Homophobes - ngubani lo? Incazelo yegama elithi "homophobe"

Isayensi yangempela ithuthuka njalo ngonyaka , kanti ezinye ziyathuthukiswa kanye nazo. Izazi zengqondo cishe nsuku zonke zethula amagama amasha ekusetshenzisweni komuntu.
Amagama amaningi ikakhulukazi anokuphela kokuthi "phobia". I-phobia iyesaba noma ukwesaba, ukuphazamiseka noma ukungathandi okuthile. Kuvela ukuthi abantu abesabi nje ukuphakama noma ubumnyama, kodwa futhi nezinto ezibonakala zingenangqondo ukuzesaba. Isibonelo, omunye umuntu wesaba ngesibalo inombolo engu-13, abantu bezinye izinhlanga noma abameleli bama- non-traditional orientation. Umbuzo owuthandwa kakhulu: "Homophobes - ngubani lo?" Bangabani abantu, yini abayesabayo, bagweme noma bangamukeli?

I-Etymology ne-semantics yeli gama

Kusho ukuthini "ukuzithenga"? Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi leli gama livela emvelaphi yesiGreki futhi lisho ngokuqondile lokhu okulandelayo: "homo" inye, futhi "fob" (Phobos) ukwesaba okuthile. Ngenxa yalokho, abantu abahlushwa yilo "sifo" babonisa ukusabela okubi kunoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kobulili obufanayo, akubalulekile ngendlela.

Ukunikeza igama elilodwa-magama kulokhu okwenzekayo kwakuyi-psychologist evela eMelika Georges Weinberg kule minyaka yama-70 encwadini yakhe. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, leli gama lisetshenziswe ngentshiseko ngabososayensi emikhakheni ehlukahlukene yokusebenza kanye nezikhungo zesayense kumadokhumenti ahlukene nezincwadi.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi incazelo yangempela yegama elithi "ukucwaswa kwabantu ngokobulili", ngokuvamile isetshenziselwa ukukhomba abantu abahlangabezana nemizwelo engalungile kumalungu angama-non-bendabuko.

Ukwesaba abantu: ubani omesaba ukuthi ubani?

Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi ingxenye yegama elithi "Phobos", okungukuthi, ukwesaba, empeleni isimo sihlukile. I-Homophobes ayesabi ukwesaba abesilisa nabesifazane, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho. Abantu abakhetha oxhumana nabo bobulili bobulili obufanayo bakhathazeka ngobuqotho ngokuphepha kwabo nempilo yabo, engalimaza ikakhulukazi ama-homophobes abanolaka. Ungathandi futhi isimo sengqondo esibi isimo sengqondo esithulile sabantu abamukele ubungqingili. Kodwa ngokuvamile ama-gay kanye nama-lesbian angeke athathe emsebenzini, anqabe izinzuzo zomphakathi, ahlambalaze, ashaye futhi aze abulale. Mhlawumbe kungcono kakhulu ukubiza ama-homophobes "ama-heterophiles", okungukuthi, abantu abamukela ubuhlobo bendabuko kuphela phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane.

Umngcele phakathi kokulahlwa kanye nokwehlukana kwabantu

Eqinisweni, akulula noma akunakwenzeka ukudweba ngokucacile phakathi kokulahla okuyisithakazelo kwabangqingili kanye nokuzidela kwabantu abavulekile. Lezi zizwe zingadlulela komunye nomunye, zingathatha ifomu noma cha.

Kukholelwa ukuthi abantu abesilisa nabesifazane abathandana nabo abathandana nobudlelwane obungqingili. Amantombazane abashayo, abambalwa - umphakathi "ovamile" awuwamukeli lobudlelwane, njengoba uthando lobulili obufanayo lunganikeli inzalo. Ukukhiqiza ukuthi kungenye yezinto ezisemqoka eziholela abantu ukuba baqhubeke phambili endleleni yokuthuthukiswa kuze kube yesikhathi esizayo. Uma oxhumana nabo ngokobulili bengakuvumeli ukuba ukhulelwe futhi ubelethe ingane, kusho "ubudlelwane obungalungile".

Izici zengqondo zokuzithemba

Iqiniso elidumile: abanye abantu baqaphele ngokuqondile ukuthi abantu bobulili obufanayo bangathola ukukhangwa komunye nomunye, kuyilapho abanye befakazela ngobukhulu ukuthi akunakwenzeka lokhu. Kungani kunjalo, futhi yikuphi ukubanjwa? Umbuzo uphakama: "Homophobes - ngubani lo? Abantu abaguqulwe njengabantu" abavamile "ngezifiso eziyimfihlakalo?"

