Izimpawu emngcwabeni - isipiliyoni ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka

Funeral - a iqiniso elibuhlungu kodwa ngenakuvikeleka. Ukufa bekulokhu eziyinqaba, okwesabisayo kwesiphetho yayo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ibone ukuthi yikuphi, ngoba embundwini wakhe? Mhlawumbe yingakho lo yomngcwabo, mhlawumbe ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye, lizungezwe izimfunda nokubingelela zezibonakaliso, imithetho, izinkolelo-ze. Abantu bazame ukuba abadedisele kwabafileyo, isindisa ukuphila kwezingane namanye amalungu omkhaya. Le nkolelo kobuntwana ingenuous, isifiso ukuqeda engaziwa okwesabisayo basele namuhla. Amabika, izinkolelo-ze baye baba imithetho cishe esiyisibopho isiko.

Le mfuneko lokuqala - qiniseka ukuvala esibukweni lapho kukhona umuntu ofile. Kukholakala ukuthi umphefumulo angaya esibukweni, ukuze uhlale khona. Kuyoba esabisa izihlobo ngeke ukwazi ukuba amuke kuleli zwe.

Ngokusho kwenye inguqulo uma Lo muntu ofile wavuka kubonakala esibukweni, it is "twinned" Khethani omunye ezivela kubangani bakho noma izihlobo.

izimpawu Funeral ukunikela sivale amehlo akho efile. Ngaphambili, wayewenza usebenzisa Dimes zethusi namuhla zemali ezinkulu. Vula amehlo woshonile, okhokho bethu babekholelwa, walunguza ezilalelini ngubani olandelayo ukuba afe.

Ukubona oshonile, kufanele siqiniseke ukubeka zemali ezimbalwa, iduku, ikamu. Lokhu iqoqo, njengoba kwakucatshangwa phambilini, usizo lokunqoba elide ipharadesi, ukukhokhela ukuma komgwaqo kuSomandla ngefomu decorous.

Kodwa izithombe eziphilayo ayikwazi ukubeka in the lomngcwabo. Uma enza lokho, futhi zifakwe ethuneni.

umuntu oshonile ngempela wageza ukuhlanza umzimba. Soul azihlanzile uqobo ngoba lokhu ku window isidingo sill ukubeka ingilazi yamanzi. Kuzoba ifonti ngoba umphefumulo.

Izimpawu lokwenqabela yokungcwaba umzimba oshonile ugeza kwabesifazane abakhulelwe noma eziseduze. Ukuthwala lomngcwabo kakhulu akudingeki izihlobo igazi. Kungenjalo, oshonile enquma ukuthi ukufa kwakhe Rada. Kungcono uma kuzoba nje abangane noma nabajwayelene nabo. isandla sabo yayiwuphawu okubonga ashiwo umufi, ithawula kuboshelwe entsha, ngezinye izikhathi - nge iduku.

Lapho evalelisa kwabafileyo, it is hhayi Kunconywa ukugeza noma eshanela phansi. Kukholakala ukuthi ngoba eziphilayo nife, "vymetutsya" abafileyo. Kumelwe kwenziwe ngokushesha ngemuva, uma lomngcwabo aphume endlini uzohlupheka. Ithebula, lapho kwakukhona khona Domowina, flip, umbhede, Lo muntu ofile wavuka, ulilahle.

Izimpawu emngcwabeni belulekwa kanjani ukubhekana izinto, impahla zomufi. kwezinsuku ezingamashumi amane abazi uthinte, futhi ngemva umphefumulo ingena, zonke izinto okudingeka ngokushesha ukusabalalisa eziphiwa abaswele, kwenziwe isibaluli Cathedral, ukuze kwakheke ibandla.

Cishe zonke izimpawu emngcwabeni ahlose lesigceme abanye ekulimaleni okungase kubangele abantu okubi usebenzisa zasesiteji emngcwabeni.

Ngaphambi wafaka isidumbu ebhokisini lokungcwaba, yena exhumene ezingalweni kanye nasemilenzeni. Kuyaqondakala kusukela iphuzu yesimanje umbono, isiko kwakubhekwa njengesibusiso ngendlela ayikuvumeli ngesidumbu ukuma, ukuhamba emhlabathini ukungethusa abaphilayo. Ngaphambi ukuvala lid ebhokisini, bese yehlisa ke ethuneni, izinyawo nezandla zakhe likwazi ukuboshwa nokuqaqwa.

Lezi izindophi kungaba ukuletha umonakalo ekufeni, ngakho uyathakatha noma emnyama oyisangoma njalo ezama ukuntshontsha intambo. Ukuvimbela lokhu, faka u- okukhethekile owayebukele. Ngokuvamile lena isalukazi, ujwayelene imicikilisho.

Izimpawu nokukholelwa ezeni emngcwabeni ngesikhathi ebizela othile ukuthi baziphathe kanjani phakathi isiko. Awukwazi ukushiya kwi amathawula, esibekela lomngcwabo evela emathuneni ukuletha noma yiziphi izinto, izimbali. Lapho ebuyela ekhaya, qiniseka ukuthi uxubha izandla zakho Kunconywa.

Awukwazi kokuwela umgwaqo ngaphambi oshonile: wena uzofa maduzane.

Udinga ukukhumbula oshonile ngosuku zomngcwabo, ngosuku lwesishiyagalolunye futhi wamashumi amane, lapho kugujwa iminyaka engu.

Izimpawu emngcwabeni kwakhiwa phakathi namakhulu eminyaka. Bona equkethwe nakho visceral okusanhlamvu ngamandla. Abantu engazi noma cha ukukwazi ukuthola incazelo imithetho yemvelo, babevele baphatheke kanjani ukuziphatha nesimo esinzima, ukuba kuvelwe Ukuziphatha livikeleke zonke izinhlobonhlobo zokuthembela ezeni nemicikilisho.