Inkinga indima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kwebantfu: ubufakazi kusukela izincwadi. Indatshana enesihloko esithi of "Ukukhuluphala"

ungubani luqale ekuqaleni kuka ebuntwaneni. Kwakuphakathi nalesi sikhathi kubeka nezimiso zokuziphatha eziyisisekelo kuthiwa kufakwe kwezinkambiso yokuxhumana kanye izici zamasiko ezizosiza konke ukuphila kwakhe omdala. On indlela kwakheka uhlamvu komuntu eseyingane, kakhulu kuthonywa imvelo yayo. Imibono ngezindlela ukukhulumisana nabanye futhi isimo sengqondo nasekugugeni komuntu siqu "Mina" ukuma izingane, ukugxila abathandekayo babo bese ukopisha ukuziphatha komzali.

Lapho zikhula abadala ujabule

abadala Happy bakhulela emikhayeni bajabule. Ngoba kubalulekile ukuze ingane wazizwa injabulo ebuntwaneni, Ngithole uthando ngokwanele nokunakwa izihlobo zabo. Umuzwa wokulondeka, ukungabi wafuna, unokukhathazeka njalo omama nobaba kuthinte amakhono lolwazi ingane, ekusizeni ubuntu bakhe ukuthuthukisa ngokuvumelanayo. Inkinga indima ebuntwaneni ukuphila kwabantu kanye nethuba agumenti esivuna abanethonya elithile kwalesi sikhathi ngempumelelo empilweni omdala ingatholakala imisebenzi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezidumile: Carl Gustav Jung, Freud sasho, Lva Vygotskogo.

kutfutfuka ngekwemoya ekuqaleni kuka ebuntwaneni kuthinta ikhono lokubekezelela ukucindezeleka, umthelela omubi esikhathini esizayo, ekusizeni ukuze ufunde ukuthi ngokwanele ukuhlola nabantu abehlukene kanye bakwazi ukuxhumana nabo. Ngokusekelwe isipiliyoni sami siqu futhi umzali, izinyane uthola umqondo amafomu okuhle nokubi umbono yamanani umndeni. Sikhula, izingane zijabule iphenduke ukuphila okujabulisayo futhi bayaphumelela kwabantu kungathatha zibhekane nemiphumela yezenzo zazo.

Izinkinga abadala nge wakhula kanzima

Kwenzekani ezinganeni abaye wakhula kanzima? Uma umama nobaba kungukuthi wahlanganyela kule imfundo kanye nentuthuko yengane yakho, bamshaya indiva ngokwanele ukuba nomunye futhi njalo ingxabano, usukhulile endaweni enjalo Kumiswa imibono omdala uhlanekezelwe mayelana namanani umndeni. Bakubheka njengenjabulo ukuziphatha kwabo kanye kuphela kuyinsakavukela zemvelo. Ngenxa lomkhuba ngokwengqondo "esithathelwanayo imizwelo", uma abazali abazi ukuthi bakhetheni phakathi umndeni kanye nomsebenzi, futhi ekhaya njalo labacindezela kwemizwelo udangele, izingane "baba" isimo sabo futhi baqala ukuzizwa ngendlela efanayo.

Ngokuvamile izingane abaye banukubezwa izihlobo ezikhulayo, uqale "wabafundisa" izingane zabo ngendlela efanayo, engazi ngezinye izindlela. Ezinye izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ukholelwa ukuthi le ndlela yokuziphatha kubangelwa isifiso equlekile ukuba azidele endaweni we umqali, ukuze zisaba yisisulu abangakwazi ukuzilwela.

Njengoba ebuntwaneni nobunzima ziyabonakala ngokwesimo

Abantu ogama enganginaso kusukela ebuntwaneni akajabuli, ngokuvamile eziningi izinkinga ezingokwengqondo ukuthi nqanda them nga ukuphila ngokuphelele. Lezi zinkinga kubenze ukwenza izenzo okungalungile ukuthi ziyingozi ngokwabo kanye nabanye. Uma abazali awalwi ingane futhi bagxilisa isiqondiso sokuziphatha, omdala ngeke uhlelo okucacile amagugu. Akazange bazisola lapho senza "isenzo esibi" futhi ungatholi ukwaneliseka ngokwazi ukuthi injongo enhle.

Yiqiniso, "wakhula kanzima" - akuyona umusho. Akunjalo ngempela ingane bancishwa abazali ababonisa ngayo uthando olukhulu futhi ngizinaka, ikhula isigebengu. Kodwa abantu abanjalo kunzima kakhulu ukuqonda nezifiso zabo nezisusa, bavame siyibukele phansi ngokwabo futhi njalo bazizwa engajabule bangakufanelekeli ukuba nobuhlobo obuhle.

