Inkinga engu-7 nezingane. ukugeleza Izici

Ngokuvamile cishe obumbi oneminyaka engu-7 nezingane ungaphindaphindi kakhulu, ngoba ukugeleza yayo incane evelele kuka eminyakeni emithathu noma entsheni. Eqinisweni, kuvela ukuthi akukho abalulekile kancane futhi abalulekile, ngoba ushintsho umdlalo ehola umsebenzi kuza ukuqeqeshwa.

Ushintsho E-ingane

izwe ahlukahlukene futhi ocebile kwangaphakathi kuba inkathi eneminyaka eyisikhombisa. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, imizwa wengane Ungasavele ahlaziye kanye ukuzivumelanisa icala ethize. Kancane kancane ubalekela impulsiveness iletha. Zonke kangcono uma ungakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe. ingane iminyaka 6-7 kwengqondo ithakazelisa kakhulu, ngoba ithoyizi akabange zikhanga kangaka, futhi iyahola umsebenzi engqondweni yethu. Nokho, ngalesi sikhathi-ke isifika le nokuvuthwa yokugcina iyizingxenye palsy. Lokhu kuholela izinguquko imicabango, imizwa, ngisho inkulumo. Uma kokuqala kwaba ukuthi, kuze kube muva nje, umzwelo, bese isenzo ke manje intelligence kukhona kulesi simiso. Eminyakeni eyisikhombisa, bafundzi bacala ngokugcwele futhi integrally ukwamukela impumelelo kanye ukuhlulwa, sithole ukuzethemba. Uma preschooler akakwazi ukunaka eziningi ukwehluleka yalokho omuhle kuyoba kakhulu kuye, isitshudeni ingaba njengoba ibhaxa bazibheke n eudachnikom.

Izimpawu obumbi

Okokuqala, izinguquko zihlobene ngokuqondile ukuziphatha kwengane. Ekuqaleni kungase kubonakale sengathi ingane ekhulele iqala ukuba ezingezwakali, frills, obuhlinayo, clowning emhlabeni. Kungazelelwe, ngaphandle kwesizathu, ingane bangaba abangalawuleki. Kanye nokwenqatshwa uqale kubangele ngisho mikhuba yansuku zonke, ezifana ukuxubha amazinyo akho noma ukuhlanza amathoyizi. ejwayelekileyo lwenziwa nge nehlazo, ingane iba nenkani. Into kuphela ongayenza usizo lokunqoba obumbi iminyaka 7 ezinganeni ukubekezela komzali. Nokho, ingane iqala bazizwa esekhulile, ngakho zama iqhaza izingxoxo omdala, ezama ukudonsa amehlo ngakulahla nganoma iyiphi indlela. Lokhu kubonakala ikakhulu lapho sisebenzelana abasebasha abazalwane / nodade: ngibenze Amazwana abathethise abazali. I elikhulu ukukhuthaza uzibuse wengane. Kufanele ulalele umbono wayo nendaba okuxoxwa ngayo, ngisho ukuletha engxoxweni yomkhaya.

School, sawubona!

Ukuqala impilo yasesikoleni kuholela ingane omdala. Iqhaza emisha yomphakathi, enye imodi kosuku, othisha - konke lokhu kuholela ekutheni ukuthi nenhlekelele oneminyaka engu-7, izingane zingase zithathe izici libukhali. Ngesikhathi esifanayo baqala bazibeka ukuba sezingeni leliphakeme kunaleyo doshkolyata, abafowabo nodadewabo abancane. Amakilasi izingane eminyakeni 6-7, isimo phambili kwezenhlalo yokuthi kukhona uhlobo igebe elikhona phakathi kwalokho sizalwa nawo omdala, futhi yini kungafiseleka futhi kungenzeka isikhathi eneminyaka eyisikhombisa. Ngalesi sikhathi, udinga ukusiza ingane yakho faka esikoleni emhlabeni ukwenza le nqubo ngokucace nakakhulu. Uma kunezinkinga ezenzeka esikhathini besebancane ke njengoba umsebenzi ukuqeqeshwa ungakwazi ukuhlela ukuvakashela amakilabhu, ekusizeni ehlukahlukene. Vumela ingane yakho ukukusiza ukwenza lutho endlini, banakekele nezilwane. Kuyadingeka ukuba ukhuthaze nokudumisa ingane.

Uma umama kanye obaba uthathwa ngendlela efaneleko crisis iminyaka 7 ezinganeni, iqalisa ngempela ngokushelela. Lapho edala izimo ezikahle yokutshala "izingibe" isimo esibucayi ezayo uzobe kugwenywe, nakuba Yiqiniso, akubona bonke.