Komphakathi ukuphila: Ngingubani mina?

Singobani akukho okuhle kanye netimiso umphakathi? Indoda, njengoba rasa TABULA, drive futhi kugqame konke lokho umphakathi ocebile, noma kunalokho lokho kubalulekile ukuze umuntu emphakathini.

Befuna nezinzuzo zezenhlalo, abantu bayakhohlwa webumbacambili yobuntu bakhe siqu, ukuthi, ngaphezu ezweni zidwedwe futhi imishini, izindima social kanye nesimo emphakathini, kukhona emhlabeni ngamunye, ukuthula ngaphakathi ekujuleni. Kuyadabukisa ukubona ukuthi abantu abaningi abazange ngikwambule, pozitsiruya nezwe sezinto. Lokhu kungenxa yezizathu eziningana:

1.kto lula wesabe nokungazwisiswa, mhlawumbe kokuba Uphatheke kabi emva kwakhe;

2. Ubani idlala umdlalo double ekuphishekeleni "impumelelo" emphakathini;

3.A othile engabonakali ngisho obakhathalelayo ukuthi umhlaba ngaphakathi ikhona ngaso sonke.

Man, ngokwesimo sawo njalo ufuna ikhenela esitebeleni yini esinye, okungase kube isiqalo ekufuneni kwabo esilandelayo. Ed hoc uhlobo khona, okuyinto efuna ukubona abantu abasondelene naye. Kodwa kuphela azinzile ekuqaleni yomuntu umphefumulo wakhe. Abantu ngokuvamile benza amaphutha kwesinye ngenxa yokuthi abakwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi komphakathi kanye ngabanye mathupha. Kuyaziwa ukuthi abantu emphakathini, isixuku siqala ukubonisa uncharacteristic ngaye isimo ajwayelekile ngabanye ukwazi izici zokuziphatha, okuhle nokubi.

Futhi lokho kuyinto umuntu ngokwakhe i-ngokwayo?

Ukubuza umbuzo ofanayo, ukunikeza ngokuzenzakalela impendulo ezinye, kubaluleke: "Kungani abantu baziphathe ngale ndlela futhi abengeke". Futhi impendulo zonke emphakathini.

Indoda ekhetha izinzuzo zakhe nomphakathi, impumelelo zenhlalo, kuka self ngokomoya njengoba izici zenhlalo ngokucace kakhudlwana, futhi abantu abaningi bazimisele ukuzithiba ukugomela, umphumela okuzokwenziwa ngokucacile kakhulu waphawula ngabanye.

Kungani zonke rush?

Nazi ezinye nemibi sociality:

1. Uma nihlukile ungabazi: wena push beingness wakhe ezingezona ezemvelo kwangaphakathi

2. uma kwehluleka kwezenhlalo, ukulahlekelwa Uyithola bengakulindele, wasala yedwa yena, beqaphela engenangqondo bokuba khona kwakhe.

Futhi lokho oyikho ngempela?

Indoda ufaka isifonyo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa uma avame kokushintsha, uzama ngamafuphi lwenteke ezimweni ezahlukahlukene nabantu abahlukahlukene, kunzima ukukhomba ecacile kakade, mina sutselnoe ngaphandle okusheshayo we Okunye. Yini engizimisele noma ngingubani mina? Buso, lokhu makeup Friend ngakho kuwe, ukuze umzimba wakho sociality ukuthi kufanele balahlekelwe ikhono ukususa them they ukujwayela, umzimba wakho zikhula zibe beingness ezingokomoya. Ngicabanga ukuthi lesi esinye isimo enezici izindlela wenzuzo.

Futhi, njengoba ungena ohlelweni lwabantu abahlobene imaskhi, kanye nomphakathi njengoba uthuli enjalo kufihla umphefumulo wakho, yakho emhlabeni kwangaphakathi.

Angazi ukubiza ingxabano ngokuphelele ngokwayo nezwe ngaphandle, ukuthi siluhlobo luni impenetrability, kumane nje bakwazi ukulinganisela phakathi kwemithwalo yakho kule precipice.

Abantu bacanga ukuthi bayajabula. Happy, ukuthenga izimoto, izindlu. Kodwa ingabe kunjalo? Ngikhumbula incazelo Aristotelian injabulo, okubandakanya izinzuzo zamabanga aphansi naphezulu. Inzuzo oyinhloko - lena injabulo uqobo i-uqobo ngaphakathi kithi, kuyisikhathi enqabeni ukuchuma nokuzola. Futhi abantu ukuze kuzuzwe yalo buphathwe izindlela zangaphandle yokulithola. Kodwa abantu abaningi, ngeshwa, siwathathe original injongo, okuqukethwe, eqinisweni, amancane. Ngokuqinisekile uyaqonda ukuthi abantu ngeminyaka ningabi bajabule, kodwa ukunciphisa kuphela izifiso zabo ibha, kodwa namanje ...

Man uzenza inceku izimo kokuzibophezela.

Lesi simo lonke kumane lula futhi uvikelekile izindlela ukuxhumana ngaphakathi komphakathi. Thina eduze ukuzama ukudlulela ngale kwalokho, akekho uzosilwela for injabulo yakho, ngaphandle ngokwakho, ngoba ukuthi uzazi wena futhi uzizwe ukuthi nokuthi lufanele lwenteke kulamazinga lalandzelako.

Iba nguwe: nezinye izindima eziyinhloko lithathiwe!