Entsheni uhola imisebenzi lapho kukhona ekutfutfukisweni ngalokuphelele kwemuntfu kulowo

Ngokusho odokotela bengqondo, inkathi yokuthomba imisebenzi ehamba phambili okuhloswe ngaso inkositini amakhono ukuxhumana ne ofunda kanye nabantu abadala. Ukuxhumana ingane ifunda ukuthi baziphathe umphakathi. Yena amakhosi izimiso eziyisisekelo zokuziphatha owamukelwa. Futhi uzuzani isipiliyoni zokuxhumana ukungalingani (ukuxhumana abadala).

ubudlelwano zinhlobo

Peer ubudlelwano ochwepheshe cabanga kakhulu wusizo psyche unformed ngaphezulu intsha. Joyina ndawonye emaqenjini, ngaphakathi ukuxhumana kungaphansi emiyalweni ethile, intsha ziwusizo kakhulu ngaphezu inkhulumomphendvulwano namanxusa lesizukulwane esidala.

Abafundi besikole samabanga aphakeme akulungele ukwamukela ezimbili kuphela ubudlelwane: lokuqala friendly bese - friendly. Abafundi besikole samabanga aphakeme bafundiswa ukuthi umsebenzi okuholela yobusha ukukulungiselela ukuphila omdala, ukuthola izinhlobo ezintsha ubudlelwano:

• zangaphandle - imodeli othintana ibhizinisi;

• friendly - ukuvumela ukwabelana ulwazi kanye namakhono;

• friendly - luvula kungenzeka ukuxazulula izinkinga ezingokomzwelo futhi siqu.

Sigaba sesibili usakhula kuyinto yokuxhumana ngqo ontanga nokuningi efana umsebenzi ezizimele. Abafundi besikole samabanga aphakeme akumele ugcinwe ekhaya, ukudansela isiginci sakhe ukuba abangane, bafuna lokuzimbandakanya empilweni collective kunzima kakhulu ukuba nezinkinga, wadala e inqubo yokuxhumana. Ukuze zidonse ukunaka kwanoma ontanga, ezinye intsha aselungele ngaphezulu, kuhlanganise non-ukuhambisana kwezinkambiso olwamukelwa yokuziphatha.

Izindawo yentuthuko

Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, ngaphambi kokuphendula lo mbuzo: "Uyini umsebenzi ehola entsheni", banake isitha sakho ngokuba khona ezindaweni eziyisithupha eziyinhloko ezakha ukuthuthukiswa yimuphi umuntu:

• ngokomzimba (ushintsho isayizi, simo futhi ubudoda zemizimba, kanye nokuthuthukiswa ngefanelo nangokuvumelana);

• ngokocansi (kancane kancane ukwakheka nocansi);

• Intellectual (zokufunda ulimi, ukuthuthukisa ikhono lokucabanga, isizathu, basombulule tinkinga kanye imiqondo);

• nomphakathi (yokufuna amakhono nolwazi okudingeka ukuxhumana nabantu);

• ngokomzwelo (imizwa kwetinhlavu kanye ukusabela kumcimbi);

• zokuziphatha (zaqondakala okuhle nokubi futhi izinguquko ezihambisana ekuziphatheni).

Ehola umsebenzi e yobusha ukukulungiselela mncintiswano

Ubuhlobo esikoleni umfundi nabangani bakhe esekelwe ikhodi ngeziphansi friendly okusekelwe nokuhlonipha abanye inhlonipho, ukuthembeka, ukulingana, ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka nokuzimisela ukophula. Ubugovu, ukuhaha, nokuzidla, futhi ukwephulwa ezibophweni kulonyaka sebekubeke uyakulahlwa. Intsha ababonisa lezi zimfanelo, boycotting futhi ngokwenqaba ukwamukela inkampani.

