Inhlawulo Isihlamba

Kunganjani bahlawuliswa ngokwephula ukugxeka? Phela, lapho emangalelwa - i kushaywa ngokomzwelo oluzoshiya lowo nemihuzuko umphefumulo kanye nezibazi. Kodwa, ngeshwa, forensic isihlamba akuyona kwenziwe futhi isitifiketi a kwenhliziyo eshayayo azivumelekile. X-ray musa khanyisa ngokomzwelo nokutubeka ubuntu. Izingxabano ungaqhubeka angajeziswa bonakalise Ukuthuka emoyeni, ekuthuthukiseni ikhono lazo asolwe, basola, isihlamba, basola, bamgwaza futhi shpynyat umhlatshelo engakhonondi. Kusukela tento ezinjalo ezibonisa okushiwo ukumangalelwa, ufuna Dodge njengoba ikhaba obulalayo. Akumangalisi ukuthi izwi has a umphefumulo. Ukuthukwa avele ukwazi ngesimo ukubhoboza ahlabayo isikhali. Ubani pin othile ngosungulo, futhi abanye imijovo yokuhlasela indlovu Ukuthuka izwe lomunye umuntu, bezama ukumisa imithetho yabo khona, futhi alethe gcwele engamela. Isihlamba - siwukubonakaliswa intukuthelo ukuhlaselwa kabi olufihliwe. Isihlamba - kuyindlela ukukhombisa ukubaluleka kwabo ukuziqhakambisa uqobo noma yokuthi kubalulekile kimi yisifiso yokushintsha enye, ngaphandle kokushintsha uqobo.

Isazi sayibuza oqumbile: "Uma isihlamba babukise umyeni wakhe, ngempela, ingabe ulindele ukuthi alungiswe futhi kuyoba anjengawe? Uma efuna ukwazi iqiniso kokushiyeka kwabo, wayeza kimi futhi abangizondayo salokhu iqiniso. Kungani wena ihlazo kubangela inzondo umyeni wayo? "

Izizathu isihlamba. Izimpande Ukuthuka wethu ukufihla njengoba ingane. Isihlamba - kuyisifo esiwufuzo. Uma abazali ngobuhle engajakadi etafuleni akazange ahlale phansi, amafayela wethu (ingqondo enganakile) zonke kungobo yomlando kufolda "eyeqisayo yokuziphatha" futhi manje peddled Ukuthuka ngoba "kuhlasela ngemilingo" komunye umuntu. Kufakwe "isiko lomkhaya" iba ngokwengqondo kulungiselelwa ukuziphatha emndenini. Uma umama, ugogo, dadewethu, intombi, uhlamvu wombhalo okukanye cinematic wadabula ukuphila izitebhisi yisihlamba, + ukuba umugqa ezinjalo zokuziphatha iba ethandwa nkosazana esencane. Lapho uthi: "Ukuthuka ayisebenzi," yambheka zatyukali, umyeni ababuthakathaka, nginenhliziyo obusinekayo abese ecabanga: "Isebenza. Ngisho njengoba umsebenzi. "

Izizathu kabi, ngaphezu izifundo, kanye peeped ebuntwaneni ukuziphatha amaphethini abadala ezininginingi. Okokuqala, kuba - esifushane okulindele. "Ngacabanga, ngibé nethemba lani, kodwa kwathi" - Lawa ngamazwi ka okulindelwe bekhohliswa futhi ashabalala amathemba. Ngangifuna ubambe yinkosana, futhi wathola okunye. Ingabe lesi akusona isizathu ukuphazamisa intukuthelo phezu icala? Ngo-career akuphumelelanga ukusola emhlabeni kanye nabanye abantu, mayelana nokuthi iziphi izinhlelo ngakho lolungenamaphutsa ukubeka Jon Inhlama -. "Kunoma ngokwayo louts" ngibasole uzivumele gnawing unembeza, ngoba ukukhohliswa okulindele.

