Ngendlela Engenabugovu, Enokuqonda - kunjani? Iyini imbangela yalolu elula, Uma unganakile, igama?

Ngendlela Engenabugovu, Enokuqonda - kunjani? Thina njalo Kusebentisa leligama silulumagama yayo, kodwa baningi ngisho nokuwabona ncazelo, okuyinto kufihlwe ngemuva lokhu elula ijwayelekile sonke kwethemu.

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Kufanele siqale sicabangele igama elithi "Ukukhathalela" njengoba eside. Leli khono ukuletha inzuzo kwabanye futhi ezinhle, ngaphandle kokulindela kubo ukubonga. Act ngokungenabugovu - enhle, nakuba ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuziphatha okunjalo buyafaneleka. Abantu benawo izimfanelo ezinjalo zokuziphatha, banomusa futhi evulekile. Kant wagomela ngokuthi isenzo esiwujuqu nesibonisa ukuzidela - kusho lutho, elinde ukuthola umklomelo ephendula, futhi ukwenza lwalutho. Ososayensi abaningi, eqinisweni, wahlanganyela esifundweni ukuziphatha okunjalo. Kukhokonke, kodwa-bafika esiphethweni jikelele ukuthi ukuntuleka wedwa kule ubudlelwane zokuziphatha phakathi kwabantu, kubenza babe luyingxenye utilitarian nokuthanda izinto ezibonakalayo.

Uthando - Ububi Obukhona?

Uthando lihlukile. Kungaba umthengi, nokuphathelene mutual. Kodwa kukhona nothando olungenabugovu. Kuyinto umuzwa ambiwa phansi amsulwa yangempela. Umuntu othanda ngokungabi nabugovu, eduze into simthande yakhe, ahlangabezane injabulo. Futhi akukho lutho wayengakudingi ngaphezulu. nothando olungenabugovu kungenziwa awakholelwa njengoba ngaphezulu "umuzwa egameni ethandekayo." Lena into emangalisayo. Ayikho ubugovu, okuyize, into esemqoka - ukuthi intandokazi wajabula, into esemqoka - ukuthandwa kahle. Yena ekhathaza mayelana othandekayo wakhe, futhi ihlale ikulungele ukusiza, ukuvikela, silondoloze. Kuyakuhlupha yini ehlangene nakho. Futhi ake akubona bonke ekusebenzelaneni kwabo ngokushelela, abantu ngokungenabugovu ahlupheke. Kungoba uyabathanda.

Ngo nabugovu has izincazelo eziningi ezahlukene. Konke uhlu lwabo - akunandaba mqondo, ngoba lonke iphuzu yangempela umusho owodwa. Ukuzibeka - lena ubuhle kunabo bonke abakhona. Akubona bonke abakwazi ukukhonza abanye, ngaphandle kokucela lutho. Lena abantu ngothando ngempela. Kuphela angakhombisa umphefumulo wabo, hhayi ubuzenzisi, ngaphandle isabelo kancane ukuzenzisa. Bambalwa abantu kudingeka ukuba sijabule nje ukuzwa izwi kothandekayo, ukumbona.

Lahlotshaniswa nokuba "kutihluphekisa"

umuntu esingenandaba - ungumuntu akalindele reciprocity. Laba bantu bayazi ukuthi ukubuya zizothola lutho, kodwa namanje uqhubeke ukwenza okuhle, ukusiza, ukwesekwa, uthando, ukuba umphefumulo okumsulwa futhi abaqotho. usuku okunjalo sifushane. Futhi kungenziwa ngokuthi kutidzela. Ezimbalwa uhlala okumsulwa umphefumulo wabantu - iningi wabonakaliswa siqu sabo "ukuzazisa." Ngesikhathi olungenabugovu efanayo futhi ungenayo bebodwa, akukho "Mina" kwezinye izinhlobo. Izenzo zabo kungaba uyibize ngokuthi okuhle, ngoba izenzo zabo - uyinto sublime, into kunzima ukufinyelela wonke umuntu. Asikwazi uyavuma - ambalwa ongaphika zabo inhlalakahle, bayakhohlwa imizwa siqu futhi nje khona ngenxa omunye. Kodwa ukuphila ngokungenabugovu - lena yinto lokho manje umbuzo.

Ukuthola inkululeko

Lokho kuthiweni ngenhla, kungase kubonakale kuyinto engavamile umuntu ovamile. Kubantu abaningi, lapho oqinile wokuthi ukuphila njengoba ongenabugovu bukhoma - esihogweni yangempela. Nokho, eqinisweni - bangabantu khulula. Ababona umthwalo wezimpahla ngobala nezifiso zobugovu. Umuntu akadingi lutho ngokwami, ngempela khulula. abantu Ngendlela Engenabugovu, Enokuqonda baphile lapha futhi manje, bajabulela sonke isikhathi futhi nje baphile ukuze kwakukuhle kwabanye. Indida, kodwa kuhle futhi kuba. Phela, njengoba besho, wonke umuntu - nezakhe. Futhi injabulo yabo injabulo yomunye.

Ngifuna ukusho ukuthi bambalwa kakhulu abantu babe umuntu esingenandaba ngenhloso. Akunakwenzeka lokho. Kungani? Kulula kabi. Ngenxa esingenandaba - kusho bangempela. Futhi kube yiqiniso - liyisipho.