Ubudlelwane, Ubulili
Ulubizela nokwesaba ocansini? ukwelashwa
Abantu ngaphandle zokwesaba awavamile. Man usengozini: akusiyo ine ukubukeka ekhangayo, ingcebo yezinto ezibonakalayo, ithalente, inhlanhla njalo. Akukhona njalo uphilile futhi bazivumelanisa isimo senhlalo kuzo nalezo aphila kuzo. Futhi lokhu kumane nje kuyingxenye yezinto ekuvimbeleni ukwakheka nokwaneliswa kubantu, iyasiza futhi ngenxa yalokho, ngokuphelele psyche enempilo. Ukwesaba ku owambeka ngokwemvelo, kuba isazela self-ukulondolozwa. Injongo yalo ezakhayo usinde e izimo eziyingozi. Zokwesaba - a ukwesaba sokugembula ezingahlobene nekutilondvolota mine, idla amandla womuntu, okwathiya induduzo nempumelelo ekuphileni kwakhe. Omunye ezivame kakhulu ezifana ukwesaba sokugembula - Ukwesaba ukusondelana. Ulubizela nokwesaba ubulili Ngenxa yokuthi wabona ukuthi isifo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo? Ziyini izimbangela ngamandla kwalesi sifo, indlela yokuphatha futhi kuvimbele ukubukeka esizukulwaneni esisha? Kulezi zici nakwezinye izinkinga sizodingida ngokuningiliziwe ngezansi.
Ukwenqena ubulili njengoba isifo sengqondo
Ukwesaba usondelana hhayi kuzo zonke izimo kuyinto isifo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Ukwenqena ukusondela kungenzeka okubangwa zokungazimiseli ocansini ngenxa azifele - enkathini angavuthiwe, impilo ebuthaka, ngokobulili umlingani unattractiveness kanye nezimo ezifanayo. Kuye sizobuyela. Manje uthinte ku umbuzo ukuhluka: "Yini lokhu kwesaba ucansi, uma sikhuluma ke njengoba isifo sengqondo"
izizathu erotophobia
Erotophobia imbangela ezimweni eziningi yiyona ukuhlukumezeka ngokwengqondo wazibonela ebuntwaneni. Ukuqala Kwenkathi umsebenzi wocansi esemncane, kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlova, ukuziphatha ezonakele abazali noma, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, indlela abantu abakhuliswe ngayo benesandla esiqine ngokweqile, imibono owenziwa umphakathi ongokwenkolo Orthodox, ukuze okungokwendlela ukuvala - konke lokhu kungabangela enyanya sengane ukusondelana ngokobulili amandla ukuvaleka. Lapho ingane ikhula, ezingeni izinzwa ke engaveza njengoba ukwesaba ocansini. Lo muntu ngeke unganakile esabe ithuba lokukhumbula lezo nemizwelo emibi, okuyinto wahlangana ebuntwaneni.
Erotophobia kungenzeka kube umphumela ezimbi ezabehlela kakade omdala - ukudlwengula, cyclically ngokuphinda simo yokwakhiwa ubudlelwano kuhlulekile, abalahlwa ngamacala sokuba nobuhlobo bobulili izihlobo noma umphakathi, njll ...
Ukuthuthukisa erotophobia kungabangela izakhiwo futhi agcina yasekhaya yomuntu. Ukunganeliseki ngendlela ebukeka ngayo, izici zobuntu, isimo sabo emphakathini kube nomthelela omubi edingida ezocansi womuntu, futhi ngenxa yalokho kukhona lokhu yokwesaba. Ukwesaba izakhiwo ezihlobene ubulili, evame kakhulu abesifazane babonakala bethambekele akhuluphele nomumo abanelisekile amabele abo. Abesilisa kunamathuba amaningi okuthi eziyinkimbinkimbi mayelana nenkundla umthondo encane.
