Umzimba omuhle. Umzimba omuhle wesifazane. Umzimba omuhle womuntu

Yimuphi wabantu abaphuphe ukuphelela? Ingabe lokho, mhlawumbe, eyodwa. Iningi lifuna indlu ephelele, imoto engcono kakhulu, umlingani ophelele. Futhi asikhohlwa thina - abantu abaningi bafuna umzimba omuhle.

Uma izinto zokuqala zicacile - bheka nje isikhangiso noma ubheke umagazini omnandi, ngakho-ke ngomzimba, ungasheshi ukulandela iseluleko samamagazini emfashini. Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi kukhona yini isibonelo sokulingisa, esingabizwa sihle, nokuthi ngabe kufanelekile ukuba silwele.

Iyini, ekahle?

Cabanga ukuthi unomshini wesikhathi, futhi ungakwazi ukuzulazula esidlule, ubukele abantu namasiko wekhulu noma elinye leminyaka.

Kungaba mnandi ukuba uthole ukuthi okhokho bethu babehlala kanjani ngaphambili, yini ababeyilwela? Kungenzeka ukuthi, yebo. Futhi yini eyamangalisa ukuthi imfashini ibilokhu ikhona, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kutholakala omagazini kanye namaphoyinti. Ngakho-ke, kusukela ezikhathini zeBBC kuze kufike emzuzwini wamanje nguye obekayo futhi obeka imigomo. Ubani odala imfashini? Lona akuyona umuntu oyedwa. Kungaba isikhathi, umkhuba, izimo zokuphila noma izinkampani zomhlaba wonke, njengoba kwenzeka, isibonelo, namuhla.

Imibono ishintsha kanjani ngobuhle?

Bheka izithombe ezidalwe ngesikhathi sokuqala koMbuso WaseRoma noma iGrisi lasendulo. Amadoda amnandi, kodwa amantombazane amaningi abonakala njengabesifazane abakhulu, abanezintambo ezizungezile nezindebe ezigcwele. Futhi kuthiwani ngemidwebo kaRubens noma i-Kustodiev?

Amakhosikazi abheka izilaleli ezithombeni ngokuziqhenya, amangaza abantu bethu ngesikhathi esifanayo futhi asenza sizibuze: "Futhi kwakubhekwa njengehle?" Kwakukhona izikhathi, amakhulu eminyaka, lapho abantu bekholelwa ukuthi umzimba omuhle uphelele, ungenawo obala. Phela, uma umuntu egcwele, kusho ukuthi uyadla kahle futhi akanakho izinkinga zempilo. Namuhla, umbono womuntu ofanelekayo ukhululekile kakhulu.

Iyini umbono wokuphelela namuhla?

Vula umagazini, faka ividyo kliphu noma i-movie. Umzimba omuhle womuntu ubhekwa njengenqwaba yezintuthwane ezingenamafutha, okungcono kunabo bonke abangenazinwele nabancibilikisiwe. Amadoda-amacebo awafani kakhulu nalabo esiwabonayo emigwaqweni. Kodwa asikholelwa ukuthi kulesi simo kukhona okungalungile. Ngokuphambene nalokho, simangalela indoda ejwayelekile yobuvila nokungafuni ukuba "ngumuntu ovela kulesi sikhwama."

Umzimba omuhle wesifazane ubukeka kanjani? Lona ingelosi esinikeza ngemimoya ye "Victoria Secret". Uma ngesizathu esithile ungazi ukuthi le ntombazane ibukeka kanjani, ake sicacise ukuthi lesi sibude obuhle, sinezinhlamvu ezinesisu, isifuba esikhulu nemilenze ende. Intombazane evamile emgwaqweni kaningi ibukeka ihluke kakhulu, kodwa yilokho ozosola "ukungapheleli" kwakhe, hhayi ukukhangisa kanye nesithombe esasakazwa "sohle."

Ingabe kufanele silwele ukuba kube kuhle?

Umuntu kumele alwele okuthile, ngoba kule ncazelo incazelo yokuphila ukufeza okuthile, ukufezeka. Kodwa lokhu kufanele kube yizifiso zakho kanye nemibono yakho, futhi ungathunyelwa kuwe emifanekisweni enhle yekhava.

