Uyini ngokuvumelana zokuphila

Ingabe siqonda ukuthi yini ngokuvumelana? Ingabe sesilahlekelwe wathandeka kakhulu lo mqondo isigqi uyahlanya zokuphila kwanamuhla? Futhi yini okufanele uyenze uma namanje elahlekile?

Harmony uhlala konke - ubuciko, ukholo okumsulwa, nemvelo. Yena ekuqaleni wayephila thina. Harmony - eqinisweni, ukuvumelana iqiniso uqobo lwalo.

Woza engqondweni sekusaziwa yithi kusuka ebuntwaneni amagama Antona Pavlovicha Chehova: "Lo muntu kufanele isuswe wonke enhle: ubuso nezingubo, umphefumulo, nengqondo yethu ...". Futhi akusiyo iqiniso ngakho okulula incazelo yawo, njengoba kubonakala, hhayi njengoba kunzima indoda ehlakaniphileyo owazi indlela kuphilwe ngayo ngokuthula nabo wena ngokuvumelana izidalwa ezizungezile.

Uyini ngokuvumelana wokuphila, kakade wayazi ongqondongqondo lasendulo. Bangaki imiqondo shades leli zwi! obunobunye Ngiqinisile umuntu - othile okwaziyo nje kowa silibone esibhakabhakeni okungenamkhawulo izinkanyezi, ujabulele charm ethule bokuphuma nokushona kwelanga, ukubona impilo kuphela imbali iqhakaza futhi lehla inundu yakhe. Yini kuvela, injabulo - ukuncibilikisa zonke lokhu ubukhazikhazi, ukuba abe ingxenye yalo! Kodwa ngandlela-thile ngabe sikhohliwe kanjani ukuzibuza izinto ezifana nokuphila nokufa, imini nobusuku, entwasahlobo and ekwindla. Noma kunjalo, ngemva kwesikhathi eside isayensi akuniké incazelo ukuze zonke lezi zenzakalo. Kodwa izincazelo ukujula kwembulwe kuphela kulabo ngempela ufuna ke futhi abazimisele ukulamukela.

Siyaqonda ukuphila njengoba into kuyabonakala, ngokuvamile abacabangi e okumatasa izinkinga zansuku zonke ukuthi kwakungeke kudingeke ukubambezela futhi nje ulalele sengiprofethile kuthule amaqabunga zitshiyoze izinyendle otshanini. Abantu, kungani nina zimpumputhe ngakho nesithulu?!

Ukanti konke ungaluthola. Izingane ukwazi kahle ukuthi ngokuvumelana.
Igama khathisimbe they engazazi, kodwa incazelo yayo kucacile ngokuqinisekile. Bahlala ngokuvumelana ngokwabo kanye imizwa yabo, bayazi ukuthi bangenza kanjani ukuze ujabulele elula, ezibonakala izinto. Kanjani abazalwane bajabula kakhulu (ethule noma elikhulu) ibanika bug elula, bephuthuma bukashechim yabo Affairs. Lapho, uthi, konke lokhu ubalekela ngeminyaka, futhi kungani injalo akuvamile uhlala nathi ukuphila? Phela, uma lokhu kuphila ngokunembile Angajabula kakhulu!

Kuyini ngokuvumelana? Lena emhlabeni imibala egqamile, kuyinto ethule ehlobo ebusuku, kungcono ukumamatheka kobuntwana, kuyinto ukuphila ngokwakho, ekugcineni. Igama elithi "ngokuvumelana 'kuhlanganisa yonke into kukunika ukuthula kwengqondo - Shmelev ivolumu emthunzini somuthi omdala, emvuleni, ehamba phezu kophahla, flavour obucayi Meyi nokudabuka eliqhakazile Septhemba ... Belekelelana umkhulu ugogo - futhi ngokuvumelana. Kungenzeka ukuchitha wonke kusihlwa ophahleni nokuwohloka we elachitheka, ukubhukuda kanti futhi ujabulele imisebe yelanga ashisayo, ukubona imiqulu indlela fun ukusuka kolunye uhlangothi kuya umdlwane ... Harmony kuthululwe phezu umzimba kusuka touch olulodwa ukuze wekati kancane elambile, ukulondolozwa ohlangothini ngesonto ubudala umcabango ukuthi noma ubani Angazi badinga ekuphileni, ondliwe futhi sekuqala ukufudumala esigaxeni ezizodlala uvolo. Kujabulisa ngempela usinika ukuphila ngoba umusa wethu, ngoba onjani sokholo nothando, siyakufa umklomelo ngasekupheleni kwalo yinhlama!

Asikho isidingo ukufihla ubuso bakhe emvuleni, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke wazi ukuthi yini ngokuvumelana nemvelo. Njengobe abengakwati konkhe loko ukushisa izandla ozithandayo ngaphandle kokwazi uthando bokuthula. Hhayi ekusizeni labo abadinga, ungazizwa ngokuvumelana ngokwako. Ngaphandle othanda labo epha you pilo, ngeke ube umuntu futhi abaqondi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba ngumzali yangempela. Futhi lokhu isijeziso esibi kunazo leNkosi mhlawumbe.

Futhi ake lezi zimpikiswano okusikhumbuza romantic umbhedo Nangu umfundi wesikole osalelwe ezivela kwezinye izifunda. Ake. Harmony itholakala lokuthi, ukungacabangi trifles ezinjalo. Inkululeko umoya ukuze uzinike can thina kuphela. Nikeza ukufudumala nangomusa ababesezweni elalibazungezile, futhi uyonivuza ku uhlamvu lwemali efanayo!