Kanjani ukuchazela ingane, kuphi izingane zivela? Nge lo mbuzo ngesinye okudingeka sibhekane nazo zonke kunoma iziphi abazali. Abantu abaningi kulesi simo elahleka, awazi ukuthi baziphathe kanjani.
Umthetho wokuqala ukuthi kufanele uqonde: noma kunjalo, ungalilahli izinyane lembuzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umuntu mdala Daze yakho wagcwalisa ngesikhathi lapho umbuzo onjalo ezishelelayo abanesifiso kuye - emithathu, emihlanu noma eyishumi. Noma yimuphi nenkohliso kwembulwe ngokushesha noma kamuva, futhi uma unquma akhohlise ingane, wabe ngeke bakwazi bakwethembe, uzofuna izimpendulo ohlangothini. Futhi sonke siyazi ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthini. Ngakho-ke kungcono azilungiselele, kanjani ingane esikhungweni enganeni, lapho izingane zivela, kusengaphambili.
Abaningi sebeqala udonse ku izifanekiso ejwayelekile. Kodwa Kufanele kwaziwe kodwa ukuthi iklabishi, storks ngisho esitolo - hhayi izincazelo ezinhle kakhulu. Ngisho nengane encane iyakwazi ukuhlaziya. Uyashesha kakhulu, uyobe acabange ukuthi kungani neze ozalwa ne iklabishi emakethe noma esitolo emashalofini yami wabona akazange abazale abanye abantwana. Kubalulekile ukuba acabangele engu wengane - ngesikhathi ezikhathi ezinobude obungalingani konke ukuphila kwakhe wayengenazo bezibona ezahlukene zolwazi. Ngakho-ke, impendulo yakho kufanele athembeke futhi kuqondile ngaye.
3-4 iminyaka
Ngalesi ubudala, kungcono ukuchaza izinto ezilukhuni ngendlela inganekwane. Ngakho ukuthathelwa umshuwalense ngokwakho kusuka imibuzo eyengeziwe okubabayo, futhi umntwana kuyoba ezithakazelisayo ukuze ufunde konke. Ngokwesibonelo, singase sithi umama nobaba bethandana kakhulu futhi wathi engelosini ohlala esibhakabhakeni, ngakho bonke abamamukelayo wabapha amandla ingane. Wasizwa isicelo wabo futhi kwabanika unina imbewu magic. Umama ngiwudla, e kwesisu nenzalo yakhe baqala ukukhula, futhi wabe esephendukela indodakazi yami noma indodana. Uma kuba njalo nengane eside elindelwe izalwa. Ungesabi of umbuzo "lapho?". Ingane yakho zisencane enjalo ithenda abakwazi ukucabanga ukuthi umuntu engase ilingane omunye umuntu wonke, kulapho angakwazi phumani lapho. Ngakho-ke, singaba kokumane sithi izingane zizalwa ngokusebenzisa inkaba. Futhi uma kwadingeka section cesarean, ngisho amaphupho akudingekile: ungavele bathi isisu esibhedlela usike futhi wadonsa ingane ezweni. Khumbula ukuthi kulonyaka konke ngoba umntwana abstract, kanye licace kuyoba indaba yakho, ngcono.
iminyaka 7-10
Kanjani ukuchazela ingane, baphi izingane eminyakeni yokuqala esikoleni? Kuleli zwe lanamuhla ngaleso yobudala inganekwane ngezingelosi, bambalwa abakholelwayo. TV, i-Internet, futhi ngokusobala ezinye izingane sivela esitaladini - ungaqiniseka ukuthi nge Amathuba 90% umntanakho wayevele okungenani into ukwazi ngakho isihloko ezithakazelisayo njalo. Akunakusetshenziswa ungabonisi, zizwe ukhululekile ukuxoxa naye - niyokwenza isithakazelo ngaphezulu kuze kube manje ngokuningiliziwe ezingadingekile. Ezitolo ungathola lenqwaba izincwadi zezingane enikelwe nje ukuthi, otkuda berutsya deti. Wena ungakwazi ukuchaza umehluko oyinhloko phakathi anatomy abafana namantombazana. Qiniseka wengeze ukuthi nezitho zangasese abantu baphila amaseli akhethekile - isidoda, futhi abesifazane - iqanda. Uma they hlangabeza, brand impilo entsha. Futhi yilokho nje imininingwane mzuzu bebonana engashiywa.
iminyaka 11-12
Ngalesi ubudala, izingane zivama ukugwema ukuthintana nabazali babo ngezihloko obuseduze. Nokho, uma ingxoxo ebalulekile kwakwenzeka, zama ukutshela ke sengathi, ngaphandle embellishment, futhi ezama ukuba ubalekele isihloko. Kuleli qophelo, kubalulekile ukuze abonise ukwazi wengane, engena ezindlini ngezindlu usakhula, ukuthi ubuhlobo bobulili kufanele kwenzeke kuphela uthando. Umsebenti wakho - hhayi kuphela ukuthi ngichaze ukuthi ingane, kuphi izingane zivela, kodwa futhi ukutshela ukuthi zingozi zini ezazimlindele kungenzeka ukujoyina "omdala" ukuphila.