Idle - yilokho amaKristu kufanele agweme

Lesi isihloko kuyoba usizo hhayi kuphela kwamakholwa angama-Orthodox, kodwa futhi kulabo abafuna ukuba bashintshe ukuphila kwabo kube ngcono. Ake sixoxe ngalokho enkulumweni eyize, imuphi umonakalo abantu kuwo. Uyazi ukuthi kungani ngezinye izikhathi ukuxhumana nabantu akayedwa, ucasukile noma okungaphumeli ekwanelisekeni? enkulumweni eyize - lokhu ikhona yini imbangela yezinkinga eziningi, kokubili ngokwengqondo futhi impahla, ezingokwenyama, ezokuziphatha.

Kuyini lokhu izwi?

Ubu-Orthodox usetshenziselwa ukusebenzisa ngolimi isonto-Slavic main, iVangeli, incwadi yamaHubo ulifunde. Yingakho ungezwa emagama langakatayeleki ezifana enkulumweni eyize, isibonelo. Ake sibone ukuthi yini leli gama lisho.

Idle - is kokusho amazwi angasho lutho ningathwali yiluphi ulwazi ewusizo, inhlebo, phindza ucoce yomunye ukuphila, inhlebo, ingxoxo. Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi izwi elilodwa, kodwa kusho iqoqo oluphelele yezenzo, futhi okungekuhle.

abapristi Modern bathi bangenzi lutho akunakubangelwa ukudluliswa lutho kumabonakude (isib, "Dom-2" "Comedy Club", "Smehopanorama" nokunye). Emsakazweni, ngokuvamile kungenzeka ukuzwa isikhulumi, emagameni okungabanga bikho ulwazi oluwusizo. Ngokuphathelene football ukufana nezinye ezemidlalo imidlalo, lapho umhlaziyi uthi okungenasiphelo, hhayi kuphela abadlali, izenzakalo enkundleni, khona-ke, ngeshwa, futhi libhekisela lutho.

mayelana Theodora

Kukhona indaba ezinjalo ziyiqiniso, ezihlobene Theodora. Ngesikhathi eshona, indlela nayo yonke imiphefumulo elisanda, wahamba noNkulunkulu ngokusebenzisa lolu sizi. Kuyini lokhu? Usizi - ukuhlolwa komphefumulo, nokuthi ayobe ekuphi amademoni adalule sonke isono. Ziyakwazi 20 zilwane. Omunye wabo, nje sizi lokuqala yinkulumo engasho lutho. ukuthi isono cishe noma ubani kithi.

Ngokuvamile, lesi sici ukuthula, ekahle umKristu. Kodwa kukhona imininingwane ehilelekile. Lokhu kungaba isici njengoba elula nasebunyeni injongo, ukuze singathwesi one noma okubi nje izwi elingasizi ngalutho. Kuyinto Izinjongo ezahlukene, nezisusa zabo.

Ake sibuyele Theodora elibusisekile. Lapho eseneminyaka ikanye nezingelosi wasondela sizi wokuqala engaya kuwo, ngezwa ukuduma, ingxoxo engapheli, amakhaza, ukuzwa ecasulayo. Amademoni wagxuma elandelayo, kube kungekho ukuphela kusho okuthile, wahleka. Omunye wabo wama phambi uTheodore, zenzeka ishidi futhi ngaqala ukufunda izono zalo ezihlobene uhleko ezingenalutho, ingxoxo, imilolotelo ukucula nezingoma. Kungenxa yokuthi lokhu yomlando wangempela kungaqondakala ukuthi enkulumweni eyize ezinjalo.

Ungakhulumi ne omakhelwane!

Ngokuvamile, uyakwazi ukuhamba egcekeni, egcekeni ukuzwa izingxoxo ngabesifazane nalokho ogogo, amantombazane. Bathini? Yebo mayelana konke, kodwa hhayi ngezinto ewusizo. Ngokuvamile, wonke egcekeni wazi ukuthi kwenzekani kule noma lowo muntu. Ngokwesibonelo, enkingeni umakhelwane wakho ekhaya. Lokhu kwakuvele kwaziwa lonke igceke, futhi ukhuluma ngani ke izinto ezahlukene, ngokubhala imbangela yenkinga. Othile ngisho iqala ukumzonda, ngaphandle kokwazi amaqiniso.

Kumele baqonde ukuthi ezinkingeni zabanye Akufanele athinte noma ubani. Uma une isifiso sokusiza othile, awudingi ukuba bangatsheli muntu ngalokhu. Futhi akulungile kakhulu ukuxoxa nothile, ngempela. Dlula inhlebo. Kungcono ukusiza isiguli athule kunokukhuluma mayelana izindaba zakhe omakhelwane.

