Ukuhaha kubangela ubumpofu, noma impumelelo ubumpofu Ngenxa yobugovu.

Umzimba womuntu - eziyinkimbinkimbi, yayingaziwa nhlobo kuze kube sekupheleni kwalesi simiso, lapho konke kuhlobene. izinyawo Wet - nomphimbo obuhlungu, buhlungu phezu izithende - izinso izinkinga. Lwetinongo (ngisho kancane nehaba) izibonelo, kodwa lokhu ngempela kunjalo. Okuningi nzima ukuchaza ezicashile kakhulu ushintsho womuntu ngokomoya. Futhi akukho nkinga. I sihloko sigxile elinye - uzindla mazwi adumile abonisa ukuthi sekuyinkinga ezinamaphiko: "Ukuhaha kubanga ubumpofu."

Ngamagama alula uchaza nebezysvestnogo hero inoveli Bulgakov sika (ekhuluma isitini, okuyinto nje angawi ekhanda lakho) uMthetho, okuyinto enikelwe imisebenzi yabo yizazi zefilosofi German Kant futhi Schopenhauer. Konke enesizathu.

Sivumelana ngesikhathi esisodwa

Move kude isihloko sengxoxo imithetho causality. Ngokuqinisekile babe nelungelo khona - futhi ngani? Kodwa lokho asikwazi bachaza, uthinte - akusiyo okwanelisayo. Ake ushiye it zefilosofi ongqondongqondo Ukuzivocavoca onikwe linokuhlakanipha okukhethekile isipho kwemvelo ukubona into ayitholakali iso ovamile.

Kukhona futhi ngeke siphindwe, ukunikeza izincazelo nokuhlanganyela incazelo yamanani (abangane kusukela ebuntwaneni) amazwi nasemiqondweni ethile. Konke lokhu Sekuyisikhathi eside kwenziwa, futhi akazange abhale ngakho ngaphandle ukuthi ubuvila. Bambalwa ungavumelani naleso sono - lokhu kubi, kodwa isenzo esihle - kuyamangalisa.

Ingane eneminyaka emithathu ngezandla zakhe kancane clutched esisesandleni uswidi, engafuni ahlukane umcebo wakhe, Ngizizwa ngishukumiseleka ukuba wabelane le ngcebo, ukuzwa umfuziselo of kunina: "Ungabi abahahayo, intombazane Phatha ...". Kid ngalesi yobudala ukuthi yini ubugovu. Okungenani intuitively uzizwa ukuthi akukuhle.

Ekugcineni, "ubumpofu" umqondo (ubumpofu). Ubumpofu yokungezwani ubumpofu. Life is enezici, busadlangile nge Ezenzakalweni ezingavamile futhi eyingqayizivele. Sizobukeza isimo uma umuntu ophumelelayo esiba ngumyanga, ngisho nabampofu.

Yini ebangela ubumpofu?

Siyazi le nkulumo - "Ukuhaha kubanga ubumpofu." Ubani washo la mazwi? Izinkulumo osekungamakhulu eminyaka lusetshenziswa, abantu bahlale bemazi namuhla, lingelikaJehova zefilosofi ongqondongqondo China lasendulo, uConfucius (551-479 BC. E.). Lapho ubheka ikusasa, sizama ukuphendula umbuzo. Ubumpofu kuholela ukuhaha, ubugovu nokuhaha. In ulimi esontweni - uthando lwemali, okuyinto omunye yezono ezinkulu eziyisikhombisa.

Noma yimuphi ukugomela kwamehlisa neyaziwayo isibhakabhaka, akunjalo? Sekuyisikhathi uqale ubufakazi inkulumo ethi "Ukuhaha kubanga ubumpofu." Confucius ephethwe umusho omfushane ukuchaza yonke inqubo izinguquko ekujuleni ekuphileni kobuntu.

Buthakathaka ingqondo ebumpofwini

Asiqale kusukela ekupheleni impikiswano, buyela unhlangothi. Ngakho, ake ucabange: uma abantu ngempela yimpumelelo yaba mpofu. "Umgomo njengoba Falcon," futhi akukho okunye. By endleleni, into ajwayelekile ngisho ukude sifana inganekwane. Angazi amagama nezinkulumo, "incithakalo", "ucabanga", "yikho konke", "ukuba emgwaqeni?"

Isinxibi othambekele falling. Kwakona nje ukuthi umuntu wayempofu, angeke afakaze kuyanda yakhe, vuka. Isibonelo banal, kodwa kutholakala yonke indawo - ethola isipho, isinxibi sifuna kunalokho "bafakwa kwegazi" yayo - isiphuzo. Ukuze ubumpofu buthakathaka engqondweni. Lapho umuntu engavumeli ukuhlukanisa phakathi okuhle nokubi, lokhu kuwubufakazi bokuthi ingqondo ababuthakathaka.

