Lokho aphendule begcina? amathiphu

Ngokuvamile e unabangane, ezitolo, ezokuthutha zomphakathi noma umane kubantu emgwaqweni kungenziwa ucasulwa omunye umuntu. Abanye abantu nje uthanda bagomela ngokwaso ngale ndlela: baqala ukuba bangahloniphi ibangele ukuba impendulo eqondile. Abaningi ukuhlazeka kwakho - "enze-up", kuyisipho okungenakho ukungaqiniseki nokwesaba yokudla okuthiwa amandla eyayisekhanda lami. Futhi ngoluny'usuku akusebenzanga, intombazane waphonsa, emsebenzini - nanka futhi silwele konakalisa kwemizwa ubani omunye. Lokho aphendule begcina? Phela, ukushiya ngaphandle kokuthi vu - waphinda zisenza Nahal ukubathobisa buthaka.

Uma kabi noma ukuthukwa ke lokuqala konke okudingayo sokwehlisa umoya "donsa ngokwakho ndawonye", kanye okudambisa injabulo okungalindelekile okubangelwa esimweni esingajabulisi. Kunoma ikuphi akunakwenzeka ukuphendula luhlaza ukuze luhlaza - ningazifanisi uhlamvu ezimbi. Hlangana isidingo ngomoya ophansi futhi ngokuzethemba ngokumangalisayo, enye engase smile ngisho. Ukusho amazwi anjengokuthi, "Ngiyabona ukuthi abe usuku okungahambanga kahle? ! Ngiyasihawukela, "noma" Okuthile Angikhumbuli ukuthi sasibone, futhi abangabazi ungakhulumi. Usale kahle! "Nokunye, kuye ngokuthi isimo.

Lokho aphendule begcina ngu Izigelekeqe, owaliphonsa wena ucingo? Kulesi simo kubalulekile ukuhlala umholi bese uzama ukwenza izwi lakho kwaba sekugcineni. Ngakho, ngokwesibonelo, athi: "Wozani, nize lapha!" - ukumisa bese uthi, "Une into afuna ukuyicela kimina? Ngizilindile, hamba ucele. " Uma omunye eqenjini akhuphuke esebeké isandla sakhe ukubingelela abasolwa, indiva nje. Hlala enokuzethemba uyibuke. Yibuze: "Siyazi nomunye?" Akhuluma ibhoklolo cishe uyosho, "Aniboni yini Usangikhumbula?" Impendulo yakho: "Kufanele mina? Wena - sendawo udumo? Yilokho nje? Ngaya Wezindaba ngokugcwele! "

izimpendulo behlakaniphile ukuba ukuthukwa uqede lesi sigameko ezingemnandi, akusiwona umphumela onjalo kulindeleke wathukwa. Ungakwazi ngisho nje ukuhleka futhi uthi, "Ngiyabonga, ukuhleka," Uma ukuqeda ihlaya akusebenzi, udinga ngokucacile sibeke boor endaweni yakhe, ekuphenduleni ngenhlonipho nokuzola. Izimpendulo ukuhlukunyezwa kungenzeka njengoba ephansi ukhiye, ukuthi akusenzi umphumela kubo. Vele izaphula-mthetho zivame alindele ukuthi umuntu owoniwe elizowela "asempumalanga" ezingeni yabo, futhi kuphela ke bayizingcweti! Vele ungahambi at kubo ngezikhathi ezithile, uhlale namanje ezihlakaniphile. Ngo mpendulwano eziningi kakhulu futhi akudingeki ukungena - impendulo laconic londoloza usuka ukuxhumana okuqhubekayo nge engathandeki.

Lokho aphendule ukuthuka, noma nakakhulu, amazwi senziwa uma kuyiqiniso ukuthi ikheli lakho? Ungakwazi umane indiva noma uthi, "Ngiyabonga wasikisela!" Noma: "Qiniseka ukuthi ukulungiswa, ngiyabonga!" Yenza lokhu, ngisho noma ukuthola kunzima ukuvuma babekhuluma iphutha.

Uma ungenalo ngokushesha okugxile akazange uthole impendulo begcina, kodwa umane zinhlanga, khona-ke akufanele zizibeke icala ucabange ezinkethweni ukuthi kungashiwo. Le ndoda - hhayi irobhothi, futhi imizwa ngokuvamile sikunqobe sizathu, ngakho ungakhathazeki futhi bavele bakhohlwe. Ngokuzayo uqiniseka ukuthi ulahleke.