Isihlamba akudingeki buyisa ahluleli futhi anelise imizwa yokuzibona ebalulekile. Bemanga - ithuluzi eliphumelelayo nasekuqiniseni nokuziqhenya. Uprekantu isidingo umongozima ukulondoloza ngokuhlathulula ukusebenza kwawo. Expensive izinto okukhethekile, amadayimane, izimoto, Villas, yezikebhe nothando okukhethekile kudingeka ukwandisa ukubaluleka kwayo emehlweni akhe futhi emehlweni abanye. Bese ngashaywa - umyeni (umthandi) ungafuni noma abakwazi bend okufunwa engcolile owesifazane "Kuyishwa". Esikhathini course ethuka kabuhlungu. Yena akhubeke, ayinandaba, zinomuzwa wokuthi zincishwa okuthile futhi abanelisekile. Kodwa isizathu sangempela isihlamba emizamweni yawo "ezingenalutho show-off" ukukhombisa "steepness" ukubaluleka kwabo.

Sibheke uprekanta bathinteka. Yiziphi imizwa nemizwelo kudala? Okokuqala, uxolo, ubutha futhi intukuthelo. Ngokuvamile, kuba Neurotic, indoda engajabule ibheke ngaphansi isisindo izinkinga zokuphila noma abantu ukuzibona ngiyisiphukuphuku. Kwenzeka ukuthi phambi kwethu ibuthakathaka, abantu abangenathemba, usebenzisa amandla ukusekela ammangalele Ya Futhi ngezinye izikhathi imbangela recriminations elula - nezimfanelo ezakhayo, ukusebenza ngokweqile noma ukungeneliseki ngokobulili. Uma owesifazane nokugquma ebusuku, yena grumbles suku. Ngokuvamile izimbangela isihlamba kufihlwe uprekanta nemvelo. Abanye abanayo ngobulili nasendleleni ayidingeki uma ungathola injabulo usizi nokuhlupheka komunye umuntu. Ngakho Makar, ungaphakamisa ukuzethemba kwakho, kufakazela bona ngezithukuthuku zabanye. Futhi ungakwazi futhi uthole amandla imizwelo ukuthi lichitheke ezingxabanweni ngesisekelo salezi zinsolo. Yisisulu ukumangalela umuntu "odla kwamazinyo" kuyachichima kusuka imizwa yakhe edikibalisayo, uzizwa lingenamuntu futhi walahlekelwa, futhi inqe uprekant lokhu ngokomzwelo amandla donor futhi kunalokho bazokwenza lokho nakuBafana izandla. Ngokuzayo efuna "ukudla", yena Ukuthuka futhi uvule lohlaselwayo wecala, umuzwa wesibopho noma ukwesaba ukuba umuntu ahlale yedwa.

Amafomu isihlamba. Lokhu izikhali iluma ezincane ezisetshenziswa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene bobunjwa yinqaba. Ethandwa kakhulu ngokukhuza oqondile lapho uprekant ngqo iso asolwa ngokwakha okuthile benihlambalaza isisulu, bememezela generalized abukhali kuhlola negative isikhundla. Imvelo bancishwa owesifazane e amandla, ngakho-ke kahle kahle ubuciko obungokwengqondo. Ngokuvamile ukumangalela umuntu oqondile ziveza umbono uzwela, ngendelelo futhi udelela maqondana isisulu. Ngokwesibonelo: "Uneminyaka akukho kuhle yini", "amanikiniki, hhayi umuntu", "izandla zakho kumile", "Konke ungathandi abantu." ukumangalela umuntu Direct ukumboza ukuguquguquka impahla, inattention kowesifazane ngokwakhe futhi izingane kubazali bayo, engasafuni ukuba sibhekane ngokuphumelelayo nezinkinga zasekhaya, umsebenzi ichithekile noma impilo nje: "Mina zonakale nale silo eminyakeni kunazo zonke ekuphileni kwami", "Umama wangitshela, balekela kuwo isiphukuphuku. " Uma ufuna Udosi ngaphezulu, shintsha ekumangaleleni oqondile, isithunzi isithunzi socansi yomuntu, "Wena - angiyena umuntu," "Yebo! Futhi une iholo elincane, futhi. " Kusukela Ukuthuka enjalo indoda ihlangabezana eziningi ukucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka nokungabaza iqala ukuzivocavoca yokuzingabaza, ingase iwe, futhi ukuzethemba, hhayi kuphela. kumangalelwa kubangele abantu futhi umuzwa wecala futhi ibenze ku-"leftist". Ukubopha amanxeba nokuziqhenya bomuntu bese ukufakazela ukubaluleka kwabo wesilisa uwela ohlangothini.