Futhi akunandaba ukuthi ngamabomu abazange bakuqaphele umehluko. Yilokho nje Inkinga ukuthi uhlukanisa kubo (uma kungenjalo wayeyobe engakwazi). Le ndoda uyaqaphela ukuthi isenzo sakhe akulungile, kodwa namanje kwenza kube. Kungani? Ingqondo ababuthakathaka (akukho ukwenza abagula ngokomqondo, zokugula). Ukungakwazi (zokungazimiseli) ngokwanele ukuhlola itayitela elingcolile nemiphumela yako emibi.

Kungase kube wenqaba ukuthi kukhona iziphanzi abagcina "igazi" yabo, ngisho wahlanganyela hoarding ama-handouts. Kasibili kweqiniso. ake kuphela kithi hhayi zidideke ebhukwinitifundvo isinxibi nendoda engibathandayo "ubumpofu" sekuyinkinga umsebenzi, ngendlela ezifihlwe wenkohliso isetshenziselwa ukukhwabanisa. Ikuphi ukuhlobana okukhona yakho konke lokhu ngamazwi athi "ukuhaha kubangela ubumpofu?" I ngqo kakhulu. Hlaziya lonke uchungechunge link.

Ukulahlekelwa ihlazo - esicacile sokuthi ubumpofu isivele "wokungqongqoza eminyango"

Yikuphi buthakathaka imicabango yomuntu? Nalapha futhi, ebhekisela ulimi isonto (kafushane futhi ngamafuphi ubapha incazelo eqondile kakhulu), ungaphendula ngegama elilodwa - isono. Nesono nengqondo nababuthakathaka eduze kuhlobene. Man ayikwazi ukushaya lo mkhuba, musa noma ucabange ngakho, khona-ke aluphumeleli umgomo onjalo. Akabuyi ukubona umehluko lobhacile, uthola ukulungisiswa yayo ngisho ngamabomu izenzo ekhubazekile.

Ngu isimo wokona, esikhundleni salokho, ukushonelwa amahloni. Omunye angase aphike, ethi eholela isifiso ukuwa. Akungabazeki. Isono ngaso sonke isikhathi ukwamukela. Isilingo? Futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso, kodwa kanye umbuzo - kungani umuntu ugwema esilingweni, futhi umuntu akakwazi ukumelana nayo? Ngemva ekuqaleni noma ubani khona kanye nemibono yomphakathi, kanye nemithetho yokuziphatha, umthetho kanye nezinye imithetho yomphakathi, kwamukelwa kabanzi imithetho nokuhlalisana nabanye abantu esikhathini sokuphela. Ukuze ububi ukulahlekelwa zehlazo, unembeza, ungabiza ke noma yini oyithandayo. It uhlala kuphela ambalwa izixhumanisi lonke uchungechunge, ehlukanisiwe ukuvezwa ukuthini inkulumo ethi "ukuhaha kubangela ubumpofu."

Ukunqatshwa ubuhle nobuhle kuholela ekulahlekelweni amahloni

Ukungafuni ukuhlala kwabanye, bazilahla izimfanelo ezinhle okuthile okungekuhle, limoshekile, kunzima futhi ezingenanzuzo. Bheka kakhulu izithakazelo siqu, inzuzo yabo siqu, ukuba bafinyelele imigomo yabo nganoma iyiphi indlela noma ngakulahla nganoma iyiphi indlela, kungakhathaliseki kwizidingo kanye nezifiso zabanye, imithetho kanye nemigomo, kusho ukulahleka namahloni futhi unembeza.

Ekugcineni, kuholela ekulahlekelweni ngamahloni na? Ngokuqinisekile ukuhaha. Ukuhaha - kungcono sikhethe. Ukuhaha kubangela ubumpofu. Okwakushiwo lesi sitatimende ukuthi uzoshiywa zobuhle (Ukukhathalela abanye) ngenxa yobugovu ukunika ukufinyelela kuwo ngaphandle kokuvinjwa ukuba nezinjabulo evusa inkanuko yesono. "Angikwazi ukukwenza lokho", "Ngifuna", "Nginelungelo", "lokhu empilweni yami", "Angikhathali" - namazwi izixhumanisi eyodwa uchungechunge, okuholela ubumpofu nokuhlupheka. Indoda, njengoba umthetho, ulahlekelwa nenhlonipho, "ubuso bakhe," ubudlelwane obuhle, abangane nabathandekayo. Futhi ngenxa kwetintfo ezivukayo nobunzima ezinye isikhawu ohambweni lokuphila, yena nakanjani izimpukane kwalasha, ezansi, ngethemba ngeze ukuthi umuntu abeke isandla sakhe.

Umuntu angeke alithole simane sivumelane nomhlaziyi egomela ukuthi ukuhaha kubangela ubumpofu. Umbhali ucaphuna amalungelo hhayi kuphela, liphinde silungile kakhulu inkulumo yayo.

izibonelo etemibhalo

Indlela ingasaphathwa Pushkin amaxhegu nabesifazane ababephila eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kolwandle, indaba Indian we izinyamazane Wegolide rajah ngobugovu Nasreddin Hodja futhi abathengisi abahahayo, neminye imisebenzi eminingi engafiyo izincwadi futhi inganekwane? Ingabe blue ayebonakala? Aziyona yini isibonelo esihle ukuthi egomela ukuthi ukuhaha kubangela ubumpofu?