Amaphuzu mayelana nokudala. Izingcaphuno ezinhle. Iziqu zabantu abakhulu mayelana nokudala

Kwesinye sezikhulumiswano eziningi, uKurt Cobain wabelane ngalokhu okulandelayo: "Ngangihlale ngisongwe, futhi kwangikhathaza kakhulu. Kodwa futhi kwakungenaso isifiso sokuxhumana nabafunda nabo noma oontanga. Futhi ngemva kweminyaka eminingi ngiqaphele ukuthi kungani kwenzeka kanjalo - babengenandaba nokudala ". Futhi ngisho nanamuhla, abantu abaningi babona ubuciko njengento yenkambiso yamasiko, nabadali - njengabaphezulu noma abahlakaniphile. Ukusebenzisa izingcaphuno mayelana nobuciko, sizozama ukumboza lesi sihloko kancane, sitshele ukuthi ubuciko buvela kuphi, ukuthi yikuphi nokuthi bangobani abantu abakhayo.

Kuyini ubuciko?

Izingcaphuno ezimnandi ngezinye izikhathi zingasho okuningi ngokuthi yikuphi ukudala ngempela. Kumuntu, lokhu kuyisenzo sangempela sothando. Omunye uqinisekile ukuthi ubuciko buyisici esiyinkimbinkimbi yomlingisi ongeke ufunde. Ukuze siqonde yonke imibono yemibono, sizobabonisa ngendlela yokucaphuna mayelana nobuciko:

• "Ukudala kusho ukukwenza imicabango ibe lula, ukuqamba amathuba amasha okuphila."
• "Ukudala yisipho esingokwemvelo. Ufana nobuhle noma izwi eliqinile. Ikhono elingenalutho lingathuthukiswa, kodwa akukho mzamo ongayikuthi uyithole. "
• "Ukudala yisipho esivela kuNkulunkulu. Isenzo sokudala siyimfihlakalo enkulu yomphefumulo. "
• "Ukudala kuyisimo samanje, lapho ikusasa lidalwa khona."
• "Ubuciko buyinto engenzi lutho ngaphandle kwezisulu."

Akulula

Ukudala kungadalwa ngezindlela eziningi, kodwa ngokuqinisekile kuyosuselwa kunento ethile. Izinhloso ezimangalisayo nezifiso, ukuphikisana nokuphila kwansuku zonke, amazwi angasoze ashiwo. Futhi lowo othi kulula ukudala akulungile. Eqinisweni, njengoba uBairzhan Toishibekov ethi: "Ukudala kudalwe kusuka engxenyeni eyodwa yeyinki nezingxenye ezintathu zokuthuthumela." Ukudala into evelele, kudingeka wenze konke okusemandleni nsuku zonke. Qhubeka njalo futhi usebenze ngokwabo.

Okuhle kunakho konke, ubunzima ekwakheni imisebenzi yobuciko kuchaza izingcaphuno mayelana nomsebenzi wezazi zefilosofi ezidumile:

• USocrates: "Wonke umdali kufanele aveze isimo sakhe sengqondo."
• UPlato: "Wonke umuntu angaba umdali, uma enesici esishukumisela kuye."
• I-Aristotle: "Ubuciko abukaze bukhulume ngokuthi yini, bukhombisa njalo ukuthi yini okufanele ibe khona."
• I-Voltaire: "Indalo ikhuluma ngomdali wayo."
• Diderot: "Umsebenzi ophezulu kunoma yikuphi ukuklama ukuthola ukuthola okungavamile kokujwayelekile nokujwayelekile kumnandi."

Ukuphila koMdali ekuthunjweni

Njengoba u-Erich Maria Remarque uthe, ubuciko buhlale bufihliwe ngaphansi kwegobolondo elingabonakali. Emakhasini omlando, akuvame ukuhlangana nomuntu odala owake waba ngowokuqala kukho konke, wayephila impilo ende futhi ejabulisayo, ethandekayo futhi ethandwa. Ngokuvamile, abadali babethengiswa ngokuphindaphindiwe, baxoshwa ezweni lakubo, bengabonakali ekuphileni, kodwa badunyiswa ngemva kokufa. Kodwa abazange banqabe ukwenza imisebenzi yabo siqu.

UJohn Fowles wake wabuza umbuzo othi: "Kungani abantu abahle, abahloniphekile, abahlakaniphile behlala bengaphansi kwe-grey?" Ngakho bekulokhu kube njalo futhi kuzoba: abadali bangabanjiniyela. Kodwa konke okusha kuholela ekushintsheni okungakhululekile futhi okucasulayo, ngakho-ke akumukeleki ngesikhathi esithile. Ama-aphorisms mayelana nokudala angasho okuningi mayelana nokuthi izimo ezinzima ezihlukahlukene zizalwa kanjani: kusukela kumculo kuya kumuntu wobuciko.

Umculo, izincwadi, ukudweba

Ungakwazi ukuthola izingcaphuno mayelana nobuciko, ugxile kwenye yefomu yobuciko, hhayi yonke inqubo. Kodwa uma ucabanga ngakho, uma ubeka igama elithi "umdwebo" ngokuthi "ubuciko", incazelo yegama ngeke ishintshe. Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukucaphuna izingcaphuno ezivame kakhulu:

• "Kunzima ukuhlukanisa nabathandekayo bakho. Ukulangazelela ukuhlukaniswa okuvamile kuhamba ngezinoma ezimbalwa ezibhaliwe, futhi kusuka enhliziyweni ephukile - ngama-albhamu amaningi abhalwe phansi. "
• "Umdwebo ngamunye, namanje ukuphila noma ukuma komhlaba, empeleni - i-self-portrait."
• "Uma umuntu ecabanga ngokucacile, uzobhala ngendlela efanayo, futhi uma umcabango wakhe uyigugu, khona-ke ukwakheka kuyoba nenzuzo."

