Indlela yokuphatha umuntu? Ukubuyekezwa kwe izindlela ezitholakalayo

Abantu Ukuphathwa - iphupho kubantu abaningi. Kungenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene (ukucasuka, isifiso linqobe), futhi ingase kahle kungabi ngokudingeka (kuphatsa basebenti). Ngandlela-thile, kodwa mayelana nendlela yokuphatha umuntu, wayebhala lomtapo wezincwadi uqweqwe yasungulwa izindlela eziningi ezahlukene. Nazi nje ezinye zazo.

Indlela yokuphatha abantu? Psychology bophula

Bathi ngesikhathi kakhulu Adolfa Shiklgrubera (Hitler) etafuleni kwaba incwadi ebizwa ngokuthi "Psychology kwabo", kungenca ke wakwazi ukwenza ukulalela izwi lakho bese ulandela ngaso sonke isikhathi-agumenti kuthethelelwe. Nokho, bathi okufanayo futhi mayelana uStalin. Kodwa noma kunjalo, lezi umholi ezimbili ezivelele ngempela, lakwazi kahle indlela yokuphatha abantu bese ngempumelelo bonke basebenzisa ulwazi lwabo.

Okuvame kakhulu indlela ukulawula abantu kubhekwa i igunya eminyaka. Ikakhulukazi uma kwakunjalo ozithandayo kazwelonke kanye nomholi ozalwa okwaziyo ukubhekana izinkulumo zabo emagumbini ezifihlekile kakhulu umphefumulo. Kulokhu, ufuna noma cha, kufanele kugcwaliseke "ngaphezu". Kungenjalo, ngokwehluleka ngentando yomuntu, elinde isijeziso, ngokuma eduze abangamawele. Kodwa ngisho noma lokhu okwakwenzeke, eliphikisa njalo Ngikulindele idumela alithembekile, okuyinto futhi indima ethile.

Labo are ngobuqili ngaphezulu, usebenzisa izindlela ezicashile, okuyinto manje obizwa ngokuthi izincwadi ezintathu kwabaningi esabekayo - NLP, okusho "izinhlelo neurolinguistic", noma kanjani ukuphatha indoda ngamazwi kanye contact ubonisa kanjani ukuthi uyangeneka. Ngezindlela eziningi, indlela ephumelelayo, ulwazi kanye nokusetshenziswa ezingasiza ngempela ukukholisa interlocutor kumuntu umbono othile. Kodwa le ndlela asifanele ukulawula namaqembu wabantu.

Sebenza uquqaba kanye Nokwehla yimpumelelo ukuba iqembu lakhe ukufundisa Carsten Bredemaier 'nangempahla yakhe mpendulo omnyama. " Kugcugcutela ngivuke ezinsikeni zawo, lokhu umnumzana isebenzisa izindlela ababezibheka hhayi qotho ukuthi edume ngokuthi ukusabisa. Nokhoke ikhona inqubekelaphambili kanti lapho, futhi okuhle kunakho konke, nezindlela zayo umsebenzi, ngisho neqembu elincane.

Indlela yokuphatha umuntu? izindlela kwesiko

izindlela Folk kukhona zakudala futhi ajwayelekile sonke kusukela ebuntwaneni. Uqinisile, bebizwa "ikhono lokukholisa". Ubani ongaphika ingane, ikakhulukazi uma kubonakala pitifully ngamehlo babo abangenacala, okuyindawo kancane Rolls ngoba unyembezi izinyembezi. Futhi uma esikhundleni Ingane intombi yakhe? Kubonakala sengathi abangontanga ihlukile, futhi umphumela ofanayo. Phela, lo wokuqala ukuthi yesibili aziwa ikhono lakhe "ngawakhamela out" umswakama emehlweni akhe noma ukhale ngaphandle kwesizathu.

Indlela yokuphatha umuntu ngosizo magic?

Ngisho ohlangothini esoteric khona kwethu yehlelwa zijabulisa ukuthola othile ukuze afeze intando yakhe, ngenkathi nokuba amabanga amade uma liya kusuka isisulu ekhethiwe. Yezindlela ezivamile yokulutha ukhumbule (it is okubhekiselwa kuzo nangokuthi magic, nakuba kuyinto aphakeme yokwelapha esezingeni) kanye envoltirovanie (voodoo onodoli nokunye okunjalo). Mayelana ukusebenza ngempumelelo kwalezindlela zokudlulisela kungenziwa yahlulelwe sitholwa kuphela yilabo wanqotshwa nomphumela ofanayo.