Indlela aphendule ukuthuka: Amathiphu 'ebona'

Ngamunye wethu okungenani kanye ekuphileni wathukwa. Kulesi simo, ngokushesha ufuna ukusho into enje, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi amazwi afanele, imishwana ngisho Wit. Kunzima ukuthola ngokushesha bese ukhetha ikhambi esifanele. Umsebenzi wethu - sokulungisa kanjani ukuphendula ukuthuka ukuze babangele interlocutor akuyona ukusineka Ukuzehlisa nokuhlonipha. It kuvela ukuthi ngisho simple, ngoba lokhu kufanele uqonde izinto ezimbalwa.

Ngaphambi lutho impendulo, kudingeka ukuzola futhi ukwesaba ukuthi unayo. Yiqiniso, isitha sakho uyozizwa ngokushesha, futhi kuzoba isigxobo isikhundla. Khumbula ukuthi isitha asaba engengaphansi kwengu engawakho, ngoba amandla akho - ngenkolelo yokuthi awukwazi ulahlekelwe. Lokho kuyokusiza uthole ikhambi ilungelo isimo.

Uma you inflicted nokuthuka esidlangalaleni, amazwana olungalungile ku yakho isimo, ezenhlalo izingubo, noma lalibonakala sengathi, Yiqiniso, ngifuna ngokushesha abuyisele lowo okonile ku uhlamvu lwemali efanayo. Kodwa kulokhu uyobheka silly, futhi sparring, okuyinto eyenzeka, lutho kodwa uhleko futhi ahlulelwa abanye ngeke kukwenze. Baphetha ngokuthini engcono kungaba ke ukumane uyizibe izitatimende: sengathi ukuthi abazange bakuqaphele umuntu ekonile, yena akanandaba nawe, ekugcineni, nje akuyona ulinake. Uyokuphumelela, kholwa kimi.

Kunzima kakhulu ukunquma ukuthi usabela kanjani Zihlazisa umuntu ajwayelekile. Uma wakhokha kuye uzakwabo, ungakwazi noma wenze ihlaya (kodwa kulesi simo, isengozini kokuba uphawu isiwula), noma okunye ukuphendula luhlaza (ke iwe emehlweni lonke abasebenzi). Ungazama ukusebenzisa noma isiphi uklolodela ozokusiza ukuvala umlomo, futhi owonile kuyoba ngempela behlakaniphile. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ukhuluma abangaphansi ungaboniswa ku yayo eceleni ukweyisa impendulo ibinzana ezifana: ". Ungaba umbono wakho siqu, kodwa akuyona ezithakazelisayo kimi"

Uma wena noma umngane "belingana", ecabanga ukuthi usabela kanjani ukuthuka, kungenzeka iphendukele okuhlukile kokungathathi hlangothi: "Wena kakhulu ababeyizazi kule ndaba, kodwa oyikhethile hhayi isikhathi esingcono futhi yindawo yokuxoxa lesi sihloko." Ngakho, uzokwazi ukuba bahoxe ekungeneleni ukungqubuzana ke izoziphindiselela kuye ngesikhathi, uma ikulungele kangcono.

Khumbula ukuthi kunoma isiphi isimo udinga anamathele isikhundla okuholela: ukuba ingakhathazeki ukuqeda ukwesaba azethembe. Isitha kulokhu uyozama ukuvala ndaba, ukuze awele emehlweni abanye.

Kuleli zwe lanamuhla, ngenxa njalo futhi eside zokuxhumana zokuxhumana nabantu, kukhona umbuzo kanjani ukuphendula ukuthukwa ku-intanethi. Njengomthetho, interlocutors eziningi angikaze ngimbone nomunye futhi akazange ukuxhumana mathupha. Ngezinye izikhathi kungavela lezi zinkinga emidlalweni ye-Internet, lapho abaphikisi musa skimp on izitatimende kokubili emihle nemibi. Yiqiniso, ungakwazi zijoyine abantu besebenzisa khona ulimi olungcolile inhlamba, kodwa qaphela ukuthi simo sakho njengenhlangano abafundile indoda cultured ziyokuwa, okokuqala kunakho konke, emehlweni akho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lezi amacala kukhona emthethweni futhi kuhilelani isibopho sezomthetho zomthetho.

Kukhona ezinye imithetho jikelele kanjani ukuphendula ukuthuka:

1. Zama ukuvula isimo ukuze kwakungekho ukugeleza ukuthukwa mutual izinsolo. Akuyona ezinhle ngeke, futhi namanje abazi ukuthi ingabe ukuxhumana nalowo muntu. Ukudalelwa - into ezingalindelekile.
2. Uma begcina ithinta udumo lwakho noma ngesithunzi, ungayihumushi konke ibe ihlaya. Zama ngokuzithoba futhi ukubeka Cad ngaphandle bamemeza.
3. Khetha impendulo ingxoxo isiphelile.
4. Xoxa ngangokunokwenzeka ithoni esivaliwe.

indlela Universal ukuphendula kuthuke cha, ngoba konke kuncike isimo futhi ubuntu kumuntu osonile. Kubalulekile ukuba alahlekelwe ukuzithiba futhi ukhethe ikhambi esifanele.