Ufuna i-Mercedes? Ingabe uyayidinga ngempela, imoto ebiza ngaphansi komkhiqizo owaziwayo, noma ingabe uyindlela yokuhamba, izikhathi eziningi ezishibhile, ezokuhambisa eduze kwedolobha? Mhlawumbe udinga ibhayisikili, kodwa imfashini ikutshela ukuthenga imoto ebiza ngemali enhle kakhulu. Noma, isibonelo, izingubo. Udinga i-jeans ye-brand kusuka ku-Dolce Habanna ngamakhulu ama-dollar? Noma i-trousers evamile evela kwendwangu efanayo, kodwa ngaphandle kwelebuli yomuntu siqu, izokwenzani?

Isibalo sifana. Umzimba omuhle uyinganekwane, isithombe esingamanga esenza izigidi zabantu zichithe imali emakamelweni okufaneleka, izingubo ezinhle ezincane, izithako ezikhethekile noma ukudla okukhethekile, "okulungile". Akunjalo futhi akakaze abe ngumuntu ophelele olinganayo wokulinganisa noma ukulingisa.

Ngumuphi uhlobo lombhalo engingawuthatha njengesibonelo?

Kungani umzimba ophelele ungabhekwa njengendlela oyisibonelo, isithombe esingabonwa kuwo wonke amakhasi omagazini? Kungani kungenjalo, ukhululekile ukukhetha. Kodwa-ke, kukhona into engokwemvelo futhi efinyeleleka kalula, futhi kukhona isithombe esivela kude nalokho okwenzekayo.

Thatha isibonelo somzimba omuhle womuntu. Yini abantu abasha banamuhla abakwenzayo ekuphileni? Yebo, kuphela abakwenzi! Ochwepheshe be-IT, abaphathi, abakhi, abathengisi .. Ukufanisa uhlobo oluvela kwifilimu elithi "300 Spartans" noma "Troy", indoda akufanele iphume ejimini (noma ihlanganyele empini engapheli nokusetshenziswa kwezikhali ezibandayo nokugqoka i-mail, njengalabo abadala AmaGreki), ukuba badle izithako zezemidlalo, futhi kungcono kakhulu ukusebenzisa ama-steroids ane-hormone. Zikhona yini ama- cubes ayisithupha esiswini nasemilenzeni yemisipha yezisulu ezinjalo? Ingabe insizwa evamile ingasebenza ehhovisi emini, futhi kusihlwa igijimela ehholo ukuze ibe "umfana ovela esembozweni"? Kulula. Ngakho-ke, lesi sibonelo asiyona engokwemvelo. Ukuze ube mnandi futhi ube nomzimba wezemidlalo olinganiselayo , indoda kufanele ihambe emzimbeni wokuzivocavoca, kodwa ngaphandle kokushiseka. Kufanele futhi udle kahle, kodwa ungashisekeli ekuthatheleni izithako zezemidlalo ukuze ungalimazi impilo yakho.

Yiba owesifazane wamaphupho

Ngabe owesifazane ovelele ubonakala kanjani ? Namuhla kuyinodoli ephilayo ye-Barbie. Kodwa zonke izintombazane ziyazi ukuthi yini edingekayo emgqeni we-chiseled futhi isisindo esincane kakhulu - ukulahla cishe konke okwenziwe okumnandi ngokudla imifino nokuzivocavoca. Futhi yonke imizamo yakho iyohamba uma uzalwa uphansi noma unemilenze emifushane. Ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuxosha okuthile okuphefumulayo? Ingabe kufanelekile ukuqapha zonke ikhalori, ukwakha izinwele nezipikili, ukwandise izindebe nesifuba ukufanisa isithombe?

Wonke umuntu ukhetha impendulo yakhe, kodwa kungcono ukuhola impilo enempilo, uzizwe kahle futhi uzizwe emuhle. Yiqiniso, uma unganelisekile kakhulu ngento ethile, okungukuthi, izimonyo nabahlinzayo, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuthi imvelo yayiyodala isidalwa esingaphelele. Wonke umuntu unhle, unezici zakhe kanye nedatha kusukela ekuzalweni kuye izici nemingcele, futhi wonke umuntu angajabula, akukho lutho ngokwabo ngaphandle kokushintsha.

