Ukuze sithandaze, ngokuba umshado sasekhaya fair?

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nokuthandaza kungasiza

Sekuyisikhathi eside iphathwa amantombazane nemithandazo for ukuvaleka kaNkulunkulu. Phela, ukuqhubeka uhlanga lwesintu akukwazi ngaphandle umndeni nezingane. "Yizwa umkhuleko wami ... ... ungiphe womshado uNkulunkulu ... ..." - ngakho ngamazwi lusuke enhliziyweni wentombazane kuNkulunkulu.

Mayelana umndeni inhlalakahle, impilo nemindeni ethandaza abangcwele abaningi Orthodox. Kodwa ngubani uthandazela umshado intombazane, lokho saint noma saint?

Yiqiniso, okokuqala kunakho konke, le Blessed Virgin Mary. Ngale nje kwalokho, umi phambi welungelo abantu uNkulunkulu eletha kuye izicelo zabo. Ngisho ngentshiseko amade eyothandaza ngaleso isonto Icaciswe ukukhulekela UnguNina KaNkulunkulu. Lokhu Septhemba 21, usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe, futhi 14 Okthoba, ephawula lokulabhela laseTheotokos. Shono kube namuhla Sekuyisikhathi eside ukudlalwa at the wedding eRussia, futhi amantombazane abangashadile wabuza: "Cover-ubaba, asibekela izwe iqhwa Zhenishke kimi"

Patron abangcwele

I abashisekeli eyinhloko womshado nomndeni ezibhekwa abangcwele uPetru futhi Fevronia of Murom, uthando kanye nokuphila ndawonye okuyinto Yisibonelo sokulingiswa lesi. Ayikho adversity nokulingwa ayikwazanga ukwehlukanisa umbhangqwana ngisho bafa ngalolo suku, futhi bangcwatshwa ethuneni efanayo. Yilokho bacela uNkulunkulu, futhi wagcwalisa isicelo sabo. Umthandazo umshado, ziqondiswe kuPetru Fevronia njengoba abavikeli of izibopho zomkhaya, nomvikeli abathandi, liqinisekile izwiwe. Nokho, kubalulekile ukuba sicele usizo ngobuqotho, ngenhliziyo yami yonke!

Enye osuke ekhuleka ngoba intombazanyana washada? Catherine. Kwaba esona ivikela damsels abasha abafuna ukushada. Bayakhuthazwa ukuthi ngizothandaza ngaphambi kokuba isithonjana saint Orthodox. Uma kungenzeka, kuhle ukuba uvakashele Wezindela i-St Catherine. Itholakala e-Egypt, esinqeni esiGungwini.

Ukuze sithandaze, ngokuba umshado namadodakazi abo umama? St Nicholas. Phela, wayehawukela ubhekwa umenzi wezimangaliso owenza izimangaliso eziningi nasemisebenzini emihle. Phakathi kwabo - insindiso abampofu ihlazo namadodakazi. Saint Nicholas waphonsa igolide ukuze lendoda empofu, kangangokuba wayengeke ashade suitor uyakufanelekela amadodakazi akhe amathathu.

Ubani uthandazela owesifazane umshado owaba umfelokazi? UMfundisi Abbess Athanasia ka Aegina. Yena wabuza ngenhlalakahle umshado wesibili. Athanasius ngafuna khona ukunikezela ukuphila yakhe yokukhonza uNkulunkulu. Nokho, abazali bakhe washada hhayi kanye nje kuphela. In the yesibili - ngemva kokufa komyeni wakhe wokuqala empini. Lezi zithandani esehlale isikhathi esithile emhlabeni ojabulisa kakhulu kuNkulunkulu, bese umhlala abangena esigodlweni sezindela.

Phakathi abangcwele nomvikeli amantombazane abangashadile abakwazi bayakhohlwa Matrona eMoscow. Ubuza ukuthi ukuthandaza umhlengikazi ophethe somshado? Kuthathwa owumthombo ububele nomusa, kuba kukhona induduzo usizi, ukuphulukisa ekuguleni, izosiza ezindabeni inhliziyo. Into esemqoka - ukuthandaza kumele yena ngobuqotho, ngobuqotho, ngenhliziyo yami yonke.

Lapho yokuthandaza nalokho amazwi?

Ukuze umthandazo ntombazane waphendula, kubalulekile ukuthi wabhapathizwa. Uma kungenjalo, kufanele ibhekane lo mkhosi wokudlulela esontweni. Lokhu kulandelwa wokuvuma ukucela usizo.

Ungathandazela esontweni futhi ekhaya. Kuyadingeka ukuba ukuthenga isithonjana olungcwele we saint, izincwadi ekhethekile umthandazo, amaqoqo akathists uwafunde. Kuwufanele Ukuvakashela izindawo ezingcwele.

Ngakho lokho saint ukuthandazela ukuba umshado ube intombazane? Umuntu eduze kwakhe, lapho ezizwa siqiniseka ngokugcwele. Phela, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi intombazane uthole usizo.