Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma Natalia Pravdina futhi Luizy Hey
Kudala kwakukhona umbono umcabango material, futhi thina ngokwethu ukuheha empilweni yami okuhle nokubi. ubufakazi Scientific ngoba lo mbono alikho, kodwa ngaphandle kokuthi akuzange kwenzeke lokhu, ucabangani ngokuthile ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi kwenzeka konke kusenjalo? It Iziqinisekiso ngokungazi kusifaka engozini umcimbi othile.
Kuyini isiqinisekiso?
Isiqinisekiso - umushwana, kulula ukuze aqonde futhi akhumbule, wena ehlelwe inhlanhla uthando, ibhizinisi, ukuphila komkhaya, nokunye. Kulokho-ke kumele zahlelwa, incike kuwe kuphela.
Ingabe ufuna imali? Sebenzisa Iziqinisekiso ngemali! Udinga nje ukuphinda njalo kubo ehlelweni wena uthole ukuphila kwakho ukushintsha isiqondiso ufuna. Kungaba emabintana lamafisha kakhulu: "Ngijabule futhi siphile okuchichimayo", "Kukho konke esikwenzayo yami ziyimpumelelo." Kodwa qaphela. Negative "ukulungiswa" kungenzeka ibe nomphumela ongemuhle, esikhundleni elamukelekile ukuthi ubuyele, okubangela ukunganeliseki sakho kuyomane ukhule futhi isimo uyabaselwa nakakhulu. Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma ukufunda bashune ukuba ukucabanga ngezinto ezinhle futhi ube umphumela amazwi aphindaphindwayo.
Kuqalwaphi izilungiselelo kwenta tinhlaka?
Ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuqala amasu eyaziwa kakade, kunokuzama reinvent isondo. Kwanele ukuba bahlole ekhona Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma, okuyinto Izibuyekezo kakade wabonakala ku-intanethi. Futhi uma simazi kangcono isimo sengqondo esiqondile, uzoba ukubhala eyakho.
Umthetho wokuqala ukuthi udinga ukwenza isiqinisekiso esihle lesifanele. Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma ezifana "Angifuni ukuba abe mpofu," "Angazi ukubekezelela ukwehluleka emsebenzini" ngeke kube nomphumela omubi. Kungani? Zonke ngenxa yamazwi ngokwabo, okuyinto akhiwe izitatimende. Igama elithi "ubumpofu" futhi "ukwehluleka" enganakile kukhona umbala omubi ngathi futhi, ngakho-ke, isimo sengqondo esiqondile, ngeke akuvumele abazange wena. ukusebenzisa kangcono Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma abesifazane, ezifana "Ngithatha konke ukuphila kuletha," nokunye okunjalo.
Phila namuhla!
Umthetho wesibili kwakhiwa Iziqinisekiso ukusebenzisa lesi sikhathi. Ingqondo enganakile uyakwazi asivumela ukushintsha samanje, hhayi esizayo. Uma ucela, "Mina uzothola umsebenzi ngoku- ubizo", befuna, ngeshwa, ingqondo yakho esesimweni sokungaphili ngokuphelele ngeke kusize. Inkulumo ethi "Ngiyakuthanda umsebenzi wami, kunginika inzuzo enhle nokuchuma" ngeke ulungisa egagasini oyifunayo.
Enye indlela ukukusiza usondela oyifunayo - kuyinto ngeso. Udinga hhayi nje oyifunayo, futhi uzwa ukuthi ngazo zonke izindlela. Beginners Ungazama ukuchaza lento ephepheni. Ngokwesibonelo, udinga iselula entsha, wawube usuchaza ke ngokuningiliziwe ku umbala kanye brand ukulingana isikrini. Futhi unganqikazi ngamazwi! incazelo yakho kufanele esicacile ngokomzwelo! Khona-ke wathi ngokuzwakalayo futhi ebhalwe ngesikhathi esifanayo uzame ukuzizwa ukuthi usevele eyakho! Kuyinto ngalo mqondo futhi ukuhlukanisa fantasy kusukela ngeso.
Ungakhohlwa mayelana nemithetho!
Siye yokuhlala Izinkundla zemicimbi ithilomu izidingo eziyisisekelo kwakhiwa Iziqinisekiso manje banake ezinye amaphutha kungenzeka. Asikho isidingo sokukhuluma mayelana amathuba, isibonelo: "Mina ungaba ehlezi ekudleni 6 ntambama, futhi silondoloze umuzwa ukugcwaliswa kuze kube sekuseni." Kulesi siphakamiso, akukho bephika, kodwa akukho ngokuqiniseka. Futhi, futhi ingqondo yakho esesimweni sokungaphili ngokuphelele uyazi ukuthi unga. Sekuyisikhathi ngiqale!
