Ukwabelana and Compliance

"Ukwabelana kanye nokuhambisana."

Le ndoda - sifuna wesifazane - ulindele.
Le ndoda - uthola owesifazane - izitolo.
Le ndoda - uya, owesifazane - ukulinda.
Yena - ivuleka, kuba - ingxenye.
Uyawubhidliza, uyawubhidliza kuze - ekhetha.
Yena - ingabe - kuwufanele.
Yena - ulunika -pryachet.
Man - Ezulwini,
owesifazane - indoda.
Man ethethelela owesifazane uyakhumbula.
Umuntu isenzo,
owesifazane kuwumphumela.
Yena - emanzini, kuba - esibuthakathaka.
Yena - umnsalo, yena - boom.
... ngikholelwa ukuthi - ithemba.
... Ngiyethemba ke - nethemba.
ke - love it - uwela.
Umuntu ohlakaniphile, yena - kunengqondo.
Yena - imfundiso yokuziphendukela, kuba - isipiliyoni.
Yena ophikayo ke - kwesokudla.
Yena - Ufuna - afuna.
Indoda yakha owesifazane udonsa.
Lo mlisa wetha yijaji wesifazane.
Uqala,
ke - kuphelile.
... evulekile, owesifazane ivaliwe.
... - yebo, emabeleni, owesifazane - isithelo.
... - ukuphakama wesifazane - ukujula.
... - isikhala owesifazane -haos.
... Uyazi, owesifazane azizwa.
Yena - lo ngomkhumbi, kuba - umoya.
Ushisa, ke kuyakhanya.
Yena - ukuntula isineke
ke - ukukhuthazela.
Yena - umoya yomthetho,
ke - Le ncwadi yomthetho.
Ufisa, yena -plachet.
Man - bebodwa, owesifazane - ngokwayo
Man lifundisa ingane
owesifazane nguye owutho.
Muhle eziyize ezingenakusiza nezingenakophula, kuba - Moody.
He is ezolile, kuba - Ahlubukayo.

Man - egejeni, owesifazane - ensimini.
Uyabuza, yena - kudinga.
Indoda nowesifazane kancane ngokwanele.
He is bahlakaniphe, yena - luyakhohlisa.
Yena - inceku, kuba - umnikazi.
Le ndoda - inkosi, owesifazane - isimo.
Yena - ngembazo, yena - lo wesahlulelo.
Uhlala ke - izimpilo.
Man - okuqukethwe,
zesifazane - fomu.
Le ndoda unesihe
yowesifazane evumelekile.
Le ndoda - ubuthakathaka, owesifazane - amandla.
Sigqoka,
yena - odlulela.
Le ndoda - amehlo, lona wesifazane - ezindlebeni.
Man - iphunga ke - ukunambitha.
Yena - mhla ethola - ebusuku.
Yena - ekwindla, kuba - ehlobo.
Yena - ukungeneliseki
She - sifo.
Kuphinde kuvule, ke uvala.
Le ndoda - ngokufa kowesifazane - isifo.
Man - esibhakabhakeni, lona wesifazane - ezweni.

Indlela ... indlela akucaci futhi eside. Indlela kokuhlanganiswa esehle ngenhla, futhi, kamuva yahlukaniswa beyofuna ngokwabo.

Ngivame umbuzo owodwa: lapho ngiba ezimele futhi waqala ukufuna kwakhe, kuphela okwakudingeka kwakhiwe ukuthi ngabe engangingakwenza kimi, khona-ke uzizwa kwaba wakhe? Kodwa kwathi, ekugcineni, ukuze mina ke kwadingeka ukuba siqonde umuzwa ngokuhlukana adalwe isifiso sami beya futhi equlekile ngahlangana ukuthi, njengoba kwakubonakala kimi, izwe lami wakhethwa, futhi wangishaya inhliziyo.
Lokhu Manje sengiyazi ukuthi inhliziyo yami yahlaselwa ezihlukene kakhulu, hhayi lezo mina, kokuba safinyelela phakathi, abakhuluma ulimi oluyingxube, ubudala, kuphela ngalokwanele okuletha futhi wesaba ukuya ukuzindla, ngizizwa kube yilolu suku ongaziwa, ingane sezimiso uthando.
Cha, manje sengiyabona ukuthi konke sihlangane ngaphandle, kwakhiwa umhlaba wethu wangaphakathi. Konke ekuphenduleni kwethu, elisuka futhi ihlume, lihluma kakade kanye umphefumulo wethu. Ingabe lokho akubonisi yini ukuchaza iqiniso lokuthi sinikele ngokuphila, ngezinye izikhathi, kude kakhulu kusukela yomuntu imi yithi nobude bengalo, kodwa, bheka, nanko, ngoba kungekho sobala unganakile kungani, ngokushesha kuvula lapho kwakubonakala kungenakwenzeka ukuba ingabonakala, futhi ake kwenye ukuphefumula ezweni lakhe siqu, ngezinye izikhathi ngaphansi kwezimo okurarako.
Akukhona ukuthi kumane kuqondane nje, kodwa ngenxa kukhathazeka yabo ngendlela elibukeka ngayo, mhlawumbe, njalo: the ongaziwa, engaqondakali, ngomshoshaphansi, kodwa njalo.
Ingabe imvelo yakho iqala nawe? Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe lokuhlanganyela ... kubalulekile ukuze ufunde ukuthi ufunde ke ubani, noma cishe wonke umuntu, kunjalo empilweni yakho kuyoba kakhulu ngendlela ecacile neqondakalayo, futhi bonke "ongaziwa" ukuba bahlale endaweni mathupha naphakade engaqondakali lokhu empilweni yakho.