Umumo kwabobulili - kuba kuyini na?

Uma ngokungazelelwe othile okuthiwa kwabobulili - kuba nokuthuka noma cha? Futhi ngokuvamile, ukuzikhethela kwabobulili - lokhu kungokwemvelo noma ezinye obulili? Ake sibone lezi zinkinga.

Luthini olwakho "ukuma hetero"?

Kumele kucaciswe ngokushesha ukuthi lo mqondo ihlobene eduze nezocansi. Okuningi ngokunembile, igama elithi "heterosexuality". Zona efanayo igama elithi "heterosexuality" yakhiwa izimpande amabili. Okokuqala - hetero - lisho ukuthi "omunye", "okuphambene" futhi impande yesibili - "ubulili" - Namuhla yokudlulisa akuyona zinkulu. Kodwa nje uma ungacacisa ukuthi iyona ngokomzwelo (romantic), sezinzwa (esikisela ucansi) noma libido. Ngakho, singaphetha ngokuthi kwabobulili orientation - ubulili kuhloswe wobulili obuhlukile. On wonke, abantu abaningi nezilwane babe ukukhetha olala nabo yemvelo lokuchezuka phakathi izilwane ezingavamile kakhulu. Kodwa phakathi kwabantu ngezinye izikhathi ube ubuhlobo obunjalo, okuyinto fela umphakathi. Ikakhulukazi, kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi umumo kwabobulili - kuba ezihlukile kwezisemthethweni kuphela umsebenzi wocansi eRussia. Ngakho, uthole incazelo indoda athandana ezweni lethu at esigabeni samanje akubhekwa okuhlaselayo. Lokhu kwenzeka ngoba ukukhetha olala nabo kuyinto kwabobulili - kwenye yezingxenye ngezimiso eziphathelene nobulili kuleli zwe.

Ezocansi endulo

Namuhla basho noma yini heterosexuality noma ubungqingili ngithi (ngokocansi ukuze abantu bobulili obufanayo). Nokho isihloko okhuphukela kakhulu ezazikhona endulo zokugcina ubulili. Kodwa empeleni konke kwakwehlukile. Vele eziningi abantu babe kwemikhiqizo emazweni Lesisemkhatsini ngokobulili, okubizwa ngokuthi obungakhethi. Lokhu ubulili is hhayi ngaphandle noma ukuma kwabobulili ezindabeni zobulili, noma ubungqingili. I obungakhethi ezivamile futhi wamukela kwaba ezikhathini zasendulo. obaba othandekayo omkhaya, yokuba engenanzalo nangenkuthalo ekunakekeleni ukuqhubeka oluthile, akazange bakugweme ukusondelana nabantu ubulili babo. By endleleni, lokhu kwenzeka kwezinye izikhathi okwenzeka emazweni nokuziphatha kuqhathaniswa esiqinile. Kodwa kwakungegazi endulo, kwakungadingeki bashushiswa ngenxa yokuthi into ethile futhi behlele kithi namuhla imisebenzi eziningi yobuciko esibonisa ncamashi ukuthambekela ngithanda abesilisa nabesifazane zabantu abaningi.

Kungani heterosexuality kuyaqapheleka njengoba ilungile kuphela

Ososayensi abaningi baye bazama ukuxazulula imfihlakalo isifiso sobulili. Ezinye ayethambekele bakholelwa ukuthi bonke abantu ku-yokuzalwa ngithanda abesilisa nabesifazane. It is wagomela, isibonelo, Freud futhi Kinsey. Futhi kusolakala ngesikhatsi nokuvuthwa nemfundo yabantu ngenkani baye banamathela iqembu kwabobulili. Nokho, uma singazinaki umehluko phakathi komuntu nesilwane (imfundo, isiko, ingqondo), ngamunye umuntu kuba njengesilwane. Futhi lapha kukhona Impendulo yombuzo main mayelana nezocansi yemvelo! Kungenzeka yini sicabange ukuthi cocks ezimbili ngokuzumayo kokuba ubuhlobo bezocansi? Asinakukwenza lokho. Futhi kwenzekani uma kwesinye isitokisi bazifake kwesinye isitshalo unogwaja unogwaja kanye unogwaja - unogwaja yomunye? Ngo-97% nakho okunjalo ngeke nemiphumela emibi kakhulu ... Kodwa podsazhivanie abantu kwabobulili komunye nomunye, ikakhulukazi phakathi ujabule isimo owesifazane, uzobe ziqondakala kubo njengathi wabo futhi ulindele. Ngenxa yalokho, izilwane endaweni yazo yemvelo, udaba ngobungqingili noma ngobulili obungakhethi neze liphuma khona. Kule singaphetha ngokuthi abantu aye ubudlelwano zobungqingili ngithanda abesilisa nabesifazane awekho uxhumano nocingo bemvelo, kodwa naphezu kwawo. A orientation kwabobulili - ke wabeka kakhulu ubunjalo isazela of ukuzala.