Izindlela, amakhono, nemibandela ezingxoxweni ezakhayo. nokubambisana Constructive - kuba ...

Abantu ukuphila engena ubudlelwano ehlukahlukene ekuhlanganyeleni. Lokhu kungaba ukuxhumana phakathi abadala, phakathi umuntu omdala futhi ingane, ingane, futhi ubuhlobo nemvelo.

Ukuthuthukiswa ubudlelwane akuyona ngaphandle inkinga futhi ukungqubuzana izimo. Ukuze baxazulule izinkinga ezinjalo kangcono ngokusebenzisa inkhulumomphendvulwano. Inkhulumomphendvulwano eyakhayo, kubalula bararulule imiraro engaba ukuthi iphakame emkhatsini lamacele inkhulumomphendvulwano. Ngakho, nokubambisana ezakhayo - kuba ikhambi lenkinga ngosizo zokuxhumana kanye nekhono nizwane, kanye kwamakhono akhona kanye achaza isimo sabo ngokucacile.

Kungani sidinga ubuhlobo ezakhayo

Kusukela zisencane, umuntu kubeka amakhono ezingxoxweni ezakhayo. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, ingane ixhomeke kakhulu ingxenye ngokomzwelo sokuthuthuka, abazali kumelwe ulungise indlela yokuxhumana amakhono usebenzisa ohlangothini ngokomzwelo. Kuye ingane livikeleke emakhonweni okukhulumisana, lokho nemibandela ezingxoxweni ezakhayo ababemzungezile, indoda ingena contact ucishe lapho usukhulile.

ukuthuthukiswa olunzulu indoda futhi ikhono ukwakha kalula ubuhlobo bethu nabanye kungenza ukuphila kube lula nokuxazulula izinkinga ngeke okungadala ubunzima. Uma njengoba bengane akazange ukuthuthukisa ikhono elihle lokukhulumisana nabanye olukhona, bese njengoba zikhula ingane amadala kuyoba nzima ukuba zibone indawo yazo emphakathini.

Preschool isikhathi - ngesisekelo sokuthuthukiswa inkhulumomphendvulwano eyakhayo

Ngokuba ukuthuthukiswa ezakhayo amakhono ukuxhumana phakathi ingane omdala kumele:

• Thuthukisa zokuxhumana khulula ezinganeni nakubantu abadala.
• ukuthuthukisa ngokugcwele lulwimi lolukhulunywa kusukela ebuntwaneni: pronunciation, silulumagama, luhlelo lwelulwimi, anokuhambisana yokukhuluma.
• Lungisa nokwenziwa inkulumo kwezinkambiso practice.

Lapho eneminyaka engu-eminyakeni 6-7 izingane ezindala ngokufaka isigaba esisha ukuthuthukiswa, iya esikoleni, ngakho-ke anesisekelo okuxhumana ezakhayo eminye kuleli qembu.

nokubambisana Constructive - kuyisihluthulelo isixazululo olinganiselayo izingxabano esikoleni.

Abazali ukusiza ekwakhiweni amakhono okuhlalisana

Abazali kufanele bacije izingane ukuze ingangqubuzani izimo esikoleni. Ukuze wenze lokhu:

• Ukuze uthuthukise indlela okhuluma wengane.
• Funda Kuphindza ucoce ukufunda.
• Tfutfukisa likhono alibonise ngokugcwele imicabango yabo.
• Gcina isithakazelo self-imfundo, ekusizeni ukuba athathe isinyathelo ukuthola ulwazi olusha.
• Ukufunda ukudalula ngokugcwele izimfanelo into, isimo.
• Ukwakha isimo lapho izingane angaxoxa isimo sabo ezithakazelisayo nomunye.
• Fundisa ingane yakho ukwenza iziphetho elula, baveze abakucabangayo kufinyeleleke futhi kuyaqondakala.
• Nakani nenhlonipho inkulumo.
• Ejwayele ukuzimela lokwahlulela.

Njengoba kahle izindlela eziyisisekelo zinto elibonakalayo ingane esizayo kuyoba lula ukuxhumana e amaqembu, ukuxazulula izingxabano futhi ukuba sesimweni ukuphila okumatasa.

ukuxhumana Constructive nge intsha

Ubusha - inkathi yokuphila ukukhetha, ukulingisa isikhathi ekahle, lapho othile osemusha kunzima ukufanisa isithombe esikhethiwe yena, uyaqonda siqu nezinkinga zayo zangaphakathi, ngesikhathi esifanayo ufuna ukuba "akukho okubi kakhulu ukwedlula abanye." Nokho, izinto zingenzeki njalo uhambe ngendlela ofuna ngayo, futhi ngokuvamile umntwana ekhetha indlela okungeyona ngoba ukukhula kwawo. Futhi indima yabazali empilweni kwentombazane kubaluleke kakhulu, kufanele ufinyelele kuye futhi, ngaphandle kokulimaza imizwa yakhe, ukusiza ukukhetha efanele.

nokubambisana Constructive - ke wengxoxo omdala nengane eyeve eshumini nambili ku-nokuwumisa alinganayo kanye nekhono esebenzisa inkhulumomphendvulwano ukuthola indlela yokuphuma ezimweni ezinzima.

