Izingane bekwi "lo" - indlela aziphathe omdala?

Izingane zasenkulisa yobudala ivamile impela imikhuba evamile sokugembula ezifana amathoyizi abancela, iminwe, izinzipho zidla, ukushaya indlwabu (indlwabu). A nini kungase kuphakame isimo lapho umzali uthola ingane edlala umthondo yabo. Ukusabela kokuqala - ukushaqeka, ngezinye izikhathi isifiso ukuze ajezise ukuziphatha. Kodwa ngemva ndikindiki kuzodlula, musa ukuthethisa kanye ngezimpama izandla wengane kufanele kube lula ukubhekana nale nkinga futhi baqonde ukuthi baziphathe kanjani futhi yini okufanele uyenze lapho izingane abakwenzayo "ke."

Ukushaya indlwabu e umntwana omncane. Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Wena sikhule izinyane emangalisayo, futhi uma kuza isikhathi lapho uqaphela ukuthi ingane othinta noma udlala nge ubuntu bakhe. Lo mbuzo ubuzwa: kuyini? ilukuluku Wezingane, okuyinto kungokwemvelo ekuthuthukiseni ingane, noma umkhuba sokugembula - masturbation (indlwabu)? Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izingane liyakwazi "lo"?

Isitatimende yenkinga

Ngokuvamile, ngesikhathi enganeni livela isithakazelo ekuhloleni umzimba owesilisa nowesifazane. Izingane ukubona ontanga yabo kanye nabantu abadala nqunu umzimba, ngesikhathi esifanayo engengaphansi ezithakazelisayo ngabo ukutadisha akho emizweni yomzimba. Izingane ukuhlola izitho zangasese yabo ngokusebenzisa imidlalo, ukunwaya, nokugconwa noma uzithinta. Kulesi simo, akukho lutho olungalungile, kukhona nqubo ephawulekayo. Kodwa uma lo mntwana ihlangabezana imizwelo eyakhayo, okuyinto abe ovelele, ezishukumisayo kwezitho zobulili iba njalo ngaye.

Kungenzeka yini ukuba umuntu ukubhekana nazo ' "abantwana?

Namanje ekuseni eminyakeni 2-3 ukukhuluma nengane indlwabu, kusukela akazi ukuthi indlwabu ayazi ukuthi yini uthinte bazuzise nabanye izindawo obuseduze kubhekwe okuyihlazo. Ukushaya indlwabu - indlela ngabandayo, sokuthanda lapho ocucuzayo ngokomzwelo kwenzeka. Ngokuvamile "it is" ekulaleni endaweni ephephile. Uma indlwabu okwenzeka njalo, ngalesosikhathi it phathelana umkhuba sokugembula.
Uma ingane icela imibuzo mayelana isakhiwo evulekile yomzimba, umehluko phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane noma intombazane kanye nowesifazane, kubalulekile ukuba ziziphathe ngenhlonipho futhi uphendule imibuzo yezingane, kanye akanamahloni ngabo. Lena isithakazelo yemvelo kanye Isinyathelo esisha ukuthuthukiswa umqondo nolwazi zomhlaba. Ngokuvamile, kuba khona inzalo abaneminyaka ephakathi kwengu-3 kuya ku-6, bese yaphela, kuze usakhula.

Zindlela indlwabu zezingane

• 
  Bokuphila - ngenxa esebenzayo Ubumnene osenyameni okudingekayo kusuka ukucindezeleka kwengqondo.
• Kwenqondo - umntwana umuzwa wokuba into engelutho, uzizwa enesizungu, engathandwa, kukhona ukuntuleka kothando kwabazali nokunakwa.
• Clinical - ubuthongo abampofu futhi balale ngoba sengisiza eside ukuba isidingo ukukhipha intukuthelo.

Futhi kubangela ukubukeka indlwabu kungaba imiphumela:

• ngabodwa emphakathini izingane;
• excitability okusezingeni eliphezulu nemizwelo wengane;
• coldness kukamama noma impulsiveness kayise;
• isijeziso ngokomzimba;
• uma ubulili wengane sike sahlangana ukwenza lokho okulindelwe abazali.

Yini okumelwe uyenze?