Ngokuvamile abapristi bathi intshumayelo isono engenzi lutho, sithembele amazwi kaJesu eVangelini: ". Kusukela ngamazwi akho uyakulahlwa" Asho lapha? isono lutho wazifihla ukuze umuntu akaboni umehluko phakathi "okuhle" futhi "okubi", akaboni ngamazwi akhe. Yebo, uyazi ukuthi ukufunga inhlamba kubi ucingo othile amanga kubi kakhulu. Kodwa ukuthi ingxoxo - kuyisono, ungaqageli. Ngakho-ke obaba ongcwele futhi izikhulu zesonto zifundiswa ukuba baxwaye izingxoxo ezingadingekile.

Ukuxhumana nomndeni

Kodwa kuthiwani umkhaya? Phela, udinga ukuxhumana. ISonto awukuvimbeli izingxoxo, izingxoxo. Kodwa kudingeka wazi ukuthi uma sekufanele uzibambe. Qhathanisa izinto ezimbili: "Kwenzeke kanjani impilo yakho? Ingabe zibasize endlini? "Futhi" Sawubona, wena unjani? ". Esimweni sokuqala, lo mbuzo owabuzwa ngokuqondile. Ukuze impilo, ukuze ukwesekwa, ukugqugquzela, ukukhonza ngokungenabugovu. Indlela yesibili, njengoba umthetho, ongathwali umthwalo semantic. Buza lo mbuzo ngoba nje enesifiso sokuba nemikhuba emihle. Yini ngokuvamile kwenzeka emva umbuzo wena unjani? inkulumo engenalutho nganoma yini.

Nabantu bomdabu, yebo, udinga ukukhuluma, ukufunda indlela ngosuku wahamba, yini entsha, uzizwa kanjani, nokunye. Idle - ke kuba yisikhathi sokuhlangana izingxoxo ezingenalutho nokuhleba. Kodwa inkhulumomphendvulwano evamile mayelana nesimo sezempilo, kwemizwa - akusiwona isono. Ngokuba uJehova ngokwakhe watshela omkhaya ukuba bakwazi ukuxoxa nomunye, ukusekela induduzo izwi. Ngo ukuxhumana izimpilo umndeni.

Indlela yokugwema?

Kusobala ukuthi inkulumo engasho lutho - kuyisono. Indlela yokugwema kuso? Lutho neze okuxoxa nabantu, okungaphezu kwalokho nengabe asifuni ukhuluma ngani ezinye izinto ezibalulekile. Ivangeli ifundisa ukuthi abantu kafushane kuphela futhi ngokuyisisekelo waphendula imibuzo.

Kuyisono bangenzi lutho umsebenzi Nguthisha? Uma uthisha ukhuluma kuphela kuleli cala, etshela izimo eziyiqiniso futhi uyafundisa ke asikho isono. Kodwa umsebenzi akuyona umhlaziyi zenzisa. Singasho ukuthi i-TV, umsakazo - ithuba isono.

Ngeshwa, cishe bonke amafilimu - ke yinkulumo engasho lutho. Akuvamile ukuzwa nokukhuluma izinto ezakhayo futhi ewusizo.

"Ukuthula - igolide" - zonke owaziwa zwi ohlakaniphile. Kwathi nge ngenjongo ecashile. Udinga ukulilandela ukuze one.

Ukuvuma izono ngokukhululeka nangokusuka

Kusobala ukuthi inkulumo engasho lutho eSontweni Lobu-Orthodox uthathwa njengesono. Ngakho uma uye wenza isono nganoma iyiphi izwi unuseful, kumelwe uvume umpristi, cela uNkulunkulu ukuba amthethelele. Kodwa iyini ngempela izenzo e isono esinjalo:

• Ngaxoxa eside nomngane nganoma yini;
• Saxoxa ne omakhelwane eyodwa abantu abahlala kulo muzi ephakathi kwendlu;
• ukucula ditties nezingoma mabi;
• laughing, kuxoxwa khona engenangqondo womuntu;
• Bona ukugxeka othile ngemva kwakhe;
• Bakhala ngesimo sezulu esibi, i-boss engemuva yomkhumbi izikhulu budedengu;
• cishe ekhuluma nomunye umuntu.

Uhlu kungaba eside. Eqinisweni, abapristi confessional ukuncoma ukhuluma kafushane mayelana izono, hhayi nje ngokunikeza impendulo: ". Ngonile enkulumweni eyize" Leli akulona izono, kodwa umbiko ezinye esisemthethweni.

Uyazi, uma umuntu ngempela kulungile? Lapho ayisekho buthule, akathandi ukukhuluma, inhlebo nokuhleba. Ngo izincwadi eziningi zama-Orthodox intshumayelo lutho njengoba imikhuba emibi engokomoya obanzi kunayo. Konke kuncike umuntu, izenzo zakhe.