Izinkulumo Ohlakaniphile enhle yowesifazane

Okubizwa ngokuthi "ubulili esibuthakathaka 'Sizokwenza eziningi tinkondlo netingoma, amanoveli kanye tindzaba letimfisha, futhi yebo, aphorisms. Izitatimende mayelana abesifazane zavumela atehlukanisa yoga Indian, zo Oriental nezindela ephakathi, bayahlonishwa izimbongi Provencal futhi the titans the Renaissance. Wayithola ke "ukuze nuts" ngoba levity nothando ubucwebe, umsunguli walo wacabanga temptress okubi futhi ababhubhisa uhlanga lwesintu. Kodwa yena - Eva, i-Pandora, owesifazane ngohlamvu capital, futhi umngane wakho ozithandayo - zenani, ehlonishwa, ohlonishwayo. "I Sex Okwesibili" akugcini nje bexhashazwa ukungasebenzi, kodwa wacabanga kangcono futhi ephelele kakhulu kunabesilisa. Cabanga okufanayo ayebatshele zona smart mayelana abesifazane.

Eyayikhuluma ngaye Muslim East

Kukholakala ukuthi Islam, ubuConfucian, namasiko Indian ngokwedelela ubheke "ubulili esibuthakathaka '. Yiqiniso, le nkolelo abesifazane kukhona abakhona, kodwa impucuko European awuzange mizoginichna phambi ukulwela wazalwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amazwi amahle kakhulu abesifazane yilunga izimbongi Oriental. Queen e umdlalo chess lothando, ukudalwa ephelele iningi iNkosi, watshisa inhliziyo ishiya ukukhuliswa - lokhu kusho mayelana temptress oyifunayo Omar Khayyam. Ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi owesifazane ngokuhlakanipha kakhulu, njengoba kule ncwadi, kodwa kule futhi kwelinye icala, ukuqonda umbhalo, bakwazi ukufunda nokubhala. ZamaBedouin Rudaki ngaphandle othandekayo wakhe osezulwini ukuba bavale amehlo akhe ukuba angaboni lutho emhlabeni. Futhi imbongi Afghan Jami ngisho uphikise ubuhle wambiza inja kuyisidina, kodwa angakhetha ke phakathi kwabanye, i-buzz ngaye.

Izitatimende ngowesifazane endulo

AmaGreki musa ngempela intombi yakhe enhle. Baqhubeka kubo bevalelwa igatsha ekhethekile yendlu - Hynek futhi babenza lokho owesifazane muhle kabili kuphela empilweni yami - esikhuluma ngomshado wayeseshiya phansi lapho esezokufa. Bamesaba nabathandekayo babo. Ngisho uSocrates wathi ekhangwa ubuhle besifazane kufana noshevu, kodwa babe yingozi nakakhulu. Phela, leli ushevu limnandi. Kodwa tragedian Athene Euripides belulekwa neze ukuthemba abesifazane. Ngisho noma iqiniso. Iningi zo yamaGreki asendulo kubhekwe amashwa zabesifazane, isicupho amadoda. Ngakho-ke, ukuze bahlole intelligence ubuhle "ubulili esibuthakathaka 'endulo, kubalulekile ukuba siphendukele kuye kulabo abamele ngokwabo. Sappho, imbongi kusukela saseLesbos, uye wakwazi emazwini amazing kakhulu ukukhazimulisa abesifazane njengoba enhle yobuhle, ingqondo nezinzwa. Ihlelo lika-Aphrodite, okuyinto luqhutshwa kumbuthano lalona wesifazane ngesiGreki emangalisayo futhi bahlakaniphe kangakanani, wabeletha izithombe ezinhle kwezincwadi amantombazane. Nangu omunye wabo, njengoba uma inyanga kamnandi, okuyinto, zenyuka, kungaphezu zonke nezinkanyezi kukhanya phakathi kwabanye, abenze ongabonakali. izinyawo INkos dada entanyeni, ekamu curls emangalisayo efana imbali segolide - ezingaphezu kuka namazwi amahle abazinikele ubulili besifazane, kunzima ukuthola ezincwadini zesiGreki nefilosofi.

