Kungani futhi kanjani ukususa ukubhalisa ukuxhumana?

Muva nje, "contact" waqala ifuze a "Twitter", ikakhulukazi uma kwangena zonke ehlubuka microblogging esikhundleni izindonga futhi wanezela "Subscriber" umsebenzi. Kuyini lokhu okubhaliselwe, futhi kungani kudingeka? Kunengqondo ukuphetha ngokuthi impendulo ulula - ukuze ukwazi ukulandela okwenzekayo e umuntu omusha futhi uhlale usesikhathini ne izindaba zayo. Nokho, uthole ukucwaningwa okuningiliziwe kokulandisa le ncazelo uwela ngaphandle sengathi nendlu eyakhiwe ngamakhadi okudlala, bese ukwazi uqobo aqala umbuzo ofanelekayo kakhulu, indlela ukususa ukuxhumana okubhaliselwe futhi akazange asebenzise ngaphezulu kubo.

Okokuqala, ukuthi okubhaliselwe enkabeni yalo? Umuntu ofuna ukwengeza njengoba umngane, ungayinaki, kodwa bavunyelwe "landela" nomunye. Ngiyavuma, kuzwakala kancane unizhayusche uthanda inja Roll idayisi. Ake sithi lo muntu waziwa - kulesi simo, ukuze uhlale naye ababhalisile namanje ezinengqondo, kepha uma kuyindodakazi - umfana okungahleliwe noma intombazane - ukuthi akulula ukukhohlwa ngakho, uma ngasizathu simbe engafuni ukukunaka? Kuqala kwakukholelwa, isicelo is hhayi ukuqinisekisile, wahamba sokuba ufune abangane abasha. Manje, udinga ohlweni kusukela subscription contact ngesandla kungenjalo wena ngeke hang it ababhalisile, efana isivakashi, owayebizwa akuvumelekile ngale ephasishi.

Okwesibili, okubhalisele ayinikeli Izinzuzo ebaluleke. Zonke oyithola abantu ubhalisele - kuyinto ukuzivuselela ku izindaba, ezithakazelisa kakhulu zazo - lesi sithombe, okuyinto by the way, usengakwazi ivalwe. Noma kunjalo, "VKontakte" - lena akuyona "twitter", futhi awukwazi ukufunda izitatimende unesithakazelo kubantu, kuyoba ngempela kulingane esimweni ukubhaliswa osaziwayo.

Thina siphethe - umsebenzi "Subscriber" is yalutho, ihlala yodwa ukuze ufunde indlela ukususa ukubhalisa ukuxhumana? Eqinisweni, kwenza kube lula kuhle. Ngena ngemvume ukuze ithebhu yakho "abangane" futhi uthole khona ithunyelwa kwamanye abasebenzisi isicelo. Vele Ungasusa ukubhalisa noma yimuphi umuntu kuleli khasi noma bonke abantu nje imizuzu embalwa. Noma ungaya ekhasini nomuntu othumele isicelo futhi yokuhamba isikhombisi phezu umyalezo - "ubangeza abangane ...", ohlweni olusuka ke.

By endleleni, abantu abaningi abangajabule kanjalo isici esisha okungahambisani ngisho ufuna ukubona ngasiphi ababhalisile. Bona, yebo, kungaphazamisi, kodwa abantu abaningi uhlobo "umaka obomvu". Kunengqondo izidingo ngempela abajwayelekile - ukususa ababhalisile, kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho umbuzo indlela ukuzikhipha ohlwini contact, kuvela ukuthi lesi akusona ngakho elula. Umuntu ngemvume udinga ukuthumela lokunqatshelwe - kuphela ke ngeke yini usakwazi ukukulandela. Kubonakala kungenjalo izinqumo ezinengqondo kakhulu futhi lutho.

Ngokuvamile, kukhona bezibona ukuthi ukubhaliswa contact kwangena ngokuba inzuzo esayithini ukufana ku-Twitter. Phela, ngesikhathi abasebenzisi abavamile uyazibuza kanjani ukususa ukubhalisa abaxhumana, abathengisi ahlukahlukene ephambene kakhulu uyajabula ukwandisa isibalo ababhalisile. Umqondo ilula - the ababhalisile abaningi ngempumelelo ngaphezulu network wokukhangisa.

Kodwa kungani abantu ukufunda isikhangiso futhi ezindabeni abaxhumana, ngaphandle ku-TV kancane? Kulula kabi. Abasebenzisi abaningi nje asazi kanjani ukususa ukuxhumana okubhaliselwe kuka abathengisi futhi ujabulele. Eqinisweni, asikho isidingo zamusorivat ikhasi lakhe yokuxhumana futhi wenze inzuzo kwabanye abantu, ngoba wona kanye umqondo wokuthandana inethiwekhi ekuqaleni kwaba ukuxhumana ukuxhumana nabantu bangempela futhi ngenze abangane abasha.

Konke ezandleni zakho! Uma ufuna ukufunda izikhangiso futhi amahlaya Corny futhi ezilula siqhubeke ubhalisele konke, kepha uma kungengakho ukuzithandela - kuthathe amaminithi ambalwa wesikhathi ikhasi ohlanzekile kusukela kudoti.