Kufanele sinake kakhulu iqiniso lokuthi le bakheké ngokuphelele futhi uvuthwa indoda nzima ngokushesha bayakholelwa "zengcebo eshisiwe", lapho uthi Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma. Akukhona akunakwenzeka ebusheni bakhe. Ngemva kokunqotshwa olutholwa, lapho kwanezelwa amaphupho zingafezeki, livela phakathi odongeni ngabanye oluvikelayo lolu hlobo ulwazi, abantu nje ningakholwa. Ngaphandle kwale usho impumelelo nokuchuma ngeke zisebenze. Indlela yokubhekana ukuntula ukholo? Qala kancane kancane. Nge elula imigomo futhi, kancane kancane, lapho ubona ukuthi indlela usebenza, ake ukufakwa nesibindi kakhudlwana!
Indlela Yokuthola ukuchuma ngu Natalia Pravdina
Kunabantu abaningi ababhala Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma. Pravdina uzisebenzisela isipiliyoni eyingqayizivele asempumalanga futhi ngoba muhle futhi ube nobunye izinkulumo zalo anganika wonke umuntu.
Nazi ezinye izibonelo zezinkulumo lalona wesifazane omangalisayo:
- Imali yokwelula kimi kalula!
- Ngenzani kahle!
- Mina kalula futhi Ayakujabulela ukudela bese imali!
- Ngiyakuthanda mina futhi sazise amakhono akho!
- Ngamunye imiklamo yami babeqaphela!
- Mina nomata wami iyona enhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni!
- Ngiyethemba ukuphila!
- Ngiyavuma konke okuhle kuleli zwe, ngoba mina ebafanele!
- Ngizelulela uthando bese udala umhlaba ngothando!
- Futhi angisoze nganika nenani elikhulu uthando, futhi uthole okuningi!
- izwe wami ugcwele injabulo nokuzwana, okuyiwona Ngiyambonga!
Isici amasu Luizy Hey
Luiza Hey kuziwa ukudala Iziqinisekiso, ikhumbula hhayi kuphela yi kodwa futhi izizathu ukwehluleka.
ukusebenza wabo ukuqeda izimbangela. Yindlela kuholele nomphumela omuhle. Nazi ezinye izibonelo Iziqinisekiso impumelelo futhi sikufisela inhlanhla nokuchuma Luizy Hey, ozokusiza uhlale uphilile futhi ezimisele ukunqoba emizamweni yakho:
- Umsebenzi wanelisa nami konke!
- ukuphiliswa kwami kwenzeka kakade!
- Mina aphonse yonke ukwesaba nokungabaza!
- Ngiyakuthanda umzimba wami!
- konke kahle izwe lami!
- Angikwazi sikhule ngokuphepha futhi sithuthukise!
- Ngingumfana njengoba enempilo kunanini ngaphambili!
- Nginakekela umzimba wami futhi ngithanda wambheka njengomngane wakhe othandekayo!
- Ithimba zokusebenza yami futhi abaphathi angihloniphe, mina imali ezinhle!
- Angikwazi kalula wenze umsebenzi!
Imfihlo yempumelelo
amayunithi mazwi angase abonakale engasebenzi inganekwane, baze baqale ukusebenza. Ngoba kubonisa ukuthi abantu ngemibuzo konke. Kodwa uma selivaliwe leli ibinzana elula, lapho kudingeka kuphela ukuyikholelwa, khona-ke ngeke ukhokhe lutho, akunjalo?
Engingakusho nje bakholelwa ngobuqotho. Akwenzeki ukuthi kungani abanye abantu baphumelele ukuza ngisho impumelelo ngaphezulu ebhizinisini? Futhi kukangaki uzwa ukuthi akhononde ngokuphila? Futhi zonke ngenxa yalokho abantu bagxile impumelelo kunokuba ukwehluleka. Sivame ukujwayela izimo namkha ngemuva kwenye inomboro kwezithiyo bangayeki. Kodwa iqiniso wukuthi ungakwazi ukushintsha konke kube ngcono, ufunwa kabi ngokwanele. Indlela elula ukuthi kwakungeke kusebenze, futhi uqhubeke eminye eziphonsa kwalasha yithemba. Imfihlo abantu ophumelelayo ilotho ambikele noma ingozi elula. Kuyinto zabo nesimo sabo sengqondo esihle nokuzinikela ukuqaliswa izinzuzo okuhleliwe. Futhi ufuna ukuthola konke ekuphileni? Uma ungakwazi ukulungisa ukucabanga kwakho kukuhle, ngokushesha uzobona ukuthi usho impumelelo futhi inhlanhla nokuchuma ukuthela izithelo.
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