Uyini isipho? amasiko Eastern Hlakaniphile

Amasiko kanye imicikilisho abantu yesimanje ziqondakala ayibi mibi kangako. Ziyakwazi uhlamvu zomlando ngaphezulu noma umdlalo. Kodwa eMpumalanga, amasiko wawoyise lasendulo njengoba uyaphila njengoba ayenjalo emakhulwini eminyaka edlule. Lezi amasiko kuthiwa wayelihlonipha futhi isuka kwesinye isizukulwane iye kwesinye. Futhi omunye masiko kuyinto ilobolo. Leli gama linezincazelo elisuka ezikude ezikhathini komlando, futhi kusho umakoti.

Isiko Eastern eminyaka ubudala

East - a ndaba ebucayi, futhi nalesi sitatimende akekho Ngeke siphikisane. Kubonakala sengathi, lapho ungakwazi ukuxazulula konke silula, wonke amaSulumane uzokwenza nzima futhi convoluted. Kodwa mhlawumbe lokhu kuyiso sonke charm imicikilisho Eastern kuyinto. Futhi omunye yalawo masiko kwaba intengo umakoti. Uyini ilobolo, eyaziwa kuyo yonke Muslim. Ngoba, ngaphambili ecabangela ukushada, le nsizwa kumelwe banakekele ukuhlengwa, okuyinto uyonikeza umakoti. Kungani kunesidingo isiko elinjalo emakhulwini amaningi eminyaka adlule? Kunalokho, bonke ngenxa yezizathu zezomnotho. Ngakho, umkhwenyana njengoba recouped ukulahlekelwa silethwe yokuthi umndeni bancishwa zomsebenzi kanye nomabo ukuthi umakoti uthatha naye. Njengomthetho, ukuhlengwa ngegolide, nezinkomo, namakamela, izimvu nezimbuzi. Futhi acebile ubaba kamakoti, ayanda izimfuneko ilobolo.

umakoti Ukuthumba

Wedding obungokwesiko emazweni Muslim - umbukwane ezithakazelisayo kakhulu futhi ezimibalabala. Futhi kuthathela ukuthunjwa umakoti. Yiqiniso, kokuba kungokuvumelana. Umshado amaSulumane ophoqelelwe kubhekwa siyize. Futhi esanda nomkhwenyana ngephutha zabheka uthando yakhe enye intombazane, edlula ke ngezithunywa itshali, okuyinto ubeka engalweni yakhe. Khona-ke, ngemva kwama-awara esimisiwe wayesesikebheni enyakazayo umnyuziki ulahlekile intombazane futhi sikufisela ekhaya lakho. Kukhona kakade elinde umakoti. Futhi phambi intombazane esencane ibe ngumkami agcwele, kudingeka kudlule kokuxilongwa. Ekuqaleni, ngaphambi kokungena endlini yomkhwenyana, kufanele sifinyelele phezu komlilo isiko. Kukholakala ukuthi njengoba ukugeza alethwe somndeni womyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo ibuyekeziwe ngokuphelele. Kwafika nenye futhi intombazane abasha ubona unina yomkhwenyana, sithokozela ebusheni bakhe, ubuhle nempilo. Futhi uma indodana ukukhetha ivunyelwe ke zonke ziqala ukulungiselela umshado. Ntombazanyana kuqale nge bakamakoti indandatho umunwe, okusho ukuthi manje uqobo ngokushesha angase abe umlobokazi, futhi bathunjwa intombazanyana - umkakhe. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, umkakhe esizayo ugaxe isihenqo obomvu, lapho kufanele ngaphambi komshado. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlola ukuchayeka wentombazanyana nendlela ihlonipha emasikweni okhokho babo. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi matchmakers umakoti athumela kuyise nomkhaya wakhe ekhaya ukunikela kube yisihlengo indodakazi yakhe. Futhi uma isivumelwano senzeka, wadlala lomshado, okuyinto ilungiselela eziningi awukudla kanye nezipho. Abazali abasha abasanda-omkhaya ephana into edingekayo ekuphileni komkhaya esizayo.

Uyini ilobolo namuhla?

Namuhla umkhuba wokukhulekela intengo umlobokazi futhi ahlonishwe emazweni asempumalanga. Uyini ilobolo, eyaziwa zonke ingane. Mhlawumbe, leli siko baba kancane ethambile. Yebo, futhi konke okuhle ukuthi umkhwenyana kuyonika umakoti, futhi manje akuyona noyise, futhi esikhathini esizayo abasanda kushada. Manje ngaphambi komshado endlini kayise amantombazane uya matchmakers nabazali yomkhwenyana. Nge amahlaya, imilolotelo, badumisa indodana yakhe, abafisa lokuchuma nempilo abazali bakamakoti. Khona-ke kukhona ingxoxo yendlela bangabasiza abafileyo abasha ukwakha, echumayo ngokwezimali womkhaya osemncane eqinile. Ngemva kwakho konke okushiwo nigxilile, noyise wentombazana, ephula off adle ucezu ikhekhe. Nalaba abanye nabo ngidle ucezu ikhekhe. Lolu hlobo inkontileka ukusayina.

isiphetho

Noma yini bathi, namasiko empumalanga namasiko kuhlakaniphile kakhulu. Kunjengokungathi uhlobo Ukukhetha - guy ivila, hhayi sifisa okuhle, ngeke bakwazi ukushada. Mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi emazweni Muslim namandla nemishado okuphephile, ngoba lokho kuyinto dowry futhi kulukhuni kangakanani kwabethemba umnotho uthola, bayazi mathupha.