Buthule izindlela zokuxhumana kanye ukubaluleka kwabo ezingxoxweni.

Ukuxhumana - emkhakheni wokuphila kwabantu, ngaphandle lapho khona emphakathini. Ukuxhumana - akuyona nje inkulumo, ngomlomo noma ebhalwe phansi. Inqubo yokuxhumana siqukethe amaqembu amathathu sixhumene.

Okokuqala, kungenxa ukudluliswa kolwazi - ohlangothini yekuchumana.

Okwesibili, abantu abaningi bathi umbono interlocutor - ohlangothini okuqonda.

Okwesithathu, ukuxhumana naye ekuxhumaneni - ohlangothini interactive.

Ukusebenza kahle ibangelwa usebenzisa zokuxhumana ibhizinisi ngamazwi (ngokukhuluma) kanye ekuxhumaneni buthule.

Buthule wokuxhumana ukusiza adlulisele sikhulumi sluschayuschemu ukuqonda incazelo egcwele ulwazi ngocansi. Ingxenye ebalulekile yokuphikelela zokuxhumana ibhizinisi kuyinto nekhono lokuqonda indlela non-ngamazwi yokuxhumana. Ukuthinta of interlocutor, nesimo sobuso bakhe nokuma komzimba khombisa hhayi kuphela okushiwo ulwazi, kodwa futhi isimo sengqondo umlingani nendaba okuxoxwa ngayo.

izindlela buthule yokuxhumana umphelelisi ulwazi izwi. Ukwahlukanisa izindlela non-ngamazwi yokuxhumana ngokuvamile simiswe ngalendlela lelandzelako:

a) uhlelo Optical-kinesthetic kufaka ukunyakaza obuhambisana umuntu ubona noma interlocutor: sebuso, kunyakata kwemtimba, ukuma lapho ukhuluma, isikhundla ngekwendzawo (ezihambayo);

b) Uhlelo paralinguistic (noma okolorechevaya) kuhlanganisa oshumayela umthombo ikhomba isigijimi sabo izwi: iphimbo iphimbo, ivolumu, nangezindlela ezihlukahlukene okunengqondo, buviyoviyo.

c) uhlelo extralinguistic kuhlanganisa izindlela non-ngamazwi yokuxhumana, egcizelela isimo esingokomzwelo isikhulumi: izinga yokukhuluma, ukuhleka, plyaach, ukububula, ukukhala nabanye.

d) uhlelo lokuxhumana ezibukwayo sihlanganisa buddies ukubukwa.

e) uhlelo ngekwendzawo: endaweni kanye nesikhathi zokuxhumana, isikhala ekuchumana.

e) uhlelo contact yakhiwa ukwangiwa ukuxhawula Kissing, patting, ukuzamazama nezinye ndaba, isenzo ethintekayo.

f) uhlelo olfactory - ukusetshenziswa ngephunga.

izindlela buthule yokukhulumisana azalwa naso futhi atholwe. ukuthinta Abaningi indlela yekuma, ukunyakaza ebusweni zibhekwa ngendlela yabo emasikweni ahlukene. Ukwazi kanjani interlocutors angaphandle ziveza ukwaziswa ngezindlela ubonisa kanjani ukuthi uyangeneka, kuzosiza ngcono izingxoxo ibhizinisi.

Ucwaningo olukhethekile ekuxhumaneni buthule kungathatha isikhathi eside. Nokho, kukhona ezinye amagugu obschepriyatye evamise esetshenziswa kwezimo ezihlukahlukene futhi ukuthinta. Izenzo imizwelo eyakhayo futhi neyethu ukubamba interlocutor ngokuqondile, kodwa ngesinye isikhathi kunzima ukuhlukanisa phakathi ezimbi.

Ukuwela izingalo phezu esifubeni uveza isikhundla ukuzivikela, noma ukungabi nasithakazelo engxoxweni. Kunalokho, umzimba ovulekile, ungatshekisa ngase interlocutor kusho ithemba nentshisekelo zokuxhumana.

Uma umhlolwa iqala ukuze alungise izingubo, zidonsa izinwele, ukukuthinta izandla zabo, kungenzeka ukuthi wayekhathalela, ingaqiniseki esabe. Bezihlikihla indlebe - akwaziwa, kungaba isinqumo. Ukuthinta ebusweni ibonisa ukwethuka, ukungathembeki.

Isifiso ingxoxo, ukuntula isineke ebonakaliswa umlenze liyaphambuka, uthephwe ahlale nabo esiyilweni. Ukuthepha esibayeni etafuleni - isifiso uphazamise izwi ucingo.

Wahosha esitulweni eveza ukungalondeki, ungakhululekile. ukuma ekhululekile esitulweni (ehlezi, lounging) kungasho ubuvila noma ukuzikhukhumeza.

Ingase iphendule ngokungabi nasithakazelo - ukuntula ukholo kuthiweni. Yena anqekuzise ikhanda - wavuma wamphikisa.

Ukushukuma ekuxhumaneni zidlala indima ebalulekile. Ngezinye izikhathi isenzo ngisho imperceptible kakhulu "ithi" cishe interlocutor. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuthinta sekukhomba umlingani udonsela ukunakekela umuntu noma into. ukuthinta Egcizelela baqinise isitatimende, sekukhomba - ukucacisa isimo. ukuthinta tangent basize ekumiseni contact, ukuheha amehlo.