Self-kulinywe, Psychology
Kuyini umkhuba? imikhuba Yabantu, imikhuba emibi kwezingane
Uyini umkhuba? Lokhu izwi livela IsiZulu «umkhuba». Enguqulweni kusho uhlobo othomathikhi owawukhona ukuziphatha okuthile.
Kuyini umkhuba empeleni yayo? Lolu hlobo Uhlelo, okuyinto linamathele abantu futhi isebenza on ezingeni esesimweni sokungaphili ngokuphelele. Isaga esithile sithi ukuthi lo mkhuba yizenzo. Futhi kukhona incazelo. Ake ucabange ngako, ngoba inombolo obuqand izenzo ezenziwe nathi ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ngamanye amazwi, aphume umkhuba. Omunye futhi isenzo esifanayo lapho umuntu ephinda nsuku zonke, ukuze kugayeke lezo zinto futhi angene ukulawula enganakile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ukwazi singaphezu kwamandla akhe ikhishwe.
Izejwayezi ezimbi. ngezigaba
Imikhuba abantu zihlukaniswe izinhlobo ezithile. Lezi kungaba professional kanye ezifuywayo, nomphakathi kanye ngabanye, okwenzeka kancane kancane noma kweso. Esikhathini sphere ezingokwengqondo, futhi, ine ukurhunyezwa yayo umqondo. Lapha imikhuba zihlukaniswe ezingokomzwelo nezingokomzimba futhi kokuziphatha.
Incazelo emfushane
Isibonelo umkhuba professional zingakhiqiza isenzo umakhenikha, nsuku zonke ukusula umshini wakho ngemva komsebenzi. Esikhathini sphere basekhaya ukugeza izandla ngaphambi kokudla. imikhuba Social - isakhiwo esiqondile kwezenhlalo, okuyinto yamukelwa umphakathi unikezwa. Nokho, ziyisici inkambiso kwamasiko. imikhuba ngamunye, wongokokuvela umuntu unjani ukukhonza inqolobane oluthize nomphakathi. isigaba yabo izoshintsha uma kwenzeka ukuthi kuzobonwa ngumhlaba umphakathi futhi sikhulu kakhulu isidingo ke. Ngokwesibonelo, acumen ibhizinisi futhi eyenza ezikhathini zangaphambili Bajeziselwa. Okwamanje, sesibe kakhulu ahlonishwe ngokungena ku isigaba Ya yezenhlalakahle Izibonelo yavama. Ngakho, umuntu mathupha kubhekwa umuntu acebile emphakathini.
Njengomthetho, imikhuba avele kwenkathi ethile. Nokho, i-izenzo ezihlukahlukene equlekile akunakubangelwa izimo ezihlukahlukene ezivukayo ngokushesha noma ukusabela.
Kuyini umkhuba ngokomzimba? Lokhu, isibonelo, isifiso ukuluma zezinkozi nezinzipho zakhe noma iminwe ziwe. Isibonelo izenzo ngokomzwelo othomathikhi kungenzeka izingcingo ensizweni, yize ukwazi usitshela ukuthi ukwenza lokhu akufanele kube. Hamba esikoleni noma ukusebenza umzila efanayo kubhekwa umkhuba kokuziphatha.
I ukubaluleka kokuphila komuntu
Ukuze namuhla libhekene isigqi bahlanya futhi lingabuyela engapheli imicimbi. Ukuze ukuzivumelanisa umuntu wanamuhla nanini nyuka Dynamics zokuphila kwansuku zonke, kudingeka umkhuba. Kuphela abantu lazy abazange bazame ngandlela-thile ukuphatha izenzo zabo ezenzakalelayo. Man biosotsialen. Futhi lokho amakhono kanye imikhuba ayakha, kangakanani, kuthonywa kakhulu ingxenye emphakathini. Uma kukhona isidingo avumelane nendawo ezikuyo, bese engqondweni uzothola indlela yokukwenza. Ngakho, kuba umkhuba omusha. Ngamanye amazwi, izimo ezibangele ebizela othile imigomo ethile yokuziphatha futhi baphoqwa ukuba ukukhiqiza amakhono othomathikhi.
