Kungani mabakhamuluke ebuthongweni?

Life yomuntu yesimanje ugcwele ukucindezeleka futhi zonke izinhlobo izenzakalo. Yiqiniso, abantu ngaphambili futhi uke wabhekana nesimo esinjalo, kodwa kufanele sibaphathe sikhululeke kakhudlwana. Kuyinto ngoba kubhekwa kuphela isici umuntu. Bambalwa abantu ukuya kudokotela ngombuzo: "Ukukhala ubuthongo bakho. Yini okufanele ngiyenze? "

Phakathi naleso sikhathi, zonke sokusebenza kwengqondo bangathi lokhu kuyinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi okudinga izinyathelo saziso. Ingabe Imbangela inkinga, "mina shout elele" - kuba awukghoni ukuthi umuntu akenziwa uzwakalise ngesikhathi sihlale siphapheme. Odokotela bengqondo ukweluleka ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukuxazulula isimo futhi ukukhuluma kumuntu uhlangabezana imizwelo engakhi isikhathi eside. Uma lokhu kungeke kwenzeke, yokungcebeleka enguqulweni ebhaliwe. Ukuze le ncwadi ebhalwe okukhulunywa naye nomuntu onjani kudingeka uchaze, abese eshiswa. Ngemva izikhathi ezimbalwa incazelo ebhaliwe inkinga ka 'ukuklabalasa ephusheni "yomngcwabo.

Ubani beyizidlova kulesi simo Ngobusuku buka-trance? Okokuqala - lokhu abantu orientation kwabanye - introverts. Ziyakwazi nobudlelwano, bejabule, kodwa kuncike kakhulu kwi imicabango yabantu nezenzo zabanye. Futhi, cha vakaza labo abanhliziyo msebenzi uhilela okuningi umthwalo nokuxhumana nabantu abaningi. Futhi-ke, izingane cishe bathi: "Ngikhala ebusuku" ngenxa nje musa ukukhumbula ukuthi noma abaqapheli kobukhulu inkinga. Nakuba zezingane ebusuku ezethusayo - lena kwesizathu esinzulu abazali ukuze ujike kudokotela wengqondo ngiyofuna. Futhi Isimanga siwukuthi, empeleni ngabazali, bese izingane.

Iqiniso lokuthi ingane liyakhala ngephupho kuphela kusuka uthuthumele eqinile noma imizwa wahlala phakathi ngenyanga edlule (lena isikhathi esiphezulu phakathi kwesikhathi lapho ingane kungaba silondoloze umuzwa ephakeme ukukhathazeka). Akukona okungavamile ukuthi ngokwahlukana aphansi elivela kumama, isibonelo, nesiguli ukwelashwa noma nabanye abantu ababesekamu, okuyinto akafani Daze yakho, ungakwazi ushiye izibazi psyche futhi kuholele ukukhala elele.

Somnology olwenziwa uchungechunge ucwaningo lapho ehlola kunenze nisondelane ngokwengqondo esiphakathi kukamama nosana lwakhe. Futhi sathola ukuthi kaningi empeleni ngabazali okufanele babekwe icala lokuthi ingane liyakhala elele. Bayohlala bekhathazeka nganoma yisiphi isizathu, imizwelo enamandla, izingxabano emkhayeni ndoda omncane kumkhathaza ngisho kude, futhi uma abazali kwelinye igumbi. Futhi kuwufanele ecabanga ukuziphatha kwabo kulabo avumele izingane sengqondo engazinzile (engu-12 ubudala) ukubukela ezihlukahlukene amafilimu nezinhlelo nge izigcawu ezinobudlova, ukudubulana, ukwesaba, njll Lokhu ngempela kuthinta bezibona ingane emhlabeni. Futhi okubaluleke - akukho imidlalo omdala kukhompyutha.

Esinye isici esibalulekile ukuthi kubangela Screams elele e ingane - kungcono ukukhathazeka kamama (ke ihlobene kakhulu nengane yakho kunaloyo lotfolwa ngibo bonkhe umndeni), ukulindela lezi uthi trances ebusuku nokulawula njalo ukulala. Yingakho izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ame kwelokuthi izingane kufanele ukulala yodwa ngokuphumelelayo ngaphandle kwabazali, futhi mhlawumbe kwelinye igumbi.

Uma umama yena bokukhulisa umntwana, noma ufuna zilandelwe ncamashi kule, amanye amalungu omndeni ukusekela imfundo enjalo, futhi siyifeze noma uthole induduzo umuntu, khona-ke ukumemeza elele kuyoba ihambisana esiyisibopho njalo ebusuku. Akubalulekile sishiseka zaba namandla kakhulu. Konke kufanele kube ngokulinganisela. Futhi ingane kwasekuqaleni, kumele zithole njengesijeziso ngokusesilinganisweni, futhi baduduzwa yile umuntu ofanayo wezenzo ezithile.

Overvoltage ebuntwaneni (esikoleni umthwalo ukuvakashelwa kanyekanye ukuba namaqembu amaningana nalezo zinto ezifunwa uhulumeni sina, njll) futhi kuholela ukulala thuthuva. Okwehlela unina ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ebusuku ezethusayo, phakathi kwesikhathi lapho umzimba wakhe kudedela hormone futhi engena ngokusebenzisa yi-placenta, kubangela ukukhathazeka ku-fetus, kungaphula psyche ngaphambi kokuzalwa.

Futhi okubaluleke nakakhulu, ukuthi kungase kube ngcono kulesi simo: ukuthola osenyameni ngokwabo futhi accustom kule ingane. Ngakho wena nje kuphela ukulondoloza psyche yakho, kodwa futhi ngcono izinga lempilo yakho.

Sifisela wena nezingane zakho bephilile futhi benamandla, ukulala okunempilo!