Yini okufanele ibe umdali?

Ungakwazi ukukhuluma isikhathi eside mayelana nokuthi kusho ukuthini ukudala, lapho kufika kuleli zwe nokuthi kuthinta kanjani abantu. Kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi abadali bangempela kufanele babe: banentshisekelo, balwela ukuphelela futhi bangakulungeli ukubona ukuthi ubuciko babo buhle. Yilokhu okushiwo izingcaphuno mayelana nokudala ukuthi:

• "Ukudala kuyimfihlakalo ukuthi umdali uyazibuza."
• "Noma yikuphi ukudala kuqala njengesifiso sokuzihlakulela kanye nobungcwele."
• "Ukudala kusiza ukulondoloza ubuntu".
• "Ukuba yinkosi enkulu kakhulu kusho ukungaqapheli ukuphelela komuntu siqu."

Yini abadumile abakusho ngayo ngobuciko?

Izidalwa mayelana nokudala nazo zivame ukucabanga. Ngokuyinhloko, imibono yabo isekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho nokuzibonela. Izitatimende ezidumile kunazo zonke zingabalingisi, amamodeli, abadlali. Umsebenzi wabo uhambela kancane kancane ekuqondeni okungaqondakali, kodwa noma kunjalo bayazi ngalokhu:

• U-Igor Moiseyev: "Ngiyajabula lapho inhlanhla ifika ngobuciko, njengoba ngiyajabula ukwenza lokho engikwenzelwe ukukwenza ngokwemvelo".
• UGiorgio Armani: "Kudingeka sibe nesibindi emibonweni yethu. Ngesikhathi ngizama ukusika, akekho owangibona, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi imibono yami yobucayi yaba yindinganiso. "
• UBruce Lee: "UMdali udala, futhi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kunesimiso esasungulwe."
• I-Tyra Banks: "Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna ukuthini, into esemqoka ukuphishekela isifiso sokwenza isenzo, hhayi imali."
• UBarbara Palvin: "Ukuze ufeze iphupho lakho, okokuqala udinga ukwazi ukudala."

Ubuciko bomphakathi

Kuningi ezweni elilethwe nabadali baseRussia. Ubuciko baseRashiya buhlukile ngokuvela kwawo nokusabalalisa emisebenzini yamazwe angaphandle. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu imisebenzi yabo ihlonishwa, ebonakala njengefa eliyingqayizivele labantu baseRussia, lapho isiko, ukucabanga, izindinganiso eziyisisekelo nezinto ezibalulekile eziboniswa ngayo. Njengoba uFadeyev wathi: "Umuntu obonakala kahle ngokusebenza nokudala". Futhi emphakathini lapho kunabantu abanesifiso sokuzithuthukisa ngokwabo, ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzovela into elula njengobuciko bomuntu. Ukucaphuna mayelana nobuciko bomuntu akukaze kube nezikhundla eziphambili kwinombolo yabo, kodwa noma kunjalo izitatimende eziningana ezaziwayo zingatholakala:

• "Uhlobo ngalunye lokudala lunezinjabulo zalo, into eyinhloko ukufunda ukuthi ungayithatha kuphi."
• "Kulula kakhulu ukuyeka umzuzwana emsebenzini."
• "Ukuhlonishwa okuphezulu komdali - uma umsebenzi wakhe uthanda."
• "Ubuciko bemiklamo yenzelwe ukwenza ubuhle bezwe, ukubiza umzabalazo, ububanzi bomphefumulo womuntu futhi ingqondo iyanqoba ubumnyama."
• "Kunendawo yokudala kuyo yonke imisebenzi."
• "Kusukela ekuhlakanipheni konke injabulo ekuphileni. Ukudala kuyonqoba ngaphezu kokufa. "
• "Uma i-rooster yayinenkululeko yokudala, wayezoqhubeka ekhala."
• "Indoda engenzi isitshalo esibi kakhulu esinika i-oxygen."

Umphumela

Izingcaphuno ezinhle mayelana nobuciko zingabonakaliswa ngezwi elilodwa elilula - inkululeko. Kuzo zonke izibonelo ezinikezwe, ungabona ukuthi ukudala akusho ukuhambisana nemigomo. Kuyinto yesenzo sokucabanga mahhala nesenzo. UMdali uqaphele ekuphileni kwansuku zonke i-charm ekhethekile futhi uzama ukuyibeka kubantu. Futhi ngamunye wabo ubeka emisebenzini yakhe ukukhumbula lokho akuthandayo.

Bathi wonke umuntu angaba umdali. Wonke umuntu unamandla okuletha okuthile okusha, okuthakazelisayo, okuhambisana nezwe. Kodwa uma umuntu engasho ukuthi: "Yebo, ngizophumelela. Ngizokwenza, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini! "- ngeke isebenze. Ubunjiniyela buyinkululeko, eqala ngokuzethemba nokuzilungiselela ngokuphelele ukulwa nesistimu, ukuvikela indawo yayo.