Ukuziphelela, I-Psychology
Indlela yokunqoba ukwesaba ukufa noma isayensi yokufa ngokufanele
Ngaphambi kokuba sikhulume ngendlela yokunqoba ukwesaba ukufa, sizobuza omunye umbuzo. Ingabe kukhona abantu abangesabi ukufa? Odokotela abaningi be-ambulensi, abavame ukubuka imizuzu yokugcina yabashonile, bazosho ukuthi abakho abantu abanjalo , futhi bazobe bengalungile. Kukhona bambalwa kakhulu kubo.
Abaningi, mhlawumbe, bezwe indaba yomunye udokotela "i-ambulensi", owafika kumpristi osekhulile, ebulawa isifo senhliziyo. Isiguli sasizolile, ngokungafani nabantu abazungezile, babuza odokotela ukuthi ngabe bakhathele noma balambile. Waze wabuza nomkakhe ukuba abondle. Wayazi ukuthi wayefa, ukuthi lezi kwakuyizikhathi zokugcina zokuphila kwakhe, kodwa wayekhathazeke kakhulu ngabantu abahlala lapha kuleli zwe! Amazing?
Kithina, yebo. Kuye - hhayi nakancane, ngoba wayekulungele ukufa. Futhi wayekuqonda ngokuhluke ngokuphelele, njengoba abantu abaningi bebona.
Kodwa kufanele sibone kanjani ukufa ukuze singesabi?
Abantu bahlukana baba ngabakholelwa kuNkulunkulu nabakholwayo. Lokhu, kunjalo, kunemibandela, ukuze uzame ukuphendula imibuzo ebuzwayo. Kuyisici ukuthi iseluleko sendlela yokunqoba ukwesaba ukufa kufana kakhulu namakholwa nabakholelwa kuNkulunkulu. Zonke izinkolelo (zombili ezingokwengqondo nezingokomoya) ziphakanyiswa ukuba zicabange ngakho njalo, ungesabi ukukhuluma ngakho. Noma kunjalo, izazi zengqondo zisho okufanayo nazo zonke iziphobias. Kumele sihlangane nesaba. Indlela yokunqoba ukwesaba ukuphakama, isibonelo, noma ubumnyama? Izazi zengqondo zithi: gxuma nge-parachute noma uhlale amahora amaningana egumbini elimnyama.
Kodwa ukuzuma nge-parachute cishe kulula kunokubheka amehlo okufa. Kodwa izinkolelo eziningi zithi, ngokuvamile sicabanga ngokufa, siyayikhanga. Ngokwemvelo, umuntu ngamunye uzama ukugwema izingxoxo ezingenakwenzeka ngisho nokucabanga ngakho. Ngakho ngubani olungile, nokuthi unqobe kanjani ukwesaba ukufa?
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu angacabanga kanjani ngokufa, alungiselele, ukuze angesabi, futhi ngakolunye uhlangothi, angadonseli ibhomu lakhe? Ungakwazi. Kubalulekile ukusondela lokhu ngokuthula, ngaphandle kokwesaba okungenangqondo nokukhathazeka.
Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukungavinjelwa kokufa njengokuqala noma ukuzalwa kabusha kokuphila okusha. Ukukhuluma akulona ngomzimba ofayo, kodwa mayelana nokuqala okungokomoya. Uma ulungiselela ukufa njengokushintsha kwesikhashana umoya ongapheli, khona-ke impilo izoba nemidlalo emisha, futhi ukufa kuyesabeka ukusondela.
Phela, ukufa kuhamba eduze komunye wethu, kufana negciwane: ngenkathi umzimba uphilile futhi ugonywa endleleni - igciwane ngeke linyathele. Uma nje umphefumulo uphilile, ukufa ngeke kufike. Kodwa umphefumulo unempilo ...
Noma kunjalo ungakunqoba kanjani ukwesaba ukufa?
Kufanele sizame ukungena ngokujulile emcabangweni wokuthi umuntu akayena nje umzimba oshisayo, kodwa uma wehleka, ulwazi luzohlala . Lokhu akuwona umbuzo wenkolelo noma imibono yengqondo. Kubalulekile ukuzwa iqiniso ngalunye le nkolelo ngeseli ngalinye. Lokhu kungazuzwa ngokuzwa imizwa ejulile engqondweni ngokuzindla, umthandazo, umsebenzi ongokomoya ojulile.
Kuphela kuleli cala umuntu angazizwa ngempela ukuthi umzimba uyindlela kuphela lapho umoya ukhona khona, lokho kuqonda kungabikho ngaphandle komzimba. Ngamanye amazwi, umuntu kufanele aqeqeshe ingokomoya lakhe, njengoba abagijimi beqeqesha imisipha.
Umuntu kuphela ozama ukuvusa ukuqonda kwakhe kancane kancane kancane kancane, kancane kancane uhambela ezingeni elisha.
Khona-ke kuza kuye ukugcwaliseka kokungafi okungokomoya. Khona-ke ulwazi luyakwazi ukuziqhekeza kude nomzimba oshisayo futhi luhlangane ngokukhanya okumsulwa kwezinto ezingokomoya zomuntu. Futhi ngeke kusaba khona umbuzo wendlela yokunqoba ukwesaba ukufa, ngoba izwe eliphakeme kakhulu elingokomoya lifinyeleleka.
Eqinisweni, lapho bekhula, abaningi baqala ukwesaba ubuthakathaka, kanye nokufa, kungenzeka ukuthi banesizungu. Kusukela ekubukeni ngokomoya, le nkinga ingasombulwa ekumeni kweqhawe: nakuba kungenakwenzeka ukunqoba ukuguga nokufa, kubalulekile ukumelana kuze kube sekugcineni. Okusho ukuthi, musa ukukhala, musa ukukhubekisa, ungakhathazeki, zama okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze ugcine ukuma okuhle ngokomzimba.
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