Uyini umkhuba umuntfu lakhetsa kuphila ngato? Lena esinye sezici ezibaluleke kunazo zonke ebuntwini bakhe. Futhi kukhona incazelo. Out of umkhuba kukhulisa ubunjalo, okuyinto yena, kuthinta isiphetho. izenzo okuzenzakalelayo ukuthi yenziwa umuntu kuzinga enganakile, kungaba kokubili abangane bakhe futhi izitha. Yingakho imikhuba yakho wonke umuntu kufanele sisilandele eduze kakhulu. Kubi, ngeshwa, unamathele ngokwabo. Okuhle zivele kuphela ngaphansi kwezimo ezithile.
ukulungisa
Ngokusho odokotela bengqondo, ukuvela imikhuba isifika ngosuku lwamashumi amabili nanye. Esinye sezimo kumiswa yayo.It ungumbonisi ukuphinda nsuku zonke zemisebenzi ethile. Uma unqume ukusebenza nganoma umkhuba ewusizo, futhi ngemva kwamasonto amathathu wayengabatholi sekuvele, akufanele sidangale. Impumelelo kuyofika imizamo ephindaphindiwe.
nemibandela ukwakheka
Ukuze indoda umkhuba, okokuqala kudingeka unakwe, "hook", nangemva, futhi ukuvusa isithakazelo kuye. Lokhu kudala ithemba kanye nomuzwa engakwenza. Kubalulekile nokukhumbula ukuthi umsebenzi kubhekwa unpromising kokulunyulwa abantu ezintweni eziluthayo. Inselela Kulokhu kumele ilungiselelwe ngendlela ehlukile. Akufanele kube nokulwa amakhono ezimbi, nokuthuthukisa amasha, ewusizo.
Ukwakhiwa yezenzo othomathikhi ezinganeni
injabulo enkulu kuwo wonke umndeni iyona ukuzalwa kwengane. Ukuze ngamunye abazali isimangaliso kancane - eyingqayizivele kakhulu futhi emangalisayo. Nokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho ingane ikhula, igcina ithuthukisa imikhuba yakhe. Nokho, ezinye zazo akuzona okuhle kakhulu. imikhuba Izingane ezivame kakhulu omubi - ke obkusyvaniya ngezipikili isithupha oncelayo, izinwele ukusonta noma edonsa, ngitsatse impumulo yakho.
izimbangela
Kungase kuphakame Izejwayezi ezimbi ezinganeni kusukela equlekile isifiso kid ubani sokulingisa. Yingakho abantu eduze ingane kufanele ziqashwe ngezenzo zabo. It akukuniki yisiphi isizathu ukukopisha eyintandokazi ingane nail iluma noma ukukha impumulo yakho omdala.
Izindlela emzabalazweni
Kuthiwa ekwenqabeleni ezinye ingane isenzo, ukuze zithole imiphumela emihle akunakwenzeka. Ngeke kusize lapha, nesijeziso. Ukususa imikhuba emibi akuwona neze umsebenzi olula. Abazali kufanele babe nesineke, ukunikeza ubufakazi obugculisayo wengane, ukuthi ngaphansi izinzipho zakho eziningi amagciwane inhlabathi izikhathi zingena emlonyeni wakhe, uma eluma zezinkozi nezinzipho zakhe. Izingane ezincane kungaba usuxoxa neminwe-izingane zandawonye. Le ntombazane kuwufanele ukuphakamisa ukuthi izandla abesifazane kufanele uzilungise futhi enhle. Kwenza akukho mqondo okufanele asolwe le abancela ingane umunwe. Kufanele ukudweba imidlalo ezithakazelisayo futhi imisebenzi. Imvuthu ungavele enganga.
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