Ngo-umthetho - ngubani lokhu nokuthi ubani odinga?

unkosikazi Young, uyeza emva komshado, umndeni komyeni wakhe, uthola isimo esisha maqondana nomkhaya wakhe. Likamakoti, yena uguqulwe indodakazi noma intombi.

"Ngo-umthetho - ngubani yena?" - angacela intsha sethu samanje, lapho izimiso zomkhaya ziba ayisekho ukudlala indima enkulu kangaka, njengasekuqaleni. Nakuba lokhu ubuhlobo eside namanje impela. Ngakho wabiza indodana lomkakhe -in-mthetho futhi umamezala.

Umalokazana umthetho, noma kanjani kahle?

Ukuchaza khona le migomo ezimbili, eminye imithombo ithi: indodakazi ( "akwaziwa" "akwaziwa"), inkosikazi ethile wayibuyisela kubazali komyeni wakhe ahlale nje awusebenzi amthole umntwana, bese isivele abe umakoti. Kodwa kule Ushakov isichazamazwi, igama elithi "umalokazana" kusebenza ukhombise ubuhlobo phakathi kukamama Ungumkandodana, njengoba umkamfowabo ngokuthi abafowabo nodadewabo. Kodwa unkosikazi Ubaba ndodana ngokushesha baba umakoti.

Umakoti: ngubani yena?

Lisho ukuthini igama elithi "umalokazana"? Inani lawo futhi emithonjeni ehlukene iphathwa ngokwehlukile.

Ngokwesibonelo, endulo kukholakala ukuthi ukuzalwa komntwana ekugcineni "iphumele" unkosikazi emndenini komyeni wakhe, wayenomuzwa wayengaselona "izihambi" futhi "akwaziwa", futhi zacishe obaluleke njengokungathi uyigugu njengoba nje nendodana - "synohoy".

Ngokusho kwenye inguqulo, igama elithi "umakoti" livela egameni "ukukhuthazela '. Fika umndeni indoda, inkosikazi kwadingeka akhuthazelele zonke izinhlobo Ukuthuka izihlobo zomyeni wakhe, ngisho likhuthazelele ukushaywa wayewukuphela komuntu engaphansi kakhulu endlini.

Ubudlelwano: umalokazana umthetho

Namuhla e-umthetho, yebo, hhayi engenamandla, njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili. Futhi ezimweni eziningi namuhla, lo mbhangqwana uzame ukuhlala yodwa ngokuphumelelayo ngaphandle kwabazali. Noma kunjalo, ubudlelwano phakathi umamezala futhi umakoti (indodakazi) ngokuvamile kakhulu ikhefu okuningi okufanele oyifunayo. Isizathu esiyinhloko - umhawu. Umama kusengaphambili wesaba ukuthi indodana yakhe ngeke umthanda njengoba ngaphambi, ngeke kudingeke ukuba ke. Futhi umama ibonakala: umalokazana - ngubani jikelele, ngaphandle-ke uyakwazi ukunakekela indodana nomyeni wakhe nomama abangizalayo?

Ukuze sibe sibi nakakhulu. ubudlelwane emkhayeni, imibhangqwana esemisha kudingeka siqiniseke ukuthi umama akazange zingazizwa ziphuthelwa okuthile. Indodakazi kufanele qhashisa wo azi ukuthi akafuni ukuba luthathe enhliziyweni unina yomyeni wakhe, kodwa kunalokho, wazi kahle ukuthi lona wesifazane bomdabu emphilweni umyeni wakhe.

Umalokazana umthetho, futhi: lapha konke kulula

Kakhulu kuyaqabukela kwenzeka lezinkinga ebuhlotsheni obuphakathi mbhangqwana osemusha nezinye izihlobo baye benza yokungezwani phakathi umalokazana futhi umakoti. Kuyinto ukuthi abantu abaqaphela elivela ezingajabulisi zokuya phakathi ukusondelana. Emaphandleni, wonke wokuphila wayehlale ephambi kwamehlo akho, ukuze afihle into kwaba nzima. Ngo-umthetho, kubonakala kulesi isihlamba, ngathola snohacha brand noma snoshnika ngaleyo ndlela uzwakalise jikelele ukungamukeleki kumuntu osonile ubungcwele izibopho zomkhaya.

Lapho indodakazi iphupho emthethweni

Lokhu kusho ukuthi ulindele izinguquko ekuphileni kwakhe siqu. Ngokushesha uzothola nomuntu onjani uyozibonela eziningi izikhathi ujabule, kuyoba ukuphila kwakho kube nenjongo entsha.

Emfanekisweni

Lokhu kwenzeka ngo-China. Ezikhathini zasendulo, intombazane ngemva imishado yawo iye yaqala bahlala endlini yomyeni wakhe, ayisekho ungase ezingaphezu kuka bammangalela umukhwe. Wahamba waya kumngani kayise, owathengisela amakhambi, wathi kuye:

- Angisekho bakwazi ukuphila nge uninazala. URebheka washeshe ukushayela ngathukuthela. Siza ungitshele. Ngizokhokha.

- Yini engingayenza? - ngavele ngabhalisa okuyinto eyangimangaza Herbalist.

- Ukuthengisa Banginika inyongo. Esekhululiwe kuninazala, ngizobuya balahle yonke le nkathazo kulo, - uthe le ntokazi.

Veta umdayisi amakhambi wathi:

- Yiqiniso, Ngizokusiza. Kodwa ngilaleleni ngokucophelela. Okokuqala, kanye nomalokazana ayikwazi anobuthi, ngoba abantu ukuqagela konke. Amakhambi ukuthi Ngizokunika, ngale kwalokho bazonibulala umama wakho kancane kancane, futhi akekho uzoqaphela ukuthi wadliswa ushevu. Okwesibili, ukugwema ukubazindlekela, kufanele bafunde ukuhlonipha umamezala, ukuthanda kwakhe, ngilalelisise futhi ubekezele. Lapho umkakhe efa, akekho umuntu usola wena.

Ngo-umthetho bavuma wonke iziphakamiso ezenziwe utshani kancane kancane wanezela esidlweni umukhwe. Wafunda ukulalela iseluleko umalokazana wakhe, hhayi kuphela akazange aphatheke kabi umama nomyeni wakhe, kodwa amdumise. Lapho umkhwe wabona isimo sengqondo esihle indodakazi yakhe, yena, wayejabula kakhulu intombazane. Ngokushesha, ubudlelwane phakathi kwawo senibe njengabadinga phakathi umama nendodakazi.

T isikhukhukazi sishiya amachwane aso ayefika Herbalist ngala mazwi:

- Ngenxa kaNkulunkulu, londoloza umama emthethweni. Angifuni ukubulala wakhe. Ngiyakuthanda.

Travnik wathi:

- Ungakhathazeki kangaka Ngakunika akuyona ushevu, namakha ezivamile. Ubuthi kwaba kuphela ikhanda lakho, kodwa ubhekene kakhulu ngempumelelo ngiyilahle kuye.

Ngakho umalokazana - ngubani yena? Impendulo: nobuhlobo obuhle - indodakazi nabazali bomyeni wayo.