Isithembu - uphawu yokonakala noma kuyinsakavukela?

Umbuzo isithembu - omunye impikiswano kakhulu ezweni lanamuhla. kungaba esingokwemvelo kuphela amadoda noma abesifazane, nawe? kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwamukelekile emphakathini noma kufanele ukucwaswa futhi bashushiswe? Masizame ukuqonda butholakala enqubweni eyinkimbinkimbi inkinga.

Mayelana amagama kanye nomlando

Isithembu, noma abathathe isithembu - okubizwa ngokuthi isithembu noma "umshado luningi". Incazelo enjalo iyizwi kusukela ekuqaleni. Nokho, ngokwezenhlalo, sesiye incazelo eyodwa ngaphezulu: intshisekelo evelele kwabobulili obuhlukile. Emasikweni ahlukene umbuzo ocansini nabantu abaningi ukuxazululwa edidayo. EMpumalanga kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo liye ayiswe umkhaya wale ndoda lalinabashumayeli nabafazi lokungenani ezintathu. Futhi ezimweni eziningi zingabantu abathathe isithembu - lokhu akukona ukubonakaliswa umsebenzi wocansi, daba udumo. nabesifazane abangaphezu kuka umuntu wayengenza impahla (ukuphakela, ahlinzeke indawo yokufihla ikhanda kanye izingubo, ubucwebe), i-ixhomeke isikhundla sakhe emphakathini. Yingakho harems omkhulu nezancinza abaningi ngaphezu kwabafazi olusemthethweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngenkathi izimpi nezingxabano zangaphakathi ukuze kucinisekisa inchubekela embili zomthetho kahle kwemandla embuso, umbusi empumalanga, kwakubalulekile ukuba izingane eziningi. Futhi kulokhu isithembu - kuyaphuthuma, ezingokoqobo ngesihluku isikhathi, ukungabi ezingeni ezidingekayo wezokwelapha kanye nezinye izimo.

Izinkolo ZoMbuso East avumela futhi isekela le siko kusukela ukuvelela Islam namuhla. Kuyiqiniso kuwo wonke amazwe-ke kusemthethweni manje, kodwa de empeleni waba, isibonelo, Turkey buyadlondlobala. Emazweni ase-Afrika, isithembu kuvunyelwe ngumthetho. Kukhona amasiko ahlukile isiko European. Lapho, kwakukhona gxuma kusuka isithembu ayibhalela umkhaya wakubo, ehlanganisa abashadayo ezimbili. Futhi uma, isibonelo, eJudiya lasendulo amadoda zaziphinde zibe nelungelo ukuthatha ekhaya lakho, ngaphezu umkakhe, izancinza, kamuva, lapho kusungulwa i-ubuKristu, iyiphi uxhumano ohlangothini beqonda ukuhlukumeza kwezinkambiso zokuziphatha.

Ngo umphakathi bakudala, lapho umbuzo sokusinda kwaba kwasekuqaleni, kuyinsakavukela kwaba esithenjini. Kuchaza izinhlobo kungenzeka kungukuthi ubhujiswe. Kodwa kude Europe ngalezo zikhathi, kulapho elawula imithetho yawo futhi uba uzimele. Nomfazi oyedwa buthola umfutho, futhi yimuphi umkhankaso "elivulekile ngomqondo" ngokusemthethweni alahlwe kuwukwephula okubhekwa, njengoba bayavukela ubufebe. Nokho, ukuziphatha komphakathi asigadlanga. isithembu samadoda waqaphela njengoba enye yezindlela bekukhombisa ukungaguquguquki begazi lwazo, isibindi, ubuntu kanye nezinye izimfanelo. Uma abesifazane abathanda ukunakwa abobulili obuhlukile nokuzijabulisa ubulili, okubizwa izifebe, ezivela phambi kwenkantolo futhi sihlawuliswa, amadoda ngokuvamile kukhula ukwethenjelwa kwalo emehlweni umphakathi, sitfunti salo.

Ngaleyo minyaka, lapho igunya lesonto namandla, nokuziphatha zomphakathi kulinganiselwe eqinile esikalini nenkululeko ukuziphatha besilisa. Esikhathini izinsuku eziningi zezwe enkululeko abathanda ucansi namandla savusa cheers futhi ukumomotheka nokuzitika. A abesifazane esithenjini, ngokuvamile, akukaze wajabulela ukuqashelwa noma ukwamukelwa. Ukuxolela kungase kubhekwe njengokwelapha ngenkathi ubulili nokuziphatha ngendlela ehlukile.

Ukubheka udaba kusukela iphuzu yesimanje umbono

Namuhla, umbono wangasese, ubumfihlo, isikhala siqu Sekuvamile ngaphezulu. Futhi ubuhlobo bobulili ngaphambi komshado, kanye eziningi ukuthandana, zonke ngaphansi kubuswa umphakathi obabheka ngayo. Le nkululeko ukuvumele ukuthola i sici esithakazelisayo: abesifazane akuzona esingaphansi isidingo ezihlukahlukene ubudlelwano kunabantu. Ngokuvamile, izifundo Kusolakala e kwabantu futhi Sexology, isithembu ayinakho ukuma ubulili njengoba enjalo. Njengoba injalo emsulwa it iyisici bemvelo begazi. Monogamous khona phakathi kokubili amadoda nabesifazane. Kanye abantu ngothando. Vele umuntu isibindi ukuqaphela ukuthambekela kwawo ngokocansi nezinto eziphilayo, futhi othile - akukho. Ngakho-ke, ezweni lanamuhla European, umbuzo esithenjini abesifazane futhi amadoda sika ihilela ngabanye, izidingo siqu nokuthambekela yomuntu ngamunye.