Ayikho ubuhlungu kancane ukumangalela umuntu ukungqubuzana noma ngeveli. Ngesikhathi inhliziyo ububi babo futhi uyiqili. Ngezinye izikhathi zizwakala kunalokho ukumangalela umuntu oqondile. Owesifazane wathi: "Uyazi, umakhelwane wathenga umkakhe imoto", "Ngokungafani ezinye umqashi wami ngempela indoda," "Yebo, ukuba Ivanova nobani ukubhukuda futhi ukubhukuda," "Futhi indoda yomngani ..." isihlamba Comparative uxhuma besithathu futhi wafundisa hhayi esivuna isisulu. kuyinto ukuze futhi lisetshenziswa isisulu waqonda ubuze nokuhlushwa.

Ukuthukwa esetshenziswa futhi ngezindlela ubonisa kanjani ukuthi uyangeneka: ukuthinta ukubukwa futhi kuthule efile. Ngu amandla umthelela ethuka non-ngamazwi akuzona eliphansi kuya nozakwabo ngamazwi, futhi ngokuvamile ungakwazi abanike engamakhulu amaphuzu abaxhwale. Khumbula "Intuthu" Turgenev, "u-Irina ngisho brow akuphakamise futhi ihlala kungahambi, ne smile okubi ngobuso belusizi; nabazali bakhe, omunye ukuthi ukumamatheka Ukuthuka iyiphi kumunyu, futhi uzizwe unecala, ucabange etholakala enecala kungekho icala le nto. "

Blame can futhi yena. Khona-ke sibhekene self-ngamahloni isibonelo "Intuthu" Turgenev sika, "Isithandwa sami! Ngineminyaka engu ubusuku bonke ecabanga isiphakamiso sakho ... mina ngeke dissemble nawe .... Angikwazi ukusebenzisa nawe, angikwazi ukukwenza. Ngizizwa sengathi ngisemgodini icala phambi kwakho; wesibili kwakuyiphutha lami ngaphezulu ngowokuqala - ngiyayidelela ngokwami, wobugwala yami, mina yithela Ukuthuka yena, kodwa angikwazi ukushintsha ngokwami ". A okufana self-Ukuthuka kukhona Isihlamba unembeza.

    Yini abantu ukwenzani Ukuthuka? Abaningi benze lutho, ngoba recriminations - kuyinto ukhululekile bayazazi kusukela ebuntwaneni umugqa zokuziphatha. Esikhaleni ka Ukuthuka kubo njengoba ekhululekile njengoba inhlanzi emanzini. Imibhangqwana eminingi siphile Ngokombono wabo, okufanelekelayo futhi ujabulise, omunye akhombe omunye kaningi ngosuku. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi elimazayo amandla isihlamba sashintsha iphimbo. Kuyadingeka ukuthi buviyoviyo kwakuzwakala amanothi "ukushayisana". kukhona ezinye amagama ingoma Vaenga "Yebo", "Yebo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wena wathi, Kuyinto kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, futhi kanjani." Kule 'kanjani "okuningi kuncike. Indida, kodwa kukhona futhi isihlamba emnene. Ngokwesibonelo, e "Ace" Turgenev sika: "Gagin bangibingelela ngendlela enobungane, ngigezwe kimi ngesihlamba mnene."