Incwadi njengendlela usizo ingane esikhathini esinzima

Ukungakholelwa siqu amafomu isikhalazo izici ezingajabulisi zokuya onjalo afana ngazo inkohliso, ukuhaha, ubuzenzisi. Izingane ezikhulela ngaphandle ukunakekelwa ngaso sonke, noma nomzali oyedwa kuphela kungenzeka abe nomhawu "izingane ezijabule" ezivela emikhayeni enabo bobabili. Abazi ukuthi ukuxhumana kanye neze abelethe ukwenza abangane.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ikhono benqoba ubunzima ungaba nethonya elihle ekuphileni esizayo ingane. Labo asetshenziselwa ngubani ukuze babhekane ngokuphumelelayo nobunzima, walivikela ngombono wakhe, wabafundisa yena ukwakha ubudlelwano, ngokuvamile iba umuntu omdala yimpumelelo. Siza izingane unqobe nezikhathi ezinzima, ukuqonda izindaba eziyinkimbinkimbi zokuziphatha kanye nezenzo zabanye abantu bayakwazi imisebenzi ebhaliwe.

Ingxoxo ngendima ebuntwaneni abasemakilasini izincwadi

Ukuziphatha incwadi izinhlamvu, imizwa ezihambisana nabo, kusinike ithuba uzizwe ngokwakho endaweni yelinye, ukuqonda izisusa nezenzo zabantu ezahlukene. Ukuzama ku zonke izinhlobo izindima, umntwana bajwayelane ezihlukahlukene izinhlelo zokuziphatha, kudala amanani ayo futhi ubuntu. Ethula nemizwa nemizwelo ezihambisana ngohlamvu oluthile, umzali kusiza ekukhuleni kwezingane zabo ngokomzwelo, iyifundisa kube benomusa,, izidingo zabanye.

Ukuze uxoxe inkinga ngendima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kwebantfu, agumenti esivuna ithonya Eminyakeni yokuqala on ukuthuthukisa ubuntu, izingane zisesikoleni abasemakilasini izincwadi. Lo magazini uvusiwe emisebenzini eminingi classical. Isihloko indzabambhalo "Indima ebuntwaneni ukuphila komuntu" itholakala ukuhlolwa. Ukuze izikolo eliphezulu abafundi kudingeka bahlanganise iphuzu zabo umbono inkinga futhi ukuba kufakazelwe, usebenzisa ulwazi lwabo, okwenzeka kuye uqobo, kanye namanye imisebenzi eminingana tetemibhalo.

Indima ebuntwaneni A. inoveli S. Pushkina "Eugene Onegin"

Ukuze ukuvezwa imfundo indaba ephathwayo njengendlela kumiswa umuntu kubalulekile ukuba banake A. inoveli S. Pushkina "Eugene Onegin". I protagonist - yesikhulu, eseyingane sizungezwe isiko kanye nokuphila yenhloko-dolobha. Personality Onegin engavamile, ngoba ayifuni ujabulele ukwaneliseka ngokwazi ukuthi ukuphila komphakathi, kodwana ngakhulela khona nezazi ahlukile. Lesi simo eziphikisa livela isiqeshana duel nge Lensky, okuholela umlingiswa oyinhloko ekulahlekelweni injongo ekuphileni.

Tatyana Larina, Heroine noveli A. S. Pushkina, kwadingeka yokukhuliswa ezahlukene kakhulu. On ubuntu bakhe wathonywa isiko Russian and amanoveli Western. Folk amasiko yena imbibed ngokusebenzisa imvelo, sibonga yezinganekwane akunika ukuthi uTanya kancane utshele umhlengikazi. Heroine wakhula adlula hlangana ubuhle Russian imvelo futhi abantu amasiko. Ithonya West ibonisa irhuluphelo imfundo Pushkin sika: Imfundo European ngamasiko kazwelonke Russian. Yingakho Tatiana imele izimiso eziqinile zokuziphatha futhi uhlamvu oqinile ukuthi iyahlule lonke amaqhawe "Eugene Onegin" inoveli.

Umbuzo ithonya imfundo uhlamvu enovelini L. N. Tolstogo "Impi Nokuthula"

Abafundi bafanele bagcugcutelwe ukuthatha njengesibonelo ngoba imisebenzi omunye wemisebenzi L. N. Tolstogo. Esikhathini inoveli "Impi Nokuthula" UPyotr Rostov, ngubani ngofuzo kubazali bakhe umusa nokuvuleka, libonisa engcono empini yakhe yokuqala kanye kuphela, ngakwesokudla ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe. Okunye Amaqhawe nendumezulu, uHelen Anatole Kuragino ongazange asazi uthando lwabazali futhi wakhulela emndenini ukuthi zenani ngenhla zonke imali, ikhule abantu abaziphethe kabi.

