Isithembu - kuyini?

Esikhathini sethu, abantu abaningi nje "ukwenza" agumenti, ikakhulukazi pseudoscientific, ngobuhlobo phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane. It ngokuvamile itholakala ukuxoxa monogamous noma abathathe isithembu. Ukuphishekela konke lokhu kwenza zimbalwa kakhulu abantu abangakwazi ukuphendula umbuzo: "isithembu - kuyini?" Masizame ezisikhanyisela ngale sobuntu bobulili phakathi kwabantu.

Isithembu - kuyini? Empeleni, akunakwenzeka ukuba ucabangele le eside wodwa wahlukanisiwe antipode yayo - nomfazi oyedwa. Umama Imvelo plastic infinity. Lokhu kuqinisekisa wokusinda kwalo ngendlela izimo ezenziwe umuntu yokufakelwa. Odokotela bengqondo phikisana (futhi kungenzeka ukubona lokhu uwedwa isipiliyoni sabo kwenta) ukuthi ngisho kakhulu ehloniphekayo ezibonakala imikhaya ungathola imininingwane mayelana kuba lonke eziyishumi amanoveli nge sokukhaphela, acebe izingobe nokunye. Njengokulindelekile, bonke lokhu indiva noma ukubeka "ekukhanyeni kosuku."

Isithembu - okungukuthi ngokuya imizwelo engokwemvelo? Ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane kukhona isilwane enesithembu monogamous ngesikhathi esifanayo e ubulili babo zemvelo. Lapho omunye noma nomunye umuntu wesilisa uyaqonda ukuthi ekahle besifazane ukuze uqhubeke umndeni wakhe, wayengeke ayeke yakhe, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngamanye uhlobo oluthile nabesifazane. Lapha-ke kuboniswa kuphela monogamous. Kodwa uma fana esilisa uyaqonda ukuthi insikazi impela nje asihambisani izidingo zakhe futhi ukuzala (noma cha kufanelekile ngokugcwele), uqala ukufuna ezinye contender. Lona impendulo yombuzo othi: "? Isithembu - kuyini"

Futhi kuthiwani ubulili besifazane? Isithembu - ukuthi besifazane? Ngicabanga bahluke zonke? Akunjalo neze. Amadoda esithenjini ngezinga elingekho ngaphezu kuka wobulili bubuhle. Okungokwemvelo, isilwane imvelo wesifazane, wamnika Mother Nature, ngendlela efanayo futhi enesithembu monogamous kanyekanye.

Uma insikazi uzohlangana wakhe kuhle uyakufanelekela ukuba ezihlukahlukene izilungiselelo-osemenitelya wesilisa, bese-ke sizogxila sonke isikhathi sabo kuso. Lokhu okubonakalisa nomfazi oyedwa besifazane. Kodwa uma ezizwa (ezingeni imizwelo engokwemvelo), iduna akazange ngisho kancane kufanelekile, owesifazane ngokushesha uqala ukubheka abantu. Futhi lapha sibona ngqo esithenjini efanayo, kanye nabesilisa.

Ngakho impendulo yombuzo othi: "Poligamnost- kuyini lokho?" - kulula ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuyinto buyingxenye engokwemvelo nenhle yokuphila kwezocansi, kwengqondo imizwelo engokwemvelo of phi ntu, kanye nenkosikazi eyodwa. Kodwa kungani ingabe akukhanyi-ke ukuba umuntu emgwaqweni? Instinct has a amandla omkhulu phezu kwendoda, kodwa sokuboshwa ukungazi yakhe ayikuvumeli lokhu uhulumeni ukuqonda. Kulokhu osekushiwo kungaba esiphethweni kusobala ukuthi izindaba ukuthi amadoda esithenjini uya badlulela ngalé kwemingcele futhi imingcele, kukhona nehaba kakhulu futhi ebhalwe abesifazane ngubani awuboni amaphutha abo noma umane kuwukubonakaliswa siqu esithenjini yawo engokwemvelo. Uma ukuhlukanisa kusukela ubuhlobo phakathi ababuthakathaka futhi eqinile phansi "romance" ukuthi konke kugxile isazela of ukuzala. Isisiza kakhulu umsebenzi ukuqonda abesilisa nabesifazane.