Top izindlela 10 ukuze uthole kunoma isiphi isimo nge amahlaya

Amahlaya uhleko ukukunika izinzuzo eziningi. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi 20 imizuzwana yokuhlekwa kungaba ithathe imizuzu 3 ukugwedla kanzima. izifundo International luye lwabonisa ukuthi abaphathi bazimisele kakhudlwana ukuzamukela ukuqasha abantu ukuncokola, njengoba bayakwazi ukubhekana kangcono imithwalo yabo yemfanelo. Amahlaya emsebenzini ivumela ukudambisa isimo, ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka, shift ukunakekela imibono emisha, ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhle futhi ube umholi emnandi.

Sikhishwe zonke izinzuzo, kunengqondo ucije amakhono abo yamahlaya emsebenzini. Nazi 10 izindlela zokuthola amahlaya kunoma isiphi isimo.

1. Bheka injabulo ekuphileni

Kubalulekile kakhulu ukufuna injabulo ezintweni kwenzekani ekuphileni kwakho. Lokhu kungaba ukuzibonakalisa ezihlukahlukene:

• Cabanga kancane wena usize abanye. Udinga usizo? Funda "Indlela Wina Abangane Lithonya Abantu" ngu Dale Carnegie.
• Hleka ngokuvamile. Izingane ukuhleka izikhathi ezingu-400 ngosuku, ngokungafani nabantu asebekhulile ukukwenza izikhathi ezingu-15. Hleka okungenani izikhathi ezingu-40 ngosuku, kuyoba 10% lokho owakwenza njengoba ingane.
• Lifunde njalo ezihlekisayo emapheshana yamahlaya bese ubheka amahlaya kanye funny amazwana.
• Kunoma isiphi isimo esinzima, zama ukuthola okuthile funny noma ezihlekisayo.

2. Thola ukuthi kukwenza ukuhleka

Uma ukhetha ukuhleka izikhathi 40 ngosuku, kudingeka uqonde ukuthi yini engase ibe nomthelela ekubeni isimo esinjalo futhi ahlinzeke ukufinyelela okusheshayo lokho icuphe Ukuhleka kwenu. Thola 107 esingeke uzokwazi ukuhleka. Ngiyaphupha? Lutho neze! Kungani 107? Ngenxa 107 ehlekisa kuka 100. Nazi ezinye imibono lezozinto ungakwazi ukuhleka:

• 13 amafilimu;
• 11 izinhlelo zethelevishini;
• 5 amagama noma izisho;
• 19 izindaba;
• 5 opopayi;
• 7 umsindo noma ividiyo;
• 7 abethuli;
• 7 isithombe fun;
• 7 ajwayelekile;
• ezinye izinto ngokubona kwabakwa-yakho.

Ingqikithi - 107 izinto ezimnandi. Ungakwazi ukuqoqa bese ugcine ukuba isetshenziswe uma isidingo, uma udinga ukugqugquzeleka.

3. Sebenzisa siqu indaba yakho amahlaya

Okwenzeka kumuntu siqu awumthombo bangempela iningi namahlaya for abaholi abaphumelelayo. Bheka amahlaya izimo ezenzeka ekuphileni kwakho:

• Funny izinto wathi, noma othile ekutshele.
• Ukwengamela (ngokomzimba, ngokwengqondo noma ekuchumana).
• zikhathi amahloni noma izenzakalo ezingalindelekile.
• Isikhathi ushintsho noma yokufunda.
• izimo zokuphila ezinzima (lokhu kungaba umthombo amahlaya).

4. ukwamukela nakho kwabanye

Ngaphandle isipiliyoni sami siqu, ungakwazi ukuboleka futhi sijwayele ongalwazi (Ungebi).

Ingxenye yalo nakho, ungakwazi ukuboleka e kumithombo etholakalayo. Ungakwazi umane "ngokuGugula" funny izithombe, noma ividiyo nokucija. Imithombo ezivamile, okungase ingashintshwa yiwona opopayi futhi amahlaya osomahlaya.

• Ungasebenzisa opopayi ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene, ebabonisa esethulweni, etshela Umlando, noma usebenzisa i-njengoba elikhuhluziwe okwesikhathi amahlaya amasha.
• Amahlaya noma funny ibinzana ehola osomahlaya - kungenye umthombo ukuthi ungakwazi lokushintsha ukujwayela isimo somuntu siqu noma emsebenzini. Bona okuningi amavidiyo ahlekisayo nifunde ochwepheshe indlela yokukwenza.

