Imigomo ye isakramente ubhapathizo: kukangaki ungakwazi kube ummeli wesifazane noma ibhapathizwa ukuba ingane?

"Singakanani isikhathi kube kungaba ummeli wesifazane?" - Ngivame ukuzwa lo mbuzo abangane abathile, lapho kuziwa christening yengane kothile. Kungihlaba umxhwele ukuntula kwabo okuphelele ulwazi ngale ndaba! Zithi okwathi ngemva kokubhapathizwa kwakhe umuntu oyedwa ingane yesibili ayisekho lokuqala godson yakhe. Ukuze umbuzo wami: "Kungani ucabanga kanjalo?" - bayaphendula: "Angimazi, ngicabanga kanjalo." Nokho, izakhamuzi, uma yaleso sizathu, ngisho nokufelana isono - futhi kungazelelwe it okungalungile ... Awu, sekuyisikhathi sixoshe wonke amahemuhemu kanye ukungabaza mayelana kukangaki lapho ungakhululeka khona ummeli wesifazane! Lesi sihloko I ukunikezela lokuqala bonke abangane bakhe, futhi-ke, wena, abafundi bami abathandekayo! Ake ngiqale ibanganyana, futhi ukwethula kini ukuba amagama athile ayisisekelo choice abaqondisi abangokomoya izingane zabo. Kubalulekile ukuba singenzi amaphutha! Khumbula, i-ibhapathizwa (noma umama) - a eluleka ingane yakho. Khetha kuphela kulabo abazobhapathizwa ngubani ocabanga ukuthi uzokwazi ukunikeza ingane amagugu angokomoya ... Ngaphezu kwalokho, umthetho main yayiyindlela okulandelayo: I umeluleki ngokomoya umntanakho kufanele kube abantu bobulili obufanayo bokushintsha izakhi zofuzo njengekhambi enganeni. Kodwa manje, le mfuneko kancane lula, futhi ngenxa yalokho kungenziwa kukhethwe njengoba indoda nowesifazane. Into esemqoka ukuthi babengakwazi nomfazi, kwakungewona nomunye uxhumano obuseduze, kokubili babengamakholwa Orthodox.

On the Cross anomthwalo wemfanelo phambi kukaNkulunkulu owalandela yabo. Ngakho-ke, ngikweluleka ukuba sicabangele amalungu omkhaya noma abangane abaseduze, hhayi abangane kanye nezintombi. Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi futhi kwenzeka ukuthi abangane abangane abaseduze ezingaphezu kuka izihlobo zabo. Nokho, lapho sifika into esemqoka - kukangaki ungakwazi kube ibhapathizwa noma unina? Lokho mina uyoyinikela isahluko ehlukene esihlokweni sakhe. Ngakho, qhubeka! Zingaki izikhathi lapho ungakhululeka khona ummeli wesifazane noma ibhapathizwa ukuba ingane?

Isithandwa sami u- abangane abafuna babe abazali abangokomoya! Ungaba muntu enabo Inani lezikhathi! Yebo, ncamashi! Lapha, asikho isizathu esamukelekayo sifaniso, "imikhawulo"! Into ebaluleke kakhulu - ukukhumbula imithwalo yabo ngqo godson yakhe. Yazi ukuthi ungumnikazi phambi kukaJehova e-Sacrament imithwalo yemfanelo ethé xaxa ukuze athole godson yakhe. Ubokhumbula njalo-ke, uma uba abazali abangokomoya kubantwana eziningana, sicela, ungakhohlwa ukuthatha ukuhlanganyela ngenkuthalo impilo ngamunye wabo ukuba abathandazele, futhi noma kunjalo abayeki ukuba uxoxe nabo!

Ngokungangabazeki, iSonto Lobu-Orthodox futhi Abefundisi ikakhulu, ukukuphika ezihlukahlukene 'emsulwa "aqagela kukangaki lapho ungakhululeka khona ummeli wesifazane nengane. Izimangalo ukuthi godson lokuqala umuntu oye ube umzali ezingokomoya okwesibili, is ayisekho kubhekwa, ethathwa kanjalo - ke uyihaba kakhulu.

1. Okokuqala, zonke ubhapathizo, uzibophezele yibo bonke imithetho namasiko, isebenza futhi ngeke sihlehliswe. Baby Musa esiphambanweni!
2. Okwesibili, uma kuqhathaniswa nabangu-abazali bezwe, kuvela ukuthi ngesikhathi ekuzalweni komntanakhe lesibili kudingeka ukuzidela! Kodwa lokhu akunangqondo!

Ngakho, kuhle yami! Zingaki izikhathi kungaba ube ummeli wesifazane (noma uyise)? Kunjalo - i isibalo esingapheliyo! Ngithemba lolu lwazi libe lusizo kakhulu kuwe, futhi wena, yena, athembisa ayisekho kufuthwe izingxabano obscure futhi izimpi emhlabeni ngempela iqiniso elisobala. UNkulunkulu akubusise!