Indlela Yokulungiselela Ukuvuma

Leli gama elithi "isakramente sokuvuma" lithi into esondelene nayo yenzeke ngesikhathi esifanayo, into eveza izikhathi ezimfihlo zokuphila lapho umuntu ekhetha ukungabuyeli khona. Ngoba ukuvuma okuningi kuyesaba futhi kuzama ukugwema. Kodwa abantu abaningi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi banesidingo sokusula unembeza wabo, bazihlanganise noNkulunkulu futhi ngokwabo. Bese kuphakama umbuzo wemvelo: indlela yokulungiselela ukuvuma ngokufanele. Emva kwakho konke, izono ezingaphezulu lapho umuntu engaphenduki khona, udangele udonga luba phakathi kwakhe noMdali. Ukwenza kancane kancane kubhubhisa umphefumulo. Umuntu uyeka ukuthanda abantu, kukhona ukwesaba, ukucasuka, ukwesaba, intukuthelo, intukuthelo. Ukuthuthukisa ukucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka, kukhona isifiso sokuzibulala, izibikezelo ezimbi. Ekugcineni, umzimba uyagula. Umuntu uyojabula ukusiza umphefumulo wakhe, kodwa angazi kanjani?

Lungiselela ukuvuma ekhaya, uqaphele izono zakho, uzilalele inhliziyo yakho. Kodwa lokhu kuhlanzwa akukhathali. Kufezekiswe ngempela kuphela ngokukhulumisana kompristi.

Ukuzibophezela komzimba wangaphakathi ongokomoya nokuthola izono zomuntu ongenalwazi kunzima kakhulu. Njengoba isampula sokulungiselela ukuvuma izono, uhlu lwezono, ungasebenzisa umsebenzi kaSt. Ignatius Brianchaninov, ukuyisebenzisa ezimweni zanamuhla.

Akubona bonke abapristi abakwamukela ukufunda "ephepheni." Kodwa-ke, kuyamukeleka, ngoba akunakwenzeka ukulungiselela ukuvuma okuqala ngendlela ehlukile. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi isimo esisodwa kumele sibonwe: izono zifundwa ngokugcwele futhi ngobuqotho, hhayi ngokusemthethweni, noma inothi lidluliselwa ngokuthula kumpristi. Lokhu akumukeleki. Uma ummangalelwa ebona kudingekile, angabuza ngezinye izinto. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kumuntu owafika okokuqala futhi unezinkinga ezithile. Ngemuva kokuvuma, iqabunga elinesono esibhalwe phansi kufanele libhujiswe.

Umpristi onolwazi, owazi kahle uyohlale eqaphela ukuthi umuntu olahlwe udinga ukuqonda okujulile ngomthombo wesono nokuphenduka kwakhe. Khona-ke ubeka isigwebo kuye ngenhloso yemfundo - isijeziso sesonto ngendlela yeminsalo, imithandazo, ukuzila ukudla okuqinile kakhulu. Kulokhu, ngisho nezono zikhishwa ngemuva kokuthi umkholi enze isikweletu. Ubaba ongokomoya kuphela owamisa angamkhulula.

Indlela yokulungiselela ukuvuma okuvamile, okwenziwe esontweni, lapho umpristi evumela ukuhamba kuwo wonke amaphenitents, hhayi ukulalela ngamunye ngamunye? Kubonakala sengathi awukwazi ukukhathazeka ngokukhethekile futhi ungesabi. Yingakho ibukeka ilinga abantu abangakaze bavume ukuvuma futhi bacabange ngokwanele. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo, nje kuphela ukuphenduka okunjalo akunakucatshangwa ukuthi kulungile. Yilabo kuphela abakholwayo abangasondela kuye, abavame ukuthatha isidlo futhi bangenazo izono ezifayo.

Ukuvuma kufanele kube khona ngaphambi kokudla komzimba, ngakho-ke, futhi kuhambisane nokuzila ukudla, ubude nobukhulu obunqunywa yizinto ezenziwa ezonweni kanye nekhalenda yesonto.

Ngaki kangakanani okufanele sivume futhi sithole ukuhlanganyela? Umqambi wanele ngokwanele kane ngonyaka - ngesikhathi sokudla ngamunye. Okuthunyelwe ngaphambi kweKhisimusi nePhasika kungenzeka futhi izikhathi ezimbili. Kodwa lokhu akukhiphi ukukholwa komuntu ovela ekuhlelweni kwangaphakathi okuqhubekayo nokuletha ekupheleleni umphefumulo wakhe nomoya wakhe.

Ukulungiselela kwangaphambi kokuvuma nokuhlanganyela kwezingane kufanele kuqale eneminyaka engu-7. Ngokweziko zeSonto, izinsana emva kokubhapathizwa kwazo kuze kube seminyaka eyisikhombisa zibhekwa zingenacala. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi bangathatha isidlo somzimba njalo, ngokoqobo nsuku zonke. Kodwa, kakade kusukela eneminyaka engu-7, izingane kufanele zilungiselele ukuvuma futhi zifunde ukukhuluma ngesisu esingenalutho.