Abafundi besikole samabanga aphakeme, ihlelwe yaba ngamaqembu, badinga umholi, futhi lapho ibonakala, ngazo zonke izindlela uzama ukuheha ukunaka kwakhe futhi kakhulu ubungane bakhe nalo muntu. Intsha nesithakazelo abangane abanjalo, ukuze okungenzeka waba uma hhayi umholi ke okungenani umlingani egcwele.

izinguquko okulandelanayo ezingokomzimba nezingokwengqondo ukuthi ayisibonelo salezi engu ebizwe usakhula zabuna (igama elithi "umfana" inezincazelo eziningi: "nceku", "inceku" "akanawo elungile ongayisho," wenzeka kanjani kunqunywa isimo nezenhlalakahle ingane), ukuqala ngo 10-11 iminyaka futhi aphela 15-19.

isici esiphawuleka

The main lolwehlukanisa usakhula - ngokuphazima kweso lapho ukuthuthukiswa nokuguqulwa bokuphila, ngokumelene oludlula yobudala crisis. Ukushintsha ubude nesisindo kuhambisana izinguquko ngezabelo umzimba. Okokuqala, ukuze ubukhulu oyifunayo ikhula kwekhanda, bese - ezandleni nasezinyaweni, futhi ngemva kwabo - esitho. Nengane esifubeni kwakhiwa okungenani, ngokwanda lwamathambo kakhulu ngaphambi ukuthuthukiswa imisipha. Uma ucabangela nje ngenhla, e inkathi yokuthomba umsebenzi ohamba phambili ukuthi Kukhulisa umuzwa wokuzihlonipha kwenze ukwamukelwa "njengoba wena", ezifana umsebenzi nokuzindla.

Phakathi nalesi sikhathi ezinye izingane, ube nomuzwa wokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, baggy, kunemibhalo eyayihunyushwe kabi futhi bahlushwe blood pressure iyehla iyenyuka, zithambekele ukushintshashintsha kwemizwelo, amehlo ukhathele ngokushesha. Ukungazinzi Ngokomzwelo luphakanyiswa excitation ngokobulili ohambisana ngokobulili nokuvuthwa inqubo.

ISolidarity, ukuzethemba kanye kwengqondo nenhlalakahle, okuyizinto ezidingekayo ukuze umuntu ingane ngalesi isikhathi ekuphileni kwakhe, yena "ikhula" ngezithukuthuku contact ngokomzwelo nontanga yabo.

Entsheni, imisebenzi ehamba phambili esihloselwe "gqwa" oxhumana friendly

Isimo eyisisekelo ubungani umphakathi izintshisekelo. Uma ingane ayinakekele ngesisa ubungane othile, kube kuhle ekuqaleni ayengathandi, kamuva futhi kamuva wathwalwa yizingelosi ibhizinisi, okuyinto ijabulela nobudala obufanayo. Ngakho-ke, inkathi yokuthomba imisebenzi ehamba phambili elihlobene ne ekutholeni amakghono ukuxoxa futhi sihlaziye inkambo izenzakalo ezenzeka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, esikoleni nasemphakathini.

Ekupheleni kwalesi yobudala, ngaphandle kokukhetha, abafundi siyidinga impela a olubucayi futhi uyasiqonda nomngane oseduze owazi indlela ukugcina izimfihlo. Ukuthola ezibaluleke kakhulu kwesikhathi odokotela bengqondo ngabanye kubhekwa ukuthuthukiswa zokuziphatha wezinyathelo ezivamile.

Ezemfundo, nakuba, futhi alupheli njengento okufanele ize kuqala, ke zivame ukufiphala ku ngemuva, futhi amamaki esikoleni ungameli emehlweni kwentombazane noma iliphi inani. I luba timu ukuthembeka emehlweni basekilasini lakhe. Zonke fun senzeka futhi esiye saxoxa yini ekilasini, futhi ngesikhathi sekhefu, futhi manje intsha unesithakazelo umphakathi kanye nezinye (ezemidlalo, ubuciko) imisebenzi, okuvumela ukuba luthathe indawo elithile emphakathini.