Goncharov inkinga ngendima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kwebantfu, agumenti. "Oblomov"

inoveli Umlobi Ivan Goncharov sika "Oblomov" kuqhakambisa inkinga ngendima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kobuntu. I protagonist usebenza Ilya Oblomov, akakwazi ukuzinakekela, njengoba ephakanyiswe "izimo hothouse". Akekho isinqumo sakhe, yena aliholeli ukuphela hhayi ngisho uzama ukuqala ukwenza okuthile, futhi nje okungukuthi ngengqondo, njengoba kuyoba kahle ekugcineni. Umngani wakhe - lisebenza futhi Stolz asebenzayo kusuka ebuntwaneni accustom abazali ukuba ukuzimela. Lokhu iqhawe uyazikhuza, bekhuthele futhi uyazi ukuthi yini afuna.

Okuvelayo zasebuntwaneni bakhe umkhiqizo B. Soloukhina "Okwesithathu ukuzingela»

Ekilasini uthisha izincwadi banganikeza ukuhlaziya ukudlula incwadi umbhali Soviet V Soloukhina "ukuzingela Okwesithathu" ukusiza abafundi baqonde inkinga ngendima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kobuntu. Izimpikiswano umbhalo Soloukhina ezihlobene hhayi kuphela ekwakhekeni ubuntu, kodwa futhi ithonya nakho esemncane ezizokwehlela abantu abadala, ke obophe nezwe layo. Yena ilubonisa ngokucacile iphuzu lakhe esiwe ku izingathekiso ezihlobene imvelo futhi imidwebo nokuphila yezimbongi Russian. Umbhali uveza ukuthi ngesisekelo ubuntu sibekwa esakhula izinkumbulo kanye nemigqondo njalo kubonakala esikhathini esizayo.

imfundo izikhulu ku "greenhorns" D. I. Fonvizina

I amahlaya abadumile D. I. Fonvizina "Elincane" naso sikhuluma nge inkinga indima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kobuntu. Ingxabano kanye kubonisa umbhali kubonisa ukuthi kungaba nethonya elinamandla ungubani umndeni wengane. I protagonist - Mitrofanushka, ogama lakhe baba vu yasendlini, ethatha izintambo ukuhaha, unya nezinye izinto ezimbi kunina. Wathola onesimo enze umsebenzi wobugqila komhlaba kanye izinga nokugada engumashiqela abazali babo, njengoba kubonakala ngayekwenzile futhi ayephatha ngayo abantu. Mitrofan amaphuzu image yokuncipha umphakathi ahlukile, okubangelwa esakhuliswa okungafanele.

Inkinga indima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kwebantfu: ubufakazi ezincwadini abalobi angaphandle

Charles Dickens, lapho abalingiswa abasemqoka abazizwa ngayo ngokuvamile abantu eyakhula kanzima, iphelele ukuze ubonise inkinga yethonya neminyaka yakhe yakudala kwi ukwakheka ubuntu. Esikhathini inoveli "UDavide Copperfield" ikakhulukazi ngokuphila kwakhe, umlobi sibonisa indoda ihlala okuhle, naphezu njalo ukuhlazeka, ubunzima nokungalungi ukuphila. Little uDavide njalo eza ukusiza abantu abavamile, amenze ukugcina ukholo nobuqotho babo. Umfana ngokwakhe bafunde ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokulungile nokungalungile, ukuhlola ngokwanele ngokwabo. It has ikhono ukubona izimfanelo ezinhle umuntu ngamunye.

Margaret Drabble inoveli "Omunye ehlobo" ebonisa ukuthi ebuntwaneni - hhayi nje inkathi okunomkhawulo ebudaleni obuthile kuphela, ihlobene kakhulu ngohlelo ukuvuthwa kwengqondo. Umuntu omdala izinqumo nezenzo zabo, uyiqonda kahle ukubaluleka kosizo mutual Ukuhlakanipha kwezwe kuye.

Indima ebuntwaneni: Endabeni journalism

Ngo-journalism kaningi kakhulu inkinga ngendima ebuntwaneni ekuphileni kobuntu. Izimpikiswano ngoba imisebenzi kulesi sihloko kungenziwa othathwe isihloko by Zamostyanova "Ukukhuluphala futhi sokuthi isiphetho Suvorov sika." Encwadini yakhe ethi, umlobi uthi ubuntu umlawuli kakhulu ukuthonywa izindaba umama ngabaholi abadumile lempi esidlule: Aleksandre Makedonskom futhi Aleksandre Nevskom. Indaba yakhe kwakulandelwa ehlaziya umzali ukuthi amandla abantu ekhanda, hhayi esandleni sakho. Kwaba ngemva kwalokhu izindaba ezibuhlungu njengomfana aqala ukwanda lukhuni yena ngoba efuna ukuba abe isosha.

isikhathi ebuntwaneni ibaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni futhi evumelanayo ubuntu. Kuyinto ngesisekelo i bezibona ezanele ngokwabo futhi amabutho abo emhlabeni wonke futhi esikhathini esizayo ukuphila okujabulisayo.