5. Yazi izithameli zakho

Uma usebenzisa amahlaya, kufanele siqaphele ukuba singavumeli hamba eziseceleni. Ukuze uqonde lokhu, kudingeka siqale sihlole izilaleli zakho:

• Nakani indlela amahlaya kukhona abaphathi.
• Izithameli Ukwakheka kunomthelela oqonde ngqo ukuthi uhlobo olunjani amahlaya ingasetshenziswa.
• Ukugconwa izilaleli zakhe, ngothando.

6. Yazi imithetho kanye imingcele

Amahlaya, okuyinto ngempela akwamukeleki usomahlaya esiteji, ungakwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi kusetshenziswe emsebenzini. Emsebenzini, kufanele ugweme amahlaya ezimbi noma enza imigilingwane enjengeye, amazwi obhuqayo, kanye izindikimba zenkolo, ngokobulili, ubuhlanga noma ubuhlanga. Ucabanga wazi isimo emsebenzini kahle ngokwanele ukuze hhayi ushiya kule phansi esintengayo? Ungakwenzi. Awukwazi qiniseka ngokuphelele ukuthi lezi amahlaya yamukela umsebenzi osebenza nabo, ngakho-ke kungcono hhayi ukuba engozini esikhundleni sakhe kule nkampani.

Ukuze siqiniseke ukuthi amahlaya yakho iphephile endaweni yokusebenza, ukusebenzisa ezinye ehlunga. Ungasebenzisa kumnandi, kuphela uma konke okulandelayo kuqinisekisiwe:

• Ngingasho lokhu umama.
• Mina ngeke uthukuthele uma kuzoba into ihlaya.
• Wonke umuntu eqenjini angakwazi ukuqonda amahlaya.
• Lokhu akwephuli imithetho yokuziphatha.

Uma okungenani eyodwa kulezi zitatimende uke waphendula 'cha', bese udinga ukushintsha umqondo wakho, noma uqale lonke futhi.

7. ngokwabo Sinqobe

abaholi beqiniso abagcini abazibheka njengababaluleke kakhulu. Bayakwazi ukuzihleka bese uvumela abanye ukukwenza. Futhi, abaholi angasebenzisa amahlaya zokuzilimaza ukuthi siyehla ithalenta, umsebenzi kanye impumelelo.

Kodwa amahlaya okunjalo akusho ukuthi asetshenziswe kuzo zonke izimo. Kuyinto ngempumelelo kakhulu futhi ukusetshenziswa elifanele:

• Ezimweni lapho uzizwa ukhululekile futhi beqiniseka.
• Lapho igunya lakho zamakhono amiswa ngokucacile.
• Ezimweni lapho ukhona ujwayelene interlocutors.

Khumbula, uma uzama ukwenza amahlaya zokuzilimaza kwenye, kumelwe nibe ngokubona umuntu futhi ucabangele isimo.

8. Udinga imibono amahlaya? Vele uqalaza

Emsebenzini njalo kumnandi futhi izimo amahlaya. Amahlaya livela ihaba, puns, kulungise ukungaqondani kahle, ukwakheka kwemiqondo, ukuphikisana, zango nokushintshashintsha. Uma egijima yiluphi uhlobo ibhizinisi noma inkampani ke nsuku zonke ubona isimo ukuthi kungenziwa beat.

Iqhaza lakho njengoba umholi ukusebenzisa amahlaya ukuvumela abanye ziyazithanda. Kodwa awukwazi ukuyisebenzisa lapho yavusa, njengoba lokhu kungaholela zehlazo.

9. Zizungeze omuhle

Uma ufuna ukuzizwa injabulo futhi frivolity, zizungeze abanesimo sengqondo esihle. Lawa nabantu kalula ukuhleka futhi wenze abanye smile.

Thuthukisa ubudlelwano lolu hlobo lwabantu. Chitha isikhathi nabo futhi ufunde kubo ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani ukusebenzisa amahlaya. Ungakhetha abantu abangu-3 noma 4, ngubani lizoba ahlekisayo ithimba ngokwethukela. Cabanga ukubukwa nalapho ukunikela imibono emisha athokozise iqembu.

10. Gxila fun

Ekugcineni, umholi kubaluleke kakhulu hhayi kuphela ukuba abe umuntu omuhle, kodwa futhi ukwazi ukwabelana ajabule nabanye. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa amathiphu lokugcina mayelana nokuthi iziphi izinhlelo akufanele sikhohlwe:

• Prakthiza amahlaya akho endaweni ukhululekile, bese uzama ukuthola ukuthi isebenza futhi yini engasebenzi. Kuphela ngemva kwalokho lokudlela ehholo elikhulu.
• Nikeza "imvume" yakho ukuthi ungakhululeka and smile emsebenzini. Lokhu kungenziwa wezwakalisa njengoba amazwi nangesimo sobuso noma izenzo.
• Zama ukudala Umkhathi fun emsebenzini.