Ukuziqaphela ubuntu

Imvelo yomuntu ngamunye inezici eziningi ezingokwengqondo. Ukuziqhenya komuntu kuqukethe ukuhlaziywa okuhlelekile kwezinqubo ngamanye ngaphakathi, uxhumano lwabo nezenzo zabo siqu. Lokhu kuchaza ikhono lokuzibonela ohlangothini, ukuqaphela lezo zimfanelo umuntu angathanda ukulungisa noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, uqinise.

Izazi eziningi ziye zanikeza ukuphila komqondo wokuzivocavoca, lapho isihloko saleso sifundo sithinta uqobo, sifisa ukuqonda ukuthi uyini. Indlela enzima futhi edidekayo iholela kwisisombululo sesakhiwo somuntu siqu sengqondo.

Ngokusho komqondo kaB.G. Ukuziqhenya kuka-Ananyev wobuntu kuvela ngesikhathi ingane iqonda ngayo izenzo zakhe, futhi ikhula ezingeni lemvelo lokuzethemba. Owokuqala yiwona engokwenyama mina, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi - I-Self ngokomoya.

Kule minyaka, ukuziqaphela ngokwenza kwenza umsebenzi wokuziphendulela kwengqondo ngokuphathelene nabanye nokuzibandakanya emisebenzini yansuku zonke.

Umuntu uhlala ngokuvumelana naye, uma nje efuna ukuzibona, uvumelana nalokho akuyikho ngempela. Uma kukhona umehluko ekubukeni nasezenzo ezivela kumodeli oyifunayo, khona-ke kunezinkinga nge-psyche, ebangelwa ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi.

Ukuziqhenya komuntu kungabonakaliswa ngomqondo othi "Ngingumqondo" kusuka kubanokwazi kwengqondo kaW. Thomas noF. Znaniecki. Lokhu kuhlanganisa zonke izimfanelo zobuntu bakhe umuntu aziyo, kanye nendawo yakhe emphakathini, lokho akwenzayo nokuthi angenzani esikhathini esizayo.

Kulokhu, lo muntu uyakwazi ukuhlola indlela yakhe yokucabanga, ngokomzwelo nokuziphatha. Ngenxa yalokho, kubonakala kumuntu ukuthi kungani ecabanga ngale ndlela, hhayi ngenye indlela; Kungani ezwa imizwa ecacile esimweni; Kunqunywe yizenzo zakhe.

Isibonelo, ukuziqhenya komuntu kungabonwa ngesikhathi lapho isihloko sitholakala ngokuhluleka komakhelwane, kodwa umuzwa awunamathele kuye. Uqaphela ukungajwayelekile kwakhe, ukungaphumeleli ngaphansi kwezimo.

I-umqondo uthathwa njengokubonakaliswa kwezinqubo ezintathu

• I-Self ekahle imelela izimo zengqondo ezitholwa enkambweni yemfundo nokuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila, mayelana nomfanekiso ophelele womuntu. Kubalulekile ukucabangela ukuthi isikhundla somuntu singase sihluke emithethweni evumelekile evumelwaneni. Isibonelo, isela lifuna ukubheka njengegunya lobugebengu.
• I-Mirror Self iyinhlanganisela yesimo sengqondo lapho umuntu enombono wakhe siqu wokuthi ubonakala kanjani kwabanye.
• Eqinisweni ngifakwe kwikhodi yezakhi zofuzo, inesibopho samakhono omuntu, isimo, izindima ezikhona ekuphileni nasemphakathini.

Ukuziqhenya komuntu kuyisimiso sokuhlaziywa kwengqondo, lapho lezi zindlela ezintathu zihlukaniswa ngayo ngezici ezine ezifanayo: ngokomzimba, engqondweni, ezenhlalakahle nangokomzwelo.

Kusukela kumqondo we-I zonke izici zokuphila kwabantu zixhomeke, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyifunda, ukuthuthukisa izindlela zokulungisa.

Ukuziqhenya kuyisigaba esilandelayo

Ukuqaphela okukhethekile izazi zezokwelapha kunconywa ukuba udwebe kulowo mzwelo womqondo we-self-concept, lapho ukukhathazeka nokuzihlonipha komuntu kubhekwa. Iningi lososayensi lisho ukuthi umbono omuhle ngokwakho uyisisekelo sokuthola amakhono emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe. Ukwandisa ukuzethemba kuyadingeka ukufeza impumelelo kwimisebenzi yomphakathi nasemkhayeni womndeni.

Ngokwehluleka, izinga lokuzihlonipha noma lokungazihloniphi lomuntu kungaba ngumchwepheshe oqeqeshiwe kuphela. Ukuzikhandla kwezengqondo zengqondo akufuni ukugxila ekuzithekeni komthengi . Abantu abanombono ophakeme ngamakhono abo bakhuthazelela kalula ubunzima nokucindezeleka. Kunezindlela eziningi ezihloswe ekwakheni umqondo omuhle wokuzimela.