Isisindo somzimba esihle

Enye yezinkolelo ezinkulu kunazo zonke emhlabeni kukhona inkolelo yokuthi kukhona isisindo esihle. Omunye, ecabanga ukuthi uhlakaniphile futhi unolwazi, wanquma ukuthi uyakwazi wonke umuntu eMhlabeni, ngaphandle kokumbona, ukubala isisindo esihle. Futhi lapha uhlelo luqalisiwe - le ncwadi ibhaliwe, enye yokudla idalwa, isikole somzimba omuhle sivula. Ingabe uyayidinga ukuze ujabule? Ngikholelwa, cha! Ngezinga lemvelo, unikwe amandla okuhlakanipha okukhulu kangangokuthi ibutho lonke lososayensi alinamandla. Akekho okwazi ukubala isisindo sakho esihle, ngakho-ke kungcono ukungaboni ukukhangisa nezithembiso. Isikole somzimba omuhle ngeke sikulethelele ekupheleleni, ngoba akakho nje.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungakwazi ukuzimela ngokukhululekile futhi ungakhululekile ukuhlanganyela emdlalweni wakho ozithandayo noma nje uhola ukuphila okusebenzayo, udle ukudla okunomsoco futhi okumnandi futhi ube mnandi kakhulu ngesikhathi esifanayo.

Ungaba kanjani ukuphelela, ngisho nakuwe?

Uma ulahla ama-stereotypes namaphethini okuhle onikezwe kuwe, uzoqonda ukuthi usafuna ukuphelela, kodwa kuyoba isifiso sakho, hhayi ukuvela ngaphandle. Ngakho-ke, ingabe kukhona imithetho, ukubuka ukuthi yikuphi, ungaba umnikazi ojabule wokubukeka okuhle? Eqinisweni, ayikho imithetho, kodwa kunezimiso ezithile, okulandelayo, uzozigcina uzimele kalula:

1. Zama ukungadli amahora amathathu ngaphambi kokulala.

2. Isidlo sakho sansuku zonke kufanele sibe namaprotheyini. Isibonelo sesidlo sakusihlwa sakusihlwa i-omelet, ingxenye ye-cottage shizi ngekhilimu omuncu, isifuba se-inkukhu abilisiwe. Yiqiniso, ungadla ukudla kanye nenye into, i-pizza noma i-chocolate bar isibonelo, kodwa ngeke uthole okwanele bese udla enye into.

3. Ngidinga ukubala amakholori? Ngempela, kulabo abadla kakhulu ukudla. Kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Kungcono ukufunda nje ukuthi ungadla kanjani ukudla okunempilo futhi ungahlanganyeli ekubaleni kwengqondo. Imikhiqizo efanele futhi enempilo yimizimba ephilile, izinkukhu, inhlanzi, amaqanda, i-cottage shizi, imifino. Ukudla ukudla okulungiselelwe kusuka kulezi zithako, ngeke uzizwe ulambile futhi ngeke uphumelele.

4. Amnandi ngenye yezinkinga ezibuhlungu kakhulu. Uma uthanda amaswidi futhi awukwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwabo, ke-ke, ngeke ukwazi ukufeza isibalo sephupho. I-chocolate, amakhekhe kanye namaswidi angamandla angenalutho, okuphenduka amafutha emaceleni nasesisu. Okunye okunye okuhle kumikhiqizo ye-confectionery yizithelo, kodwa futhi ngeke kusetshenziswe kabi. Vumela amabhungu amabili noma amathathu ngosuku abe yinto evamile kuwe.

4. Ezemidlalo. Ungacabangi ukuthi kuyisicefe! Akudingekile ukuya ejimini, ngoba ukugcina indlela esebenzayo yokuphila kungaqhathaniswa nokuqeqeshwa kuma-simulators. Yini oyithandayo - ukuhamba ngebhayisikili noma i-roller skating, ukuhamba ngokuzilibazisa, ukubhukuda? Yenza okuthandayo, futhi ube mnandi.

Futhi ekugcineni

Kulesi sihloko, awuzange ubone izinombolo nemingcele efana nomzimba omuhle. Uma udinga ukunemba, izwe lanamuhla lizokunikeza ngenjabulo inhlanganisela "efanele", kodwa uyayidinga? Labo abhala ukudla kanye nezincwadi abazijwayele. Awazi lutho ngawe nhlobo, ngakho ungazi kanjani ukuthi uzobukeka kanjani esimweni esiphelele?

Khumbula ukuthi imvelo ayibekezeleli ukungapheleli futhi ayivumeli amaphutha. Kodwa abantu bavame ukwenza lokhu. Yidla ngakwesokudla, uholele impilo esebenzayo futhi enamandla, futhi amagama afana nokuthi "ukudla" azozikhohlwa.