Lapho wahamba phezu sokubeletha

Abaningi okhulelwe omama endaweni ethile phakathi lesihlanu ngenyanga yokukhulelwa uqala ukukhathazeka mayelana umbuzo lapho ikhefu esinqumweni. Kusukela Ekuqaleni kakhulu kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuthi ngamunye wethu unelungelo lokunquma ukuthi ingabe kudingeka siqaphe kulesi simemezelo ngempela wake kudingekile ukuba siqhubeke 'bashise "ku umsebenzi intandokazi, ugijimele esibhedlela nge Kufinyeta ngokuqondile emsebenzini.

Lapho ekuseni ukugula ekuseni ekukhulelweni senzeka, owesifazane okhulelwe futhi eseqala ukuzwa ngokwabo. Ngalesi sikhathi, uqala kubonakale ukuthi umsebenzi kungaphazamisi sokukhulelwa. Kodwa ku ngenyanga yesibili ebonakala kwesisu iqala ukugxambukela, izinyawo ukuvuvukala ubuhlungu emuva futhi ukukhathala iqala ukuhlupha cishe ngokushesha. Kungakhathaliseki engozini impilo umntwana ongakazalwa futhi bayaqhubeka besebenza, noma kangcono ukuhlala ekhaya futhi azinikele ngokuphelele ukuxhumana wenza isimangaliso elincane, ngisho noma ngabe namanje esiswini. By the way, ngisho uma uqhubeka ukusebenza, kanye nemali yomsebenzi, nesimemezelo isimo ngeke ukhokhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphansi kokunakekela fizotpusk abakhulelwe ikhokhwe umholo wakhe ngaphandle ebambe imali yesikhwama sempesheni.

Ngakho-ke ngesikhathi elapha sokubeletha, abe ngumnikazi isizumbulu, okuyinto cishe okufanele sisetshenziselwe ingane. Pho-ke, kuvela yonke le mali? Okokuqala udinga ukucacisa ukuthi bangaki niqhubeke womama abakhulelwe. Uma owesifazane elinde ingane ke shiya ukuba ingenzele amasonto 30, futhi uma izingane ezimbili noma ngaphezulu, kwase kuba 28. Isikhathi - izinsuku 140, okusho ukuthi, izinsuku 70 ngaphambi sokubeletha izinsuku 70 emva. Lapha inakekelwa abakhulelwe eholidini imali ngokushesha ekhishwe izinsuku 140, plus amasonto amabili noma amathathu, lapho kuzalwa umntwana by Ukubeletha. mums Abaningi imali ukusiza sokumisa indawo umntwana esikhathini esizayo. cribs Uthenge, strollers, izingubo, amathoyizi nokunye. D.

Lapho sesiphindela ku sokubeletha, musa ngokushesha bahlanganyele ukuhlanza indlu, noma uzinike umsebenzi omkhulu. Believe me, emva kokuzalwa kwengane uzobe ukhathele ukuze ngeke ngempela sinake efulethini bahlanza. Kungcono ukuba banikezele izinyanga ezimbili nesigamu ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane othandekayo wakhe, ukuya (vele uye hhayi fly) endaweni ethile ukuze siphumuze ingqondo, nihambahambe, wafunda incwadi, futhi bebonke, ukwenza okuthile, into kakhulu afana njalo, kodwa kwakungenakwenzeka. Uma lokhu ingane yakho yokuqala, uma uya ku-sokubeletha, kungcono azinikele ngokugcwele komntwana wokuqala, ngoba ngemva kokuzalwa yesibili, awukwazi ukunikwa isikhathi esiningi. Lungisa ke lokuthi maduze bayoba emndenini wezingane ezimbili. Sitshele ukuthi umama wayengeke athande othile kakhulu, futhi omunye kancane. Vele inhliziyo kamama kuyokwenziwa kabili, ukuze kukhona isikhala esanele ukuze wonke umuntu.

Phakathi nenkathi yokukhulelwa, akufanele ucabange "kangakanani uqhubeka sokubeletha," futhi cishe kukhona okunye ngokuphelele: umbala kufanele kube stroller, indlwana kufanele kube design, abanye zokulala ukuthenga, njll Zama Thenga kakhulu konke okudingayo, kusukela namanabukeni ukuze roddomovskoy izikhwama. Ngaphambi kokuya ku sokubeletha, musa ukusheshe kwesokudla emuva emsebenzini. Believe me, impilo yakho izoshintsha ukuze emuva futhi ungafuni e izinyanga ezimbalwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma ngasiphi umama has esisemthethweni kweminyaka emithathu womama ikhefu ngemuva ukuzalwa komntwana. Musa athembela kuye ukuba umhlengikazi noma ugogo, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi ungeqa izikhathi ezibalulekile isimangaliso yakho encane.

Ukuhlala ekhaya okungenani kuze kube isikhathi lapho ingane iphendula enonyaka owodwa ubudala, ungenawo ukuletha imihlatshelo, futhi ngikujabulela nsuku wachitha eduze le ndoda kancane amancane, ukuthi ikhula siyibhekile. Ingabe umsebenzi othile kuwufanele ukweqa lesi simangaliso kwansuku? Impendulo isobala - akukho, akudingekile. Zazise zonke mzuzu sokukhulelwa, ngomzuzwana, eyenziwa eduze ingane yakho, ngoba isikhathi siyandiza Yima kancane!