Kukhona inguqulo ethakazelisayo kakhulu - esebenza ngokwengeziwe futhi enobudlova i-homophobe iziphatha, uma ifuna ukuphazamiseka ngokwengeziwe futhi ibonakale "ijwayelekile". Njengoba uSigmund Freud wabhala, wonke umuntu ungumlingani wesilisa ongunqunu. Mhlawumbe yilokho okusishukumisela ukuba siziphathe ngokuzikhandla nangokufutheka ekuthandeni okuvulekile okuvulekile.

Ngaphakathi komphakathi

Omunye akanakuhluleka ukusho olunye uhlobo lokuzonda abantu, olubizwa ngokuthi ngaphakathi. Kuze kube manje, akuzange kusungulwe ukuthi kungani amadoda noma abesifazane bebahlanganyeli bobudlelwano bobulili obufanayo. Ungabeka ukuhlukunyezwa kwengane, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, ithonya lemfashini. Noma kunjalo, izigidi zama-gay kanye nama-lesbians baxoxisana ukuthi babenenkinga evamile yokuphila nabantwana abanothando nezokuzijabulisa zendabuko. Kungani kukhona "ukwehluleka ohlelweni", futhi abantu baqala ukuheha abameleli bobulili obufanayo naye? Lena imfihlakalo enkulu.

Njengoba kunikezwe isicoco esivelele esihlokweni sobulili obufanayo, abaningi basongqingili bazizwa benengwa ngothando lobulili obufanayo. Lesi sihloko esiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kwengqondo, okuyiqiniso ukuthi umbono womphakathi yiyona imbangela. Yilokho okuvame ukwenza ubudlelwane nathi ngenye yezenzakalo, ngakho-ke omunye wabo ungumuntu ongaphakathi. I-Gay noma isithandana nabesifazane abayizivumeli yena noma umhlaba ngezifiso, kodwa ngokugqugquzela ukugqugquzela ubudlelwane obuvamile bobulili obuhlukile. Lezi zindabuko ezingenakuthandwa kakhulu, ngoba injabulo inqunywa ikhono lomuntu lokuba yilokho. Laba bantu bahlale benomuzwa wokuzisola, bekunganaki ukuzethemba kwabo futhi baphile ngokwesaba ukuvezwa.

Ama-stereotypes emibonweni yamasiko yokuzonda abantu

Kwenzeke ngokomlando ukuthi kunezifunda ezihlobene nabalingqingili abathembeke kakhulu futhi bebekezela. Futhi kunamazwe angamukeli ukubonakaliswa okuvulekile koxhumana nabo bobulili obufanayo ngisho nakule nkathi eqhubekayo. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi izinto zisezweni lanamuhla ngokuzithemba kwabantu, cabanga ukuthi imishadweni engokwenyama yowomthetho , futhi kuphi lapho bengakwazi khona ukuhleka usulu nokuhleka usulu kumadoda wesifazane.

Kukholelwa ukuthi amazwe aseNtshonalanga naseYurophu ayabekezelela kakhulu ubungqingili. Ama-Gays, ama-lesbians, ama-transvestites kanye nabesifazane abesilisa nabesifazane abesabi noma bafihlekile, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, baziphatha ngokuziqhenya ngo-gay futhi babhalisa ubudlelwane babo ezingeni likahulumeni.

AmaSlav, kuze kube yilolu suku, abhekwa njengezitha ezinkulu zomhlaba zobungqingili. Kukhona into enjalo - "ama-homophobes aseRussia", okungukuthi, abantu abhekisela othintana nabo bobulili bobulili obufanayo bahlukumeza kakhulu futhi bebuhlungu. Lokhu akulona ngengozi - umlando wethu ngaso sonke isikhathi ulahlile "i-sodomy", futhi ngezikhathi zama-tsarist zobungqingili kwafakwa esigxotsheni.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubhaliwe ukuthi amasosha anesibindi aseGrisi naseRoma awazange agodle ukubonisa uzwela kulabo osebenza nabo emkhakheni wezobuciko, futhi lokhu akuzange neze kuthinte isimo sengqondo somphakathi kubo. Abalobi abaningi abadumile, abaculi nabaculi bavuma ngokukhululekile ukuthambekela kwabo bobulili obufanayo noma obungqingili, futhi kuze kube manje abalingani abavulekile nabasosayensi bavulekile abakhiqizi abadumile nabadwebi befashini, abaqondisi, amahange nezinsimbi.

