Ukuze ufunde at uziphumulele intombazane

Namuhla, izinkundla eziningi, ikakhulukazi abesifazane, ungakwazi ngokuvamile ukuthola isihloko ngalo mbuzo: "Kuyini manje imfashini ukufunda?". Uma sikhuluma iqiniso, umbuzo uwukuthi kancane eziyinqaba, ukuwuphendula nakanjani akulula. Into yokuqala ukuthi efika engqondweni yakho lapho inkulumo ethi "hip Fiction" - a Haruki Murakami, Paulo Coelho futhi Oksana Robski. Kungani? Mhlawumbe ngoba imisebenzi abalobi bokuqala ababili amanga ifilosofi ezithile zokuphila, futhi unike Robski amanoveli ubukhazikhazi imfashini manje. Intombazane ufunde ukuthi, kodwa ukuphila-ukuze aqinisekise indaba ngokudayisa ngomzimba, omunye owathola injabulo yakhe owesifazane (P. Coelho sika "Amaminithi 11"), noma ongaqondakali inoveli zefilosofi mayelana nendlela umphefumulo ihamba abantu imvu emzimbeni (H. Murakami "Ukuzingela izimvu ")?

Yiqiniso, imisebenzi balobi kukhona wokuthengisa kahle, futhi noma iyiphi intombazane obheka yena imfashini, umane nje uhlezi ubophekile ukubukisa erudition yakho, ukushaya phakathi kwezinye abalobi ozithandayo (uma ikhona) kanye lokhu okushiwo ngenhla.

Kodwa ingabe kunjalo ngempela kubaluleke kangaka, ukuthi kuyinto evamile empeleni lokho enikufundayo nenikuqonda akuyona imfashini?

Akunandaba ukuthi kwakungokomthetho kangakanani umsebenzi ofana ukuthini kuwe? Nokho, uma uye wadala iforamu eyayinesihloko esithi "Ncoma incwadi" ke mhlawumbe benithanda ngempela ukufunda okuthile alingeni uzimele bubuhle ezivamile.

Uma ungenalo singayinaki zabuna futhi ufuna ukuthola incwadi imizwa bangempela, sincoma ukhetha inoveli abavelele umbhali Ukraine Panas Mirny "uhambo". Ingabe bamangale? Ungafuna ubuqhathanisa ngayo kule noveli "imizuzu 11" ngoba futhi utshela indaba intombazane owaba isifebe. Nokho, umsebenzi kuyinto ebuhlungu ngaphezulu. Lena inketho kakhulu ukufunda intombazane kuyinto ebucayi kakhulu futhi ufuna ukukhala phezu incwadi bese ngiyabona ukuthi ukuphila kwakhe akukubi ngakho.

Libuye porydat engenzeka kwethi Tatyany De Rosnay "Isihluthulelo Sarah." Mhlawumbe abaningi kakade ulifunde. Uma kungenjalo - phawula. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokusho kwale ncwadi, ngo-2010, kwenziwa ibe ifilimu, "Igama lakhe nguSara," Kristin Scott Thomas e indima isihloko. Indaba usebenza ku ezimbili zamatshe isikhathi: izenzakalo ka-1942 kubonakala ngokusebenzisa amehlo Jewish ntombazanyana uSara izehlakalo kulolusuku, lapho intatheli, kubutsela impahla athikili yakhe, kungazelelwe iqala ukuthola isiphetho ingane. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi lezi zenzakalo ka-1942, ezichazwe encwadini wathatha indawo engokoqobo.

Futhi ukufunda intombazane ethanda inkolo eyayinaso? Mhlawumbe kuzoba nentshisekelo yomsebenzi Chaka Palanika (endleleni, kuyinto umbhali imfashini kakhulu) "Lullaby". Kuyini lokhu? Mhlawumbe mayelana nendlela ephelele ukubulala - kubulawe yegama noma ngisho. Futhi lokho kuyadingeka ukuba naye lo? Vele uthi ngokuzwakalayo (noma ngokwengqondo) kancane nursery nemvumelwano. Kodwa ingabe leyo nkondlo ngempela?

Ngakho hlola intombazane unesithakazelo ngempela izincwadi ezisezingeni eliphezulu? Kungaba izinto eziningi. Akunandaba, lencwadi imfashini noma cha. Okubaluleke kakhulu, lokho okutshelwa imizwelo ke liletha futhi afundiswe. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi kukhona into enjalo njengoba "ubudlelwane zomphakathi", sibonga ngalo ngisho indaba Okuqukethwe akuzwakali kakhulu bangaba ngobuciko izincwadi zanamuhla, futhi imicabango silly kanye incoherent nombhali - ifilosofi entsha bubuhle.