"Art of Love" futhi troubadours

NgeNkathi Ephakathi, owesifazane wokuqala eYurophu ukwenza indlovukazi wangempela izinkondlo. Abadali of wonke amazwe - troubadours, trouveres, minnesingers - elwela wahlabelela lady lungafinyeleleki ngubani bethanda baphuthuma ukwenza kwesidzingo. Bangabakhe izitatimende enkulu ngalowo wesifazane. Lady lover - kuyinto Umuntu ophakeme, okuyinto injongo yokuphila ngoba uNgqongqoshe courtly. Isifiso akusiyo in the ifa, futhi kwenza ngcono umphefumulo kanye ubuhlobo enhle. Lady ukukhonza, futhi wona wodwa enquma ukuthi usondele kangakanani ungaya lover wakhe, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi azinake wakhe. She - real-lady, uNkk, yena uhlakaniphile futhi emuhle. Sisithole ukukhanya, "uthando esekude" - lena amazwi ezivamile anikelwe kothandekayo. Ngokuthakazelisayo, ekahle amadoda langaleso sikhathi laliwumfuziselo owesifazane oshadile, hhayi intombazane ngoba, ngokusho izimbongi, kuba kwi ephakeme ezingeni bokusungula nangokomoya ukuthuthukiswa.

Yini zefilosofi uthi?

Amazwi ahlakaniphile mayelana nowesifazane uvele hhayi kudala. Bamafilosofi bathambekele futhi Aye aneliseka ukuthi ummeleli "esitezi sesibili" kungaba smart, kodwa hhayi abakhaliphile nokuthi begcina okubi wakhe - kuyinto ukuyibiza amabi. Ngakho ngisho nalezi izingqondo elikhanyayo like Kant futhi Hegel. Kodwa eduze kuze kube manje, ukuze abe indlela kubaluleke nakakhulu ukuba nesihlobo afana ubulili besifazane. Semyuel Dzhonson wathi ngenxa yokuthi babhala mayelana nengxenye enhle isintu ngokuyinhloko amadoda, ezithile zivela kuye njengoba ngamashwa abo nosizi lwabo emhlabeni. Ezinye izazi zefilosofi ngisho ukudlula izimbongi emazwini akhe mayelana abesifazane. Ngokwesibonelo, Maks Veber ukuthi indoda, yebo, kungaba obucacile kakhulu. Baningi ngisho nangaphezu kwezinwele wesifazane. Kodwa akasoze akwazi ukusho okuningi njengoba uthi amehlo akhe, futhi ungalokothi uthole ezihlukahlukene ezifana.

Izimbongi nabalobi mayelana abesifazane

Ubani owabhala ngazo kangcono kunanoma ubani omunye? Yiqiniso, abalobi nangekhono ukufuya izimbongi izwi, owabonisa emhlabeni amazwi amahle kakhulu owesifazane. "Intuitiveness yabo kanye nekhono umbani Ukuqagela lunembile okungaphezu ukuzethemba amadoda", - kushiwo Rudyard Kipling. A Balzac wathi owesifazane uthando uncono kakhulu futhi abazinikele ngaphezulu. Uhlale ebheke phambili zokugcina, futhi ukubulala okholweni, akudingeki isikhathi hit angababulali. Ngisho nangaleso sikhathi, owesifazane ngeke bathande kuze iconsi lokugcina igazi. Ngisho Nietzsche, owayeyinkosi imbongi kanye isazi sefilosofi, abazinikele ubulili fair amagama ambalwa ezinhle. Nokho, Nakuba wayaziwa njengomuntu ozonda wobulili fair, wavuma ukuthi enhliziyweni enothando yowesifazane ukulungele ukudela noma yini, futhi nakho konke okunye ayisho lutho kuye. Futhi uLeo Tolstoy ngamanga amadoda adinga kusuka ayizintandokazi zabo njengoba zonke izinhlobo izinzuzo, lapho ungenawo futhi okuyinto awufanelwe.

Bathini ngabo

Amazwi Omkhulu mayelana abesifazane abakwazi akusibekele yokuthi bacabanga bona. Shono abanye abantu edumile yathi muntu akwazi ukuqonda lokho omele ecabanga "wobulili esibuthakathaka ', futhi ayikwazi siyijabulele. Kumele-ke. Ngakho-ke kuyinto. Umlobi Virdzhiniya Vulf Akumangalisi ukuthi okwesikhathi eside kakhulu owesifazane lo wayengumGreki esibukweni isikhathi indoda. kubonakala kuphela ezikhohlisayo yakhe. Figure sendoda esibukweni uvele izikhathi ezimbili ephakeme kunaleyo empeleni. A ezilwela amalungelo abesifazane Lisa Kremer waveza ukuthi abesifazane bakha iningi labantu abaphila wonke. khona kuphela-ke, ngeshwa, a amalungelo amancane. Ezinye izintokazi abadumile bakhononda ngokuthi wanyamalala romantic Troubadour izinkondlo kuleli zwe lethu. Ngoba manje iyona abaphathi isikhathi. Owesifazane ingenye lezo zidalwa, ebabizela - wokubusa, hhayi ukubusa. Okungenani, ngakho uthi Delphine de Girardin.