Lo mntwana zibulawa ukuqina. Okufanele ukwenze futhi ngubani ukuba uxhumane usizo?

"Indlela ukuletha ingane fuzz ft noh hujan?" - umbuzo mhlawumbe oluhlobene kakhulu namuhla, okuyinto ingatholakala omagazini abesifazane abaningi futhi izinkundla. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi le ndlela yokuziphatha kungumsebenti plus kanye lokususa. Isithunzi Yiqiniso, ukuthi ingane ifunda ngenkuthalo ukuhlola izwe: udlala, eveza imizwelo yabo, ufunde okuningi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kungaba inkinga engathí sina, ngoba abazali abafuni ukuhlala lapho kunokuthula nokuzola, futhi fuzz ft noh hujan kuyisimangaliso, futhi ngokuqinisekile ngeke sivumele ukuba uphumule. Yingakho omama abaningi abalibheki ukuziphatha yomntwana engokwemvelo. Esihlokweni namuhla yethu sizozama ukuthola ukuthi yini lesi sifo hyperactivity ezinganeni, kanye nendlela yokubhekana nazo ukulahlekelwa omncane.

Yimaphi amazwi lingachazwa lelizinyane? Okokuqala - kungcono kakhulu. He is esebenzayo, beshesha, ethakazelisayo, yonke into eziyibonayo. Nokho, lezi zimfanelo isiqala ukuhambisa kwalokho kuvunyelwe sekuba kuyinkinga enkulu. Abazali abaningi bayaqaphela ukuthi zabo ingane zibulawa ukuqina. Okufanele ukwenze nabo kulezi zimo?

Okokuqala kunconywa ukufunda ukuhlukanisa hyperactivity kusukela kumsebenzi elula. manje omama abaningi abakhalaza ngokuthi izingane zabo nje ngoba okuthiwa abe umsindo kakhulu noma kakhulu uyakuthanda imidlalo ongaphandle. Yiqiniso, kulula ukubhala off bonke ku hyperactivity, ukuze bathethelele uqobo in lokuthi into ongayenza nengane naughty. Nokho, kulesi simo, kuba kuphela encane lisebenza abangakwazi ubizwe zibulawa ukuqina. Kulokhu, udinga kuphela ukufunda ukulawula kanye lokukunika emandla endaweni efanele.

Manje ake sixoxe izimo lapho kungenzeka ngempela bayasho Eqinisweni: ingane zibulawa ukuqina. Yini okumelwe ukwenze kanye nendlela ukukhulisa ke? Ukungakwazi ukugxilisa hyperactivity sifo, noma-ADHD elifushane - kuyisifo, futhi kuba impela sina ngomqondo wokuthi ukubhekana nakho, ngezinye izikhathi, cishe akunakwenzeka. Ngokuvamile ine-ADHD izingane uhlushwa zokukhosela ukuthi kusukela ekuzalweni awazi ukuthi abazali abanjalo uchakide. Izimo zethu zihluke kakhulu ngokwemvelo, zikhula ezimweni ezahlukene, ngokulandelana, kulo lonke ucwaningo ngokuzimela. Ukubonakaliswa hyperactivity - lena eyodwa nje zezimpawu zokuthi asathuthukayo isifo. ingane enjalo Kulula ukuqaphela - akabe ukuzola okwesikhathi sesibili. Wayehlale shí izinto, njalo ngubhongoza. Ngiphakathi izinsongo noma okhala uwubeke endaweni akunakwenzeka (njengoba kuqhathaniswa ingane evamile zamisa). Kwesinye isikhathi abantwana nakuqaphela ukuthi beziphatha kakhulu ngenkuthalo, ngoba ngabo kuwumbandela unomphela. Kuyinto kulezi zimo, singakwazi kakade sithi ingane zibulawa ukuqina. Okufanele ukwenze nendlela yokubhekana nalesi sifo?

Njengoba kulindelekile, laba izingane zidinga ukwesekwa kanye ukunakekelwa okukhethekile. Funda ukulalela umntanakho, kodwa futhi lamukele izimfuno zabo. Ngenxa ADHD iyisifo, udinga ukuba nengane njengobumba oluthambile ngangokunokwenzeka. Ayikho Screams, isheshe ithukuthele - izolimaza kuphela. Funda indlela ukugqugquzela encane eziphatha kahle, futhi kube sezingeni basola abampofu.

Esikhathini isimo, uma yakho ingane fuzz ft noh hujan, yini okufanele uyenze, ngokushesha wezifo zengqondo. Bheka onguchwepheshe mayelana amathuba ukwelapha lesi sifo. It iphathwa - nje kudingeka akwazi.