Wedding emva komshado: ngasekupheleni ungcono neze

Imibhangqwana eminingi kakhulu ukunquma ukuhlela lomshado emva komshado. Ngezinye izikhathi lezi izinsuku ezimbili bahluke kakhulu endleleni abadalwe isikhathi. Akholwa ngokuvamile bazilandela izimenywa umshado esontweni, hhayi ukubhaliswa civil. Yiqiniso, kahle, lapho umshado emva komshado senzeka ngosuku olulandelayo efanayo noma, kodwa akunakwenzeka njalo. Ngezinye izinsuku, isonto ngeke athweswe umqhele, ngaphandle abasezikhundleni futhi babe ukuhlehlisa emcimbini. Umshado udinga ukuphetha, isibonelo, ngokuxhumana sokukhulelwa kamakoti.

Ngokuvamile abantu bazimisele ukuba ngifakazele uthando lukaNkulunkulu, ngemva kweminyaka eminingi ayichitha iphethini bhalisiwe ngomshado wokuziphilisa. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi kuyokusiza ukuba zibe ndawonye kuze kube phakade. Eqinisweni, uma bobabili indoda nenkosikazi uzoya ipharadesi, bazoba nomhlangano khona. Futhi esihogweni eyedwa, ngakho lomshado ngeke kusize. IBhayibheli lithi ezulwini akukho womshado, ngakho ushade ngemva nobufelokazi - hhayi umbuso. Ngakho lomshado kwenziwa lokhu ukuphila, ngakho bonke abanye kufanele kwesokunxele kuya intando kaNkulunkulu.

Sam emcimbini wedding kuyinto enhle kakhulu, emaculweni ekhethekile abakhethiwe, yena anencazelo ejulile. isinyathelo ngasinye umPristi izindaba ngokwesiko. Kukhona futhi izinhlobonhlobo zokuthembela ezeni eziningi ezihlobene emcimbini wedding, kodwa labapristi bama-Orthodox belulekwa ukuba unake kubo. Ngempela, esikhathini sethu akubalulekile kangako abayoba yomkhaya (njengoba ixhunyaniswe kakhulu zonke izinhlobonhlobo zokuthembela ezeni), izinqumo emkhayeni ukuthatha kokubili kuyinkolelo-ze ngokuvumelana nezimiso isonto - isono. Into esemqoka - ukukholelwa uthando lwabo ukusebenza ubudlelwano, uthando, bese emva komshado izokuba mibi namandla.

Abantu bavame ukubuza ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane abanesono ufisa. Ngo ngokwayo, kungokwemvelo futhi ejwayelekile, futhi akufanele sizame attribute isiphambeko uthando nomshado. Noma ubani uthi isimo sengqondo wemfanelo - engcolile, ukuba kwakuzondeka, ngakho musa ulalele izindaba ukwahlukana futhi Renegades. Kodwa ukubukeka abobulili obuhlukile kufanele sithathwe njengehlelo okhonzile. Kungenye into uma inja kusiza inkosi yayo ekuzingeleni, kanye nezinye - uma kuba etafuleni ushwabadela izitsha Sebawoti. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba bakhangwa ngokwenyama wayazi indawo yabo.

ERussia, umshado emva komshado - ngokuvamile ngoba baqheliswa kuphela ngemva olusemthethweni nokubhalisa umshado. Esikhathini isakramente lomshado lo mbhangqwana ndawonye, baqala ukwakha umzimba owodwa nomoya owodwa. Ngakho isehlukaniso njengoba kubuhlungu futhi ukuqothuka kwezinwele okungavamile, njengoba Ukubhidliza inyama. Okuwukuphela ngezizathu okwakuvame ukubonakala kuwukuziphikisa isehlukaniso - ukuphinga, ngoba useshintshe umyeni waphula kwezibopho zomshado.

isibusiso sabazali emshadweni - isiko endala kakhulu futhi omkhulu. Kwakungadingekile ngisho ezinsukwini ubudala, abasha ashade ngokumelene izifiso abazali babo, kodwa kuhle ukuba acele usizo kubantu okubaluleke kangakanani ekuphileni kwethu. Kanjani ukunikeza futhi wamukele isibusiso? Young siguqe phambi kwabazali bazo, kanti babhapathizelwa zonke ukuphenduka, khuluma amazwi isibusiso, ngemva kwalokho kiss abasha ezandleni abazali. isibusiso akuyona into fixed kanye yokubopha izimvu, njalo nje lapho abazali wayibusisa njengoba ubona kufanelekile. Abanye bavele bathi: "UMkhandlu nabakuthandayo," kuyilapho abanye abafisa injabulo futhi eziningi izingane, abanye anikeze iseluleko, osekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho. Kube Awunawo imithetho kanzima futhi okusheshayo, nje cela abazali ukusho okusengqondweni yabo kanye nalokho abacabanga ukuthi abaluleke kakhulu.

Mhlawumbe ushadile iminyaka eminingi, kodwa ishadile. Wedding emva komshado zingahlelwa, futhi ngemva kweminyaka eminingi. Kuyinto akukephuzi, ikakhulukazi njengoba umshado esontweni obhalisiwe kuyaqapheleka futhi yimuphi ubaba ovamile ngeke bakutshele ukuthi uphila esonweni. Uma lokhu ukusho ngokusuka kuwe - ungakhalaza ngokuphepha. umqondo Social leSonto Lobu-Orthodox nakanjani sinquma inhlonipho esontweni ukuze ubhalise umshado wawo. Nokho, amaHubo bugcizelelwa abashadayo ndawonye kulula, ngoba umshado wabo ukuvikela amandla ezulu. Ngakho lokhu kungaphezu emkhosini enhle.