Trust - ngesisekelo nokuxhumana omdala nengane

nokubambisana Constructive naleli bhungu kuyofezwa uma inhliziyo ubudlelwane uzobe elisekelwe ekwethembeni. Uma kukhona ithemba ngeke babe ukulawula ngaso sonke isikhathi ingane futhi ukhathazeke ngoba ukudlula esikhathini esinzima. Nengane othembela omdala, wakhuluma kuye ngezenzakalo ezenzeka ekuphileni kwakhe, ukuze baxoxelane okuhlangenwe nakho izinselele. Nokho, uma umuntu omdala oficwa yilokho amanga, ukwethembana ubalekela futhi ulibuyise kuyoba nzima kakhulu.

Abazali akufanele kuphula isikhala yangasese eyeve eshumini nambili, kungenzeka ukuba ngokuzimela zibone indawo yazo emphakathini. Nokho, ingane kumele uzizwe ukusekela abazali, kuyokunikeza kuye ithemba ngamandla abo.

Ubusha - kulokhu ngokwahlukana ngokwengqondo abazali ezweni omdala, kusungulwa i emhlabeni ezimele kwangaphakathi.

Indlela nabuhlungu unqobe usakhula

Sikhula, ingane "ehlukile" ngokwabo kubazali babo, uzodinga isikhala yangasese ukuthi akekho umuntu ukuphazamisa.

Ukuze hhayi ukulahlekelwa ingane, udinga ukuxoxisana okwakhayo nentombazanyana eseyintsha. Abazali kumelwe alethe umbono kwazo isimo, futhi ingane - kokwakhe, ndawonye ukufinyelela umphumela ezivamile elanelisa kokubili.

izindlela ezinjalo nokuxhumana ezakhayo kufanele khona kusukela omdala:

• Iyatholakala ukutshela ingane mayelana ukwesaba kwakhe ukuthi wayekuqonda kubo.
• Ingane kumele baqonde ukuthi uzimisele ukulalela futhi balithole nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ngesikhathi esifanayo ngeke ukugxeka.
• Ukuze abonise ukuthi umbono wengane kubalulekile kuwe futhi imhloniphe.
• Ingane yena kumele enze ukukhetha, lapho uludinga, futhi efanele, kona-.
• Qiniseka ukuba badumise ingane, ngakho akazange adumazeke ngamakhono akhe.
• Thanda nokusekelwa kuyosiza ingane ibhekane isigaba eyinkimbinkimbi ungubani kumiswa.

Uma ingane izizwa ezimele, kanye nokulawula esanele ukuthi isimo, it has a ukuzethemba namandla, uyakwazi ukuxhumana iqembu, banesibophezelo sezenzo zabo - lokhu kusho ukuthi iminyaka yokweva eshumini nambili lidlule, kanye nosizo inikeziwe abazali ngendlela efanele futhi ngokwakhayo.

Umphakathi kanye nemvelo

Nature inikeza izinsiza ngokusebenzisa lapho abantu bengaphila khona. Ngaphandle emoyeni, izipho bemvelo, amanzi, imisebenzi ebalulekile ngeke kwenzeke.

nokubambisana Constructive - ke mbambambamba umthelela emphakathini kanye nomphakathi on nature.

Nature has imisebenzi eminingi, futhi omunye wabo - umuntu kwezomnotho. nemithombo yawo abe nezici kwezomnotho kanye amandla ezomnotho. Le ndoda yaqala ukusebenzisa lo msebenzi, nakabekwa kuba ngowokuqala ukwenza amathuluzi, ukwakha izindlu, ukwenza izingubo. Minyaka yonke, izidingo esintwini zikhulisa ukuhlangabezana ezisetshenziswa imithombo yemvelo ngokungadingekile.

With ukuthuthukiswa impucuko, nemvelo kusiza nezidingo lwabantu tebuciko, ezesayensi nakwezamasiko.

Ubudlelwano phakathi komuntu nemvelo kwenzeka sonke isikhathi. Ngaphandle ukuxhumana nemvelo abantu nje abakwazi ukuphila. Ngakho-ke, kufanele kube khona ukuxoxisana okwakhayo kwabo umphakathi kanye nemvelo. Ukuze hhayi abaphazamisa uxhumano nemvelo, abantu kufanele njalo silondoloze ke ngaphakathi elikhulu ezithile.

Ukuxhumana nemvelo

Nature - umthombo kwezimali umsebenzi womuntu. Inikeza ezihlukahlukene izinzuzo ukuphila, njengoba silindelwe yekusombulula inkinga yomuntu umphakathi athuthukile ngokugcwele. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuba khona imifula, amachibi, izilwandle, likhuthaza abantu ukuba bafunde embonini yezokudoba, nenhlabathi ocebile neqhaza ekuthuthukeni kwezolimo, uwoyela - ekuthuthukiseni izindlela besizwe yayo nokwenza imikhiqizo yalo.

Kulokhu, engekho iminotfo yemvelo endaweni ethize ukhuthaza abantu ukufuna indlela yokuphuma kulesi simo, ukuhlola amathuba amasha nemvelo.

ukuxhumana Constructive phakathi komuntu nemvelo kumele iboniswe ngomqondo Ingxenye nokusetshenziswa kwemithombo yendalo. Ngesikhathi "eshodayo" ngokusimama kwezinsiza zemvelo, abantu kancane kuncishiswe amathuba wetuthuko, futhi ngokweqile - kungenziwa bashiya yonke into. Ngakho-ke, lapho kubalulekile isimiso 'kusho osemqoka ".

nokubambisana lowakhako ebalulekile zonke izici zokuphila komuntu. Ikhono lokukhuluma, uxhumana kuzosiza umphakathi ukuthuthukisa ngokuvumelanayo futhi ngendlela efanele.