Inqubo isicelo sesehlukaniso ngo-enkantolo

Ngeshwa, akuyona yonke imibhangqwana siphila ngokuthula ngokuvumelanayo. Eminyakeni yamuva ube kaningi ngaphezulu zentsha eziye washada nje, abazi ovivinyweni ukuhlala ndawonye futhi wanquma isinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu - kuqedwa umshado. Isehlukaniso - inqubo ngemva kwalokho unqamule ubuhlobo bomshado. Izizathu ukuthi ahole abantu kulesi senzo, okuningi. Lokhu kungaba ukuphinga, nokuphuza utshwala, nokunganaki kubantwana bakwa-omunye abazali, njll

Inqubo kwamakomidi umshado

Ngaphambi kokuqala inqubo yesehlukaniso, ijaji likuthole ukuthi kukhona ithuba balondoloze imikhaya kuhlalisana we owakwakhe. Uma indoda noma inkosikazi umemezele nesifiso salo bakwemukele nezinye uhhafu wakhe, inkantolo ingakhipha ukunikeza isikhathi esengeziwe futhi ukuhlehlisa amacala ezehlukaniso inkathi ethile yesikhathi (cishe izinyanga ezintathu). Emva kwalesi sikhathi, i-oda enkulu yokuchitheka komshado ihlinzeka session entsha inkantolo, okwakwenza imiphumela lokho kuthula (noma intombi kowesilisa) eyaziwa. Uma izinyathelo ezithathwe ungazange nethonya oyifunayo, nowakwakho (noma omunye wabo) usafuna kwesehlukaniso, inkantolo ngeke ngokusemthethweni bayawuqeda umshado wabo.

Izizathu isehlukaniso (inqubo zokwahlulela):

• Uma unezingane ngokuhlanganyela abaye akukafiki yobudala;
• Uma omunye abashadayo uyafisa ukuyeka ukuthuthukiswa ubuhlobo bomkhaya;
• Uma omunye abashadayo engathandi ukuba ube khona amacala ezehlukaniso e ehhovisi lokubhalisa.

Uma isifiso abashadayo efanayo isehlukaniso (akukho izingane), i-oda inikela lokhu sokuchitha umshado nesehlukaniso zabo ngaphandle hlandla izizathu ukuthi utshelwa ukuba lesi sinyathelo.

Yini imibhalo kudingeka esiyisisekelo sesehlukaniso

Phezu ukuqedwa ubuhlobo bomshado esebenzisa umyalelo wenkantolo umlingani kufanele athumele kwemvume okubhaliwe nabo bayohlala kuwo (eneminyaka engaphansi kwengu-18) izingane. Futhi, ngoba ukusebenza umangalelwa nofana umangali isehlukaniso , amadokhumenti alandelayo:

• abathi-isitatimende ngeduplikhethi nekhophi yayo;
• isitifiketi somshado nekhophi yayo;
• e phambi kwezingane - isitifiketi sokuzalwa kanye namakhophi kubo;
• Imininingwane (irisidi), okuyinto uqinisekise ukuthi imali yokubhalisa senziwa;
• ngesikhathi lapho omunye abashadayo hhayi kungaba ukubakhona ekulalelweni, umfakisicelo kumele ahlinzeke kuye amandla ommeli egameni lakhe;
• Imibhalo eqinisekisa isiphetho ukubulawa enkantolo;
• abathi ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla;
• yimiphi imiqulu edinga enkantolo.

Qaphela: ukukhohlwa ukuthi enye nenye ikhotho unelungelo ukukunikeza uhlu kwemibhalo edingekayo ukuze amacala ezehlukaniso.

Ngemva lokuqoqa zonke izitifiketi ezidingekayo labetibambile yokuzwa (akukho ngaphambili esingaphezu kwenyanga), okuyinto bazathatha yonke izinqumo ezidingekile ku ekunqanyulweni noma ukulondolozwa ngomshado.

Iziphi izimpikiswano evumela isahlukaniso oda

• nabo bayophila izingane ezincane;
• ngokulandelana inkokhelo kuyoba nenani ukweseka kanye nokugcinwa.