Umshado weTajik - wonke umuntu uhamba

Umshado weTajik ugubha ngezikhathi eziningana kangangokuba waba yinkinga yangempela kazwelonke. Ngisho nomongameli utshele abantu bakhe ngenkulumo, ebiza ukunciphisa izindleko zomkhosi, engathathi imali ebolekayo eminye amashumi eminyaka. Ingabe bayomlalela? Isikhathi sizokutshela.

Futhi manje ake sikhulume, yimaphi amasiko adinga izimali ezinkulu kangaka, nokuthi ahlele kanjani umshado ngesiTajik.

Uma ugcina wonke amasiko nemikhuba, khona-ke umkhosi uzothatha okungaphezu kosuku olulodwa, futhi hhayi ngisho neviki elilodwa.

Ukuhlanganisa nokubandakanya

Njengamazwe amaningi amaSulumane, abazali baseTajik ngokwabo bakhetha izingane zabo. Bakhetha lokhu phakathi kwabo, bavuma ukuhlela umshado futhi bathumele abadlali bokudlala. Futhi umakoti wesikhathi esizayo angafunda ngalokhu kuphela inyanga emva kokumaketha, usuku lokuzibandakanya.

Unina uya endlini yomakoti kusihlwa futhi athathe isidlo se-plov nge-scone. Kudla isidlo sakusihlwa, lapho abadala bomndeni kanye nezivakashi eziningi bemenyezelwa ukuthi bahlanganyele. Lokhu kuhambisane nemithandazo nokuphula amaqebelengwane. Manje intsha ibhekwa njengomyeni nomkhwenyana osemthethweni.

I-Takhta idlula kunon - ukulethwa kwe-kalym

Umshado we-Tajik ngokwejwayelekile awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokulethwa kalym kubazali bomfazi ozayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umyeni ohluphekile kangakanani, kufanele akhiphe izipho eziyigugu, futhi emva nje kwalokho usuku lomshado wesikhathi esizayo luqokwa, ngokuvamile - ekwindla.

Ngaphambi kokuba umakoti waseTajik engavamile umbuzo, indlela yokukhetha ingubo yomshado efanele, ngoba imikhuba idlulisa izingubo zendabuko, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ikhululekile kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngendabuko, le ngubo yomshado kufanele igqoke insizwa encane engu-40 ngemva komshado.

Nikoh - umshado womshado

Ukubhaliselwa komshado wombuso akuyona impoqo, kodwa ngaphandle kwesiko "nikokh" umshado weTajik awukwazi ukwenza.

Kulolu suku, emindenini yabasha, yonke imizi iphathwa nge-pilaf. Idili lomkhosi lihlala kuze kube kusihlwa, futhi ngalesi sikhathi umkhwenyana nomlobokazi balungiselela umshado - ngamunye endlini yakhe. Umakoti ugqoke izingubo zomshado zendabuko , futhi ulindele ukufika komkhwenyana. Endaweni ephawulekayo zonke izembatho zakhe nezindwangu ezikhethekile ziyaphuma: pepper obomvu ukuvikelwa emimoya emibi, isipuni sokuzalwa kwendodakazi yenkosikazi kanye nommese wokuzalwa kwendodanakho yendoda enesibindi.

Lapho umkhwenyana efika, umlobokazi uza kuye, ehaqwe izintombi, i-mullah ibizwa ukuba yenze umkhuba womshado. Ufunda emigqeni encane ekhethekile evela eKoran, ethandaza, ethatha amakhanda ayisikhombisa kumlobokazi, futhi umyeni uqinisekisa imvume yakhe emshadweni njalo. Emva kwalabo abasanda kushada baphuza amanzi emkhatsini owodwa, futhi manje sebebhekwa ngokomthetho njengendoda nomkayo. Umyeni ubophezelekile ukuvikela umndeni wakhe futhi awunikeze, futhi umfazi kufanele alalele umyeni kukho konke.

Idili lomshado

Umshado weTajik uqhubeka nomkhosi ohlala izinsuku ezintathu endlini yomakoti, kanye nezinye izinsuku ezintathu endlini yomkhwenyana. Izivakashi eziyizinkulungwane - lokhu kuyindawo evamile yeholidi elinjalo. Uma abantu abangu-200-300 bemenyiwe, umshado we-Tajik uthathwa njengesizotha kakhulu.

Amathebula kumele asethwe ngokudla ukuze kungabi nesikhala esingenalutho esisele. Ngisho noma izivakashi zingenakudla konke nezinto zokudla - akunandaba. AmaTajik asaba kakhulu ukulahlwa komakhelwane nabajwayele, ngakho-ke bazama ukukhombisa izivakashi ukuphana okukhulu nokunethezeka.

Isitsha esingokwesiko kunazo zonke, ngaphandle kokuthi akukho iholidi elidlulayo - liyi-pilaf. Kodwa bakhonza kuphela ekupheleni komkhosi, lapho izivakashi zizoya ekhaya.

Esikhundleni se-toastmaster i-byderhane - umuntu ohlonishwayo osekhulile. Kufanele akwazi ukubeka kahle futhi ngokusho ngomfanekiso ama-toasts, anikeze phansi kuzo zonke izihambeli, anikeze izimpawu zokuziphatha kwamageyimu omdanso nemidanso.

Ngosuku lwesithathu lomshado, kayderhan uthatha isembozo kumlobokazi-lokhu kusho ukuqalisa impilo entsha kuye. Emva kwalokho, leli holide liya endlini yendoda encane. Ngosuku lwesithupha lomshado, izihlobo zomakoti ziza endlini yomkhwenyana zihlale ubusuku lapho - ngaleyo ndlela ziphela umkhosi omude.

I-Honeymoon

Umshado we-Tajik, njenganoma yikuphi okunye, uphela ngo- honeymoon. Lihlala isikhathi eside kakhulu - izinsuku ezingamashumi amane. Kodwa omncane abaya emazweni angaphandle, kodwa sebenzisa le ndlu endlini yomfana osemusha, ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa nabazali bakhe. Kukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kusiza ukusindisa umndeni kusukela ekuxabaneni kokuqala nezinkinga.

Uma sibala isikhathi esiphelele sawo wonke amasiko omshado, bese kuthatha izinyanga ezimbili. Futhi uhlu lwezindleko zezezimali alubandakanyi nje kuphela ukuphatha okunomusa kwezivakashi eziningi, kodwa nokudluliswa kwe-kalym, izipho kumlobokazi, izingubo zokugqoka ezibizayo, ukuhlobisa indlu. Ngakho-ke, umshado weTajik ungaphezu kwesenzakalo esibi, isahlukaniso ngemva kwalokho kwenzeka kuphela ezindaweni ezizimele.