Amathiphu zendlela asuse isihlamba zokuphila kwakhe.

        Iningi esasimangalelwe ezingelona iqiniso. umama indodakazi ubiza kanye uyakhononda: "Mama, lo umyeni ngabongi futhi singathandi ukudla nokunye okufana nokolweni" - "Ndodakazi, futhi umtshela ukuthi uzama, lapho ukupheka!" - "Op-Panko, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuba apheke ??! .. "isihlamba - i kokungenela ezimpilweni zethu, yisifiso sokwenza ukuba senze ngokuhambisana okulindele kwabanye. Sabeka intando angaphandle kanye yomunye abafisa ukubuyela ukuba uprekanta ukulawula indawo. Kodwa asihlali lokho okulindelwe abanye, futhi banelungelo kube ngokwabo, futhi nomunye. Uprekant ngokuvamile 'sizakhele ubungane' nomuntu ongeyena Kulungile ukubaluleka yabo futhi umuzwa wecala. Ngezinye izikhathi uma nje kwanele ukusho uprekantu ukuthi ngeke akubekezelele icala ayeke futhi uxoxe efana naleyo, uma iqhubeka.

Kasibili ayikwazi nyama. Kuyinto Axiom. Ziba ukugxeka akuzona kuhlale kuwukuhlakanipha - kungaba avuse ubudlova nakakhulu. Ungakwazi ukuhumusha yonke amahlaya, kodwa akukaze kuthethelelwe. Izaba - ubufakazi bokuba necala. Owesifazane umuntu eqhuma imizwelo ungase ngokungazi aphahluke okuthé xaxa. Izaba you ngokuzuma ukuqinisekisa ubuqiniso yokumangalelwa wakhe. Hhayi ezivikela kangcono lalela izizathu sokusola, futhi uma zinzima, cabanga ngendlela ukuziphatha kwabo ukuze zingasivimbi ukuba esikhathini esizayo. Ungaphendula isihlamba indida. Ngakho le nkulumo, "Wena sonke isikhathi siphuthelwa kudoti" singaphendula ngokuphepha: "Into esemqoka ukuthi njalo Ngithole yena kwenye indawo."

Yini utsintsa kithi uprekant? On the umuzwa wecala, abanye bazizwa bephoqelekile ukulifunda kanti ukwesaba yesizungu. Ingabe ufuna ukushiya le nhlangano ebizwa ngokuthi abantu njalo lihlanjalazwa, ubonise bonke abalandeli ukumangalelwa ngokuthi ungenawo pick up on the imizwa yecala, umuzwa ngokweqile of duty nokwesaba nokuba wedwa. Ngakho ukuphuca ikhaya uprekanta yakho isizathu sokuthola iphutha.

Isihlamba - lokhu indumiso uphawu lokususa. Uma umuntu exakwe Ukuthuka ke wasicolisisa udumo. Ngakho-ke, kudingeka ukudonsa emfucumfucwini wokudumisa. Lapho yisikwele emahlombe akhe, ukumangalela umuntu wanqamuka nentshiseko noma ukubaleka izivakashi njengoba bengamenyiwe. Indlela Qiniseka ukugcina indoda - simdumise siqinise. Uma ufuna indoda yakho bafeza into - simdumise siqinise. Uma ufuna indoda yakho wacabanga bekunguwe ebukekayo kakhulu futhi ezikhangayo - simdumise siqinise. Khumbula ukuthi kungamanga lokhu abasebenza kuwe. Man - lesi senzo futhi injongo. Lo wesifazane - isimo ubuhlobo futhi isifiso. Ukuthukwa ukubhubhisa ubudlelwano, nokwakha udumo. Ubuhlobo Builder - owesifazane.

Nikeza uthando kakhulu futhi ukunakekela beloveds yabo. Khona-ke uyoba bayakhohlwa Ukuthuka ngokunembile.