Ukuzinikela kwabantu emhlabeni

Naphezu kwemizamo yokusungula isimo sengqondo sokubekezelela abantu abangqingili emhlabeni, abalandeli bobulili bobulili obufanayo bahlaselwa njalo.

Isibonelo, abangu-9 kwabangu-10 baseMelika abesilisa abathandana nabo basho ngokusobala ukuthi bezwa ukuthukwa ekhelini labo, kanti okwesithathu bayavuma ukuthi babhekana nobudlova obuvela emakhaya. Izitatimende nazo ziqinisekisa ukuthi ngisho nasezikoleni ubudala izingane zingakwazi ukuzwa amazwi angama-30 okuzicwaba ngokobulili ngosuku - kusukela oontanga, othisha nabadala.

Kunzima kakhulu ukuba ubungqingili baphile emazweni amaSulumane, lapho ama-gays avulekile nabasobunqunu bezokuzingela kanye nokuhlukunyezwa kwangempela. Ngenkathi yokuhlukumezeka, abantu abangama-bendabuko abangatholi nje kuphela ukuzwa ukuthukwa nokusongelwa, kodwa bangashaywa ngonya futhi babulawe. Izibonelo zamazwe anjalo zingakhonza i-Iraq ne-Iran.

E-Israel, izinto azikho kangcono. Kwaziwa kakhulu emphakathini womhlaba yilokho okwakwenzeka ngo-2005 emgodini we-gay. Khona-ke emgwaqweni womuzi wabamba elinye i-rally - umbukiso wabamelene nokuma okungokwemvelo. Babephethe amabhanela ethi ubungqingili yisifo, futhi baphonsa abasizi be-gay abaqhoshayo emithonjeni ngezimfino kanye nomchamo.

Kuvela ukuthi ama-homophobes awayingozi kakhulu. Bangobani laba - hhayi ababulali kanye namasosha asekulungele ukukhipha abaphikisayo?

Ubungqingili kanye nokuzonda abantu kwithelevishini

Njengoba ama-TV eseba abangane bethu abahlala njalo, abangane abakhulu nabahlinzeki bezindaba, imibono yomphakathi yenziwa ngemiboniso, imibukiso ye-TV namathengisi. Mhlawumbe, kungenxa yethelevishini ukuthi abantu "abavamile" emhlabeni wonke baqaphela ukuthi kuneziningi eziningi zobungqingili ukuthi kungcono ukwamukela kunokuba uzilahle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izithombe eziningi ezithandwayo azifihli ukuma kwazo futhi zibonisa ubungqingili. Kodwa abaphikisi bezinsizwa zobulili obufanayo, ama-homophobe avulekile afihliwe, abangaphansi kwabasekeli, futhi mhlawumbe nangaphezulu. Amabhuku, amafilimu, izingoma zilahla ukukhangwa kwamalungu obulili bawo, ukugqugquzela ubudlelwano obuphilile nokuqhubeka komndeni. Kulokhu, ama-homophobes - ubani? Akuzona yini abantu abalwela ukuqhubeka kohlanga lwesintu emhlabeni?

Umzabalazo ongapheli

Ukungqubuzana phakathi kwamazwe ahlukene, amasiko, izinkolo ziyohlala kuze kube phakade. Ngezinye izikhathi abantu abanakho ukuqonda komuntu okulula ukuze bazikhethele bona - wonke umuntu kuleli zwe unelungelo lokubona, imibono yabo kanye nokuzikhethela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, ubungqingili buyingxenye eyodwa kuphela phakathi kwabantu.

Futhi asikho isidingo sokuthi ifilosofi, kungakhathaliseki ukugula, ukuphambuka kwengqondo noma isici esivela ngenhla. Ukuqaphela indlela engcono kakhulu kulesi simo. Phila, ujabule, futhi ungakhathazeki ukuba ujabule nabanye abantu, noma ngabe yikuphi. Noma ukubhoboza ngenjabulo ifulege lama-homophobes "ezitheni" ezihluliwe, ngokumemeza ukuthi ulwela ukuhlanzeka komncintiswano noma isizwe. Kodwa lo mzabalazo awukho kangcono kunempi kaHitler ngokumelene namaJuda, okufanayo okungenangqondo negazi.