Ukuhlaziywa zokuhlola zezinkinga kwezingane e psychoanalysis

Tinkinga letinyenti kakhulu ekukhuleni kwengane abe "izimpande" yabo ngaphambili yobudala izinkathi ukuphila kwezingane: e okusuka ebunganeni kanye kokubeletha. Ngakho-ke, ngo-psychoanalysis, esiklanyelwe ukusungula izizathu lokhu noma lokhuya zokugula ekukhuleni kwengane, usebenzisa ukuhlaziywa zokuhlola uya umlando, uhlola isimo umndeni ezandulela samanje, kanye ukusetha ubudlelwano phakathi isimo esingokomzwelo abazali ukuba usana olusanda kuzalwa futhi ijubane ukuthuthukiswa yayo ngesikhathi samanje.

Ngo kwenkathi kokubeletha ukuthuthukiswa, kanye ezinyangeni zokuqala eziyisithupha impilo yengane uthola ngokomzwelo futhi zengqondo social abazali abenza yamukeleke kubo ezingeni reflection. psychoanalyst French Dolto F. futhi K. Elyacheff isiqiniseko sokuthi izinkinga yengane bavele kukho ezinyangeni zokuqala eziyisishiyagalolunye wokuphila, ongamataniswa izenzakalo ezenzeka nomama esikhathini esifanayo yokukhulelwa. ukuhlaziywa zokuhlola yokukhulelwa kamama kusiza ukusetha lesi senzakalo ukuba sihlaziye nokuqonda imizwa ukuthi wayezizwa kulesi simo ukuze ingane, kanye ukuthola isixhumanisi ukuze intuthuko entsha isimo.

Ingane ngowesifazane okwathi ngenyanga yakhe yesihlanu yokukhulelwa wayenesisusa yokuzibulala, e izinyanga ezine noma ezinhlanu zokuphila singazelele ukugula. Nokho, isimo sakhe kungenzeka acute, ingane, okuyisimo esisongela ukuphila. Abalobi efanayo isibonelo umkhuba wakhe siqu wafakazela ukuthi izimo ezinjalo ingasebenza ngempumelelo, ukushintsha izinkomba kulungiselelwa yentuthuko. Ukuze wenze lokhu, abahlaziyi ukuncoma ukhuluma nengane yakho, emtshela iqiniso mayelana nomcimbi nokubonisa indlela yokugwema izinkinga. Ingxoxo siqhutshwa ingane zanoma iyiphi iminyaka: ingane noma preschooler. Injongo lezi zingxoxo - engaqondi izizathu ingane yezinkinga zakhe, futhi ushintsho ukuqhubeka ukufakwa.

Ngo Psychology, ukuhlaziya zokuhlola - ukubukeka esikhathini esedlule yengane, search for izimo ezinjalo nezimo eziye baba "inhlamvu indlela" sokuthuthukiswa izici wengane engathandeki uhlamvu noma, kunalokho, nomthelela nse ekuthuthukiseni. Freud, ukusebenza abadala, zifuna imbangela yezinkinga zabo ubudlelwane kuzici kwezingane. Psychoanalyst olwenziwa ukuhlaziya zokuhlola zezinkumbulo lesiguli, ukukhuluma nsuku zonke nomuntu test, kuze kuba sobala isizathu ukugula noma inkinga yakhe.

Izingane umhlaziyi isebenzisa idatha, okuyinto lona abazali, hhayi ingane. Ingane ayikwazi ngokwalo ukunquma ukuqala awabo inkinga yokuziphatha, isb. A. hhayi Akukona nje kuphela ukukhumbula zonke izenzakalo esengumntwana, kodwa akuyona uyasiqaphela isidingo ukubhekana nabo. ukuziphatha ingane yabo sokugembula esetshenziswa ngempumelelo njengoba indlela ukuzivikela, ngakho ngisho umelana lapho abazali psychoanalyst uzama ukulungisa inkinga. Ngakho, kungase kudingeka elwa preschooler kufanele bazivikele ukungabaza izingane iqembu kungaba ukuhlasela kwakhe, ukulimaza, ukukhetha amathoyizi. Okuvamise ingane iyagula bengase babheke isifo njengoba isibusiso, t. Ukuze. Ngosizo lwawo, angakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe ekhaya nabazali babo. Ukuze uzwisise ukuthi yini inhloso kosana equlekile ngokubamba inkinga yakhe, kubalulekile ukuhlaziya kanye naye. Kunenkolelo ehhovisi umhlaziyi yezingane nabazali.

Sebenza nge izingane ezincane abangakwazi ukudweba, ukudlala kanye nenkulumo, aphethwe singagcini nje ngokumlingisa ngesikushoyo khona abazali babo, futhi obuseduze nabo. Izinkumbulo kwesikhathi sokukhulelwa, okuhlangenwe nakho lokuqala kakhulu ingane at inhliziyo umsebenzi. Bona laba isisekelo segama umdlalo eziyisisekelo ingane ngokuziphatha khombisa ubuhlobo ukuze indaba nabazali. Ngemuva kocwaningo zokuhlola kwenziwa, le umhlaziyi likhuthaza abazali ukuba search yokuzijamela izixazululo zezinkinga, noshintsho esimweni sengqondo maqondana nengane. Ezibalulekile Ezingafundwa bonke abahlanganyeli kule nqubo iba yokuhoxiswa kokwenzeka esikhathini esidlule, ukwakha Umbono entsha uma kucatshangelwa isimo samanje.