Ngakho, izingane ezincane niyakwenza kaningi. Uma ubanjwe ingane yakho ngoba indlwabu, okokuqala kunakho konke, musa iwela swoon, wamthethisa ingane yabo noma zenziwe nokuxhashazwa ngokomzimba. Kuyadingeka ukubonisa ukuzibamba esiphezulu isu lokungacunuli.

Uma ingane incane, zama buthule shift ukunaka kwakhe enye ukwenza okuthile. Uma kuwukuthi ingane abasesikoleni, ukuziphatha ezolile nawo uyadingeka. Lapho uzokwazi ukulalela nina, kufanele uxoxe isimo, kodwa noma kunjalo akunakwenzeka abahlukumeza futhi ukwesabisa. Ukuziphatha okunjalo ku sebatali ungakwazi senze isimo sishube. Vele uzitshele ukuthi kulungile uma izingane abakwenzayo "ke." Lesi sikole angase abe nabo izobamba izingxoxo isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, kodwa futhi ekhaya ukuxhumana ingane, hhayi "inqwaba" kuye.

Yini okudingeka uyenze indlwabu kwakungekho umkhuba sokugembula?

Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuba uthole ukuthi imbangela indlwabu. Akufanele zinikwe kakhulu futhi kusabise izinyane kwemiphumela emibi yokuvumela imikhuba emibi. Ngokuvamile, izinsongo nokusatshiswa ona engqondweni yengane baphule esizayo.

Awukwazi ngisho uxoxe nabo ngale ndaba ezingemnandi, nje ushintshe izindlela imfundo. izingane zivame abathintekayo kulesi ukuntuleka ukunakwa lapho abazali amshiye yedwa. Ngokuvamile badumise umntwana, ukukhuthaza inkulumo imizwa nemizwelo, umnikeza imali eyanele umzimba. Nikeza ingane yakho inkululeko yokukhetha indlela ukuxhumana kaningi zinaye izindikimba okuxekethile, gwema zokufunda moralizing, ufunde indlela efanele ukuphendula ukubukeka yokuthonywa imizwelo engakhi. Isikhathi izifo uswidi ezihlobene Urology ukusebenza kwayo nezifo zabesifazane.

Kuyadingeka ukuqapha isimo ezazigqokwa ingane. Izinto kumelwe ahlanzeke, ukhululekile. Musa ahlazise ingane, ukuxoxa isihloko indlwabu phambi ongabazi, musa uhlele izingxoxo nezivivinyo. Siza ingane yakho ukuthola umdlalo, ukuzijabulisa entsha ukuhlala wedwa, achubeke kuye ngimatasa futhi.

Akumelwe sikhohlwe ukuthi indlwabu - ke iyindlela ukususa yokuthonywa imizwelo engakhi. Uma ususa umthombo voltage, kanye nesidingo uzonyamalala splash omkhulu wokudlulisa imizwelo. Uma umkhuba sokugembula iqhubeka kuze engu-10, kufanele uxhumane onguchwepheshe, ngoba imbangela indlwabu ngalesi yobudala kungadalwa nethonya labantu ezinokuphazamiseka engqondweni.

Ukwandiswa ingane Hyper noma ekuqaleni kuka ukuthuthukiswa psychosexual kungaholela indlwabu. Izingane eziningi ziyathunjwa, abahlanganyela kulo, ngoba abakwazi ukubhekana ngokuphumelelayo ezinjalo yentuthuko ekuseni. Ukuqinela kulesi simo kuyinto engenamsebenzi. Izingane zidinga usizo lwakho nokuqonda. You azi ukuthi ekuqaleni ukuthuthukiswa psychosexual kungaba futhi kufanele kuthathwe, kungenjalo indlwabu kamuva igxilile ukuthi kungabangela iziyaluyalu ingqondo okungathí sina yini ezinganeni.

Ekuphetheni

Abazali silwele ukususa iminonjana yokukhulekela inkinga ngeke ukuxazulula imbangela imikhuba sokugembula. Ukuze zokuvimbela kufanele kube kulesetayelekile le ubudlelwane emkhayeni, ukuxhumana nengane, setha ezithambile ubuhlobo obufudumele naye. Hlangana izidingo ezingokomzwelo ingane inakekelwa futhi singakhethi, ukuhlela njalo nemisebenzi zokungcebeleka ngokomzimba, kanye neqhaza ekuthuthukiseni lokusungula zezingane. Bese kuthi-ke inkinga yokuthi yini abentwana benzani "ke" uzonyamalala ngokwalo!