Erotophobia kungenzeka kubangelwa ezinye izinto - Ukwesaba ekuxhumaneni ngokomzimba nabantu (ngisho touch abavamile noma ukuxhawulana), ukwesaba yokuthola isifo esithathelwana ngobulili, ukhulelwe, ngubani Ezokungcebeleka ukuba othile, ukukhombisa umzimba wakhe nqunu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi igama kwabokufika, ukwesaba ucansi kuleli cala kuyoba yesibili. Futhi ngaphambi okudingeka usebenzele, ngokulandelana, nge kwabokufika-imbangela.
imiphumela erotophobia
Abesifazane ukuhlupheka erotophobia, ingaqala izifo ezifana anorgasmia futhi vaginismus. yokwesaba zokucabanga okubangelwa isifo ucansi amadoda kungaholela ubuthakathaka psychogenic. Kodwa lokhu nje izitho zomzimba.
Ukuntuleka kokukhulumisana ubulili ngokuvamile umphumela ukudabuka of ubudlelwano. Abantu ibhekene enyanya ezingapheli zokuba ngocansi, kunzima ukwakha ubudlelwano obusha, ingasaphathwa ukuthuthukiswa yabo. Yiqiniso, ucansi akuyona into eyinhloko e inyunyana indoda nowesifazane, futhi nje omunye nenqubo yokwakha umkhaya oqinile. ebaluleke kakhulu kangakanani ngokuvumelana embhedeni izinto ezinkulu ngokwengeziwe - ukubukwa evamile ekuphileni abalingani, degree kwabo ukuvuthwa futhi umthwalo wemfanelo, ukuqonda futhi ozethembayo. Kodwa kuphela uma kunesisekelo impahla kanye aphila ngayo ngokobulili, ukujabulisa abalingani ngokwanele, ungakwazi ukuqedela ubuhlobo eside.
Indlela ukuqeda ukwesaba ocansini? Ngaphambi okuthile ukuze ayiqede, kufanele siqiniseke ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka. Kangakanani erotophobia, cabanga ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuqala ake sixoxe ngalokho okungesona.
Ucansi Umphakathi
Umphakathi mayelana nezindaba bobulili kungabangela ukuthonya izingqondo zabantu. Esikhathini imibuthano emincane uhlobo Orthodox amancane wasendaweni yabo imithetho engabhaliwe isihloko ubulili Akuwona wonke umuntu osamukelayo futhi yinto engcolile futhi asikufanelekeli, sinqatshelwe. Lena ukuzivikela indlela engokwemvelo umphakathi kusuka okuxekethile zokuziphatha okubi ubuntu, ezingase zilethe nezinxushunxushu ku empilweni izakhamuzi ezigcina umthetho. whores Local Asikhethi, bekhala ngokusetshenziswa kwamandla, futhi amantombazane asakhula wafaka Ngokwesibonelo ezimbi. Indaba efanayo - imiphakathi engokwenkolo, besekela imibono mthetho embhedeni ngaphambi komshado. Lolu hlobo ukuhlaselwa ukwazi, yebo, kungaba nomphumela kokwesaba ucansi abantu ongakabi kwakhiwa sokuma lalo. Kodwa lapha asikhulumi mayelana yokwesaba ethize, futhi isimo zokucindezelwa ukwazi lomuntu, okuyilona elidingekayo ukuze uhambe ngalé ukubukwa emphakathini futhi balolonge zabo umbono abanawo emhlabeni wonke.
Ukwesaba ukusondelana lokuqala
It has lutho nge erotophobia yokwesaba engokwemvelo intsha phambi ukusondelana kuqala. Ukwesaba ucansi okokuqala - isipiliyoni evamile ehambisana yokungabi nokuhlangenwe nakho. kokuhlaziywa nehaba nengokomzwelo ebangelwa yilesi senzakalo kuhambisana ukushintsha kwama-hormone in intsha, acebe izingobe ngaphakathi kwesiyingi zokuxhumana, yathola inqwaba yamakhasi ephambene komunye nomunye ulwazi oludingayo futhi lokho okungafanele ukwenze ngesikhathi bezoziphatha lokuqala ngokobulili.
Izinkinga Kwangemva Kokubeletha Kwabesifazane
Ukwesaba ucansi emva kokubeletha kwabesifazane - futhi isimo semvelo sezifunda zaleli engqondweni, sikhathele siyingcuba ingane eziveza kanye nokuzalwa. Lapho ukuphila unina womntwana sika siyashintsha kuyindlela yokuphila, kukhona nezindaba lesembili impilo nokuphepha ingane, futhi lena nokucindezeleka okubi nakakhulu, kokubili abalingani. Plus, isidingo alulame hhayi kuphela ingqondo kodwa izitho zomzimba kwabesifazane. Odokotela musa batusa ukuba ocansini amasonto 8 ngemva kokubelethwa, isikhathi kudingeka ukubuyisela umzimba kamama. Ukwesaba ngobuhlobo bakhe ngalesi sikhathi ngeke ezingaphezu kuka ibonakalisa isazela self-ukulondolozwa. Omunye umbuzo, uma isimo esinjalo izobanjezelwa isikhathi eside. Ukuzwa ubuhlungu nomunyu bokubeletha kungaba kulethe uvimba amandla ngokobulili futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukuthuthukiswa erotophobia.
izindlela lasetulu ucansi
Ukungabaza entsha eyinkimbinkimbi wokuya ocansini kukammangali akusho ukuthi umuntu anakho maqondana nalokhu yokwesaba. Ukwesaba ubulili neqembu ophathina, abalingani nomunye ubulili, Ukungena singene ingquza, ezindaweni elihlobene ne kakhulu, njll - .. Ingabe, njengoba kwaba njalo endabeni ezichazwe ngenhla umbono emphakathini, ekhishwa onqenqemeni evamile ukwazi. Kuphela kuleli cala, ngalé kwemingcele wazakhela. Omunye umbuzo - kungakhathaliseki okungaphezu lezi zici kudingeka? Ubani iyalidinga? Le ndoda yena noma umlingani wakhe? Futhi uma uzakwethu nihlabela uma yingxenye yokuphakama kwalo ngezindlela eyinkimbinkimbi ubulili ayidingeki?
Imibhangqwana ushadile isikhathi eside, zingase zikhalele ubulili ukwehluka, kufaka phakathi amafomu yayo eyinkimbinkimbi. Lokhu ukuthuthukiswa nobuhlobo bobulili, ikakhulukazi eyakhelwe ubulili zakudala. Kodwa ukumbandakanywa ehlanganyele umdlalo ezahlukene amafomu lasetulu ubulili ngendlela efanele usaqala lobuhlobo ikude kuyinsakavukela. Desire ehlotshisiwe nezinjabulo bobulili ngamunye esiphikisayo engu- sizalwa nawo abantu nge isilwane evelele isiqalo, ngenxa yalokho, nabaqashi abafuna okungaphezu ukuba ihlanganyele ubulili. Abantu abanjalo bavame ukubeka uthando ukuphila kwabo kwasekuqaleni, ngoba abakwazi ukulawula amandla zabo zobulili. Kuyinto sinamandla kangangokuba, ngaphandle kokuba ithengiswe, bayophendukela kubo ngesimo ubudlova yangaphakathi. Nabantu abanjalo kunzima ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhlala njalo: bayoba njalo "hamba ebusuku" uze wome wonke amakhono azo.
Yakha ubudlelwano, kuhlanganise ubulili, kangcono nabantu abangafuni bebusuku, abekho abantu, akukho lizwe futhi thina.
Hhayi uzakwethu
Ukwesaba ubulili ayinakuboniswa nomlingani ngamunye. Ngokwemvelo, kulesi simo, angeke sikhuluma erotophobia. Kuqondane ukuthi abantu bathanda izimfanelo zakhe ezingokomoya, ngoba isimo sengqondo sokuba nesikhundla esiphakeme emphakathini, kodwa asikwazi ukwenza umzimba wakho ufuna naye ngezocansi. Futhi njalo lokhu kungenxa kwephunga laso elibi yangaphandle alithandeki noma efanele abadala. Ngenxa yokwesaba ukusondelana Kulezo zimo, ungathatha ukwenqena evamile ukuze ubuyele nale zokuxhumana umlingani nobungane. Kubalulekile okokuqala, thembeka kuwe ngokwakho bese uhlaziya, akuyona isifiso ukuchitha isikhathi nomuntu onjalo ikhambi isithukuthezi, ithuba baxazulule izinkinga zabo zezimali, tihlobo ecasulayo, nokunye. N. Futhi kuphela ke ucabange izinto eziphathelene nobulili uqobo.
abaphelele ngokomoya
Ngezinye isigaba ezithile zokuphila zabantu abaye ukuzinikela ekupheleleni okungokomoya, ngokuvamile kuyancipha isidingo sabo zemvelo ukuba ihlanganyele ubulili. Zokungazimiseli ungene obuseduze Ubuhlobo abantu abanjalo kusukela angase abukeke njenge-ukwesaba ocansini. Kodwa akulona yokwesaba, kodwa asikho isidingo. amandla womuntu avuke izikhungo engezansi yomzimba ezicashile (Chakras) phezulu futhi uthola ukuqaliswa yayo enkonzweni kaNkulunkulu, ukuzindla umkhuba, lokusungula, ukwazi ukunwetshwa ubuso. Kulokhu, alisho ukuvinjelwa uqobo ukuba nobuhlobo bobulili egameni into ephakeme noma imfuneko we-sisekelo yesigodlo. Sikhuluma kumiswa indlela okungokomoya ngaphandle renunciation zomhlaba - endleleni ngaphandle ukuzithiba, kodwa bayazi, avuthiwe, nokuqonda okwanele wonke futhi ukunqoba aphansi nezidingo zobuntu.
erotophobia Ochwepheshe ukwelashwa
Indlela ukuqeda nowokwesaba ocansini? Xilonga erotophobia kufanele kuphela onguchwepheshe. A iphutha elikhulu uma unezinkinga ekuphileni obuseduze -obraschatsya ukusizwa wezengqondo noma udokotela wezifo zengqondo ukusebenza ezining wezinkinga zesintu. Uma uqaphela izimpawu erotobofii kufanele ufune Ochwepheshe ewumngcingo - sexologist. Odokotela lokhu lunye kanye nokusiza ukuqedwa izimbangela ezingokwengqondo lokhu kwabokufika, nokuxazulula inkinga zako emtholampilo.
self-ukwelashwa
Ngingaba ngumnikazi, ngaphandle kosizo udokotela ukuqeda erotophobia? Uma asikhulumi ngezinkinga bokuphila ezibangela ukubukeka yokwesaba ukuba ocansini, yebo. Kodwa-ke kubalulekile ukuthi ukuqonda ukuthi akuzona zonke umuntu uyakwazi ekubeni yena wezengqondo futhi ngaphandle ngaphandle usizo izingane zisebenza ngokuxhumana ngokuqondile ngo nokuhlukumezeka kwabo. Enye into - Ukwesaba ucansi ku isizinda izakhiwo. Cope nabo usungaqala sihlanganyele emidlalweni, okwenza ukuhlinzwa webele nokwengezwa, kubuyeketa umbono ku ukubukeka kwabo, futhi nokunye. N.
imfundo izingane ucansi
Erotophobia kunokwelapha, kulula abakwazanga ukuyivimbela. Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane wahlala umoya wokuthi singumkhaya okunethezekile ngokwengqondo futhi ifike ngesikhathi wathola ulwazi olufanele mayelana imininingwane yaleli zwe, ikakhulukazi mayelana konke kuza ocansini. imfundo Sex udlala indima ebalulekile ubudlelwane phakathi kwezingane nabazali.
Ubulili kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila komuntu omdala, futhi intsha kuyaye kamuva ukufika esifundweni kwalesi sihloko. Kodwa-ke ngeshwa, ulwazi kuso, awayona abazali, hhayi othisha, futhi kusukela isikrini se-TV, ku-intanethi noma abangane bakho, ngenxa yobudala yabo ngempela ibanga kusuka emcondvweni efanele izinto.
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