aseNtshonalanga, umshuwalense wezokwelapha ikuvumela ukuba ufanelekele izinga eliphezulu kakhulu lwezinsizakalo zezokwelapha. Uma intombazane enomyeni wayo ongaphandle engenzile isinqumo sokuthatha imali, endaweni ethile e-Italy izokhokha ngo-2-3% ngonyaka, hhayi 9-15%, njengaseRussian Federation. Izibonelo zemihlomulo yezomnotho engafundiswa emkhatsini wasemaphandleni zinganikezwa kakhulu.

Noma kunjalo, isinqumo sokushada nomfokazi singase sihlangane nezinkinga eziningi ezinzima. Okokuqala, intombazane ivela endaweni engazijwayele futhi iphoqeleka ukuba ifinyelele. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongafunda kalula ulimi lwangaphandle, ngisho noma ejwayele. Isakhiwo somphakathi kanye namasiko kwelinye izwe lizohlukana kakhulu nakwejwayelekile. Ngisho nokuzibonakalisa kungasho okuthile okuhlukile - isibonelo, eBulgaria, ethi "yebo", abantu bayagubha amakhanda abo kusuka kolunye uhlangothi, okusho ukuthi "cha." E-US, emakhaya amaningi, ikakhulukazi emazweni aseningizimu ase-Alabama naseFlorida, akuyona into engokwesiko ukuthatha izicathulo endlini, ngakho-ke ngeke ukwazi ukuthola amakhadi asekhaya, kodwa kuzohlale kunamanzi ahlanzekile ahlanzekile.

Okwesibili, kuyindaba yenkolo. Uma umyeni wangaphandle angumSulumane, kungcono ukuxoxa ngalolu daba kusengaphambili, ukuze ukuphazamiseka komndeni nokwehlukana kungaveli kamuva. Kodwa-ke, ukwehluleka kuhlale kunokwenzeka lapha, kodwa ngenxa yalokhu, indoda kumele iqale ukuzwa isifiso sokumthola. Izinkinga zingase ziphakame ngisho nobuKristu, ngoba umKatolika noma umProthestani oshisekayo kakhulu akanakuqonda futhi amukele umlobokazi wakhe wama-Orthodox. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akuzona zonke izinto ezizobusheleleka uma omunye wabalingani ephendukela ekubeni yikholwa futhi omunye engakholelwa kuNkulunkulu.

Isimo sezulu kanye nokudla kuyindaba ehlukile. Uma ngabe le ntombazane iphile impilo yakhe yonke, isibonelo, e-Murmansk, khona-ke kuyoba yinto engavamile kakhulu kuye sonke isikhathi ukugcoba elangeni endaweni ethile emadolobheni aseMadrid. Ngisho noma imvelo encane ibekezelela ukushintsha kwesimo sezulu kulula, futhi kwezinye izimo ingase ibonakale iwusizo. Ngokuqondene nokudla, emazweni amaningi angaphandle ngeke uthola imikhiqizo yaseRussia yendabuko, njenge-buckwheat noma ngisho nokulinganisa kanye nesinkwa esimnyama. Ngokuvamile, isimo sezulu esishisa kakhulu kulokhu noma kuleli zwe, siba namandla ngokwengeziwe futhi sibheke ukudla izakhamuzi zayo ezizozisebenzisa.

Ekuphetheni, ngifuna ukuphawula ukuthi icala ngalinye liyilowo nalowo, ngakho-ke intombazane kufanele ithathe isinqumo sokushada noma ukushada nomfokazi. Kwezinye izimo, ama-pluses angadlulela amaminithi, futhi iselula entsha, eqinile yomphakathi izokwenziwa. Into eyinhloko ukuthatha lesi sinqumo ngamabomu nangenhloso